Failed Relationship with MPA

[JaimeWolf]

Wait until you come across a provider who is working the job short term to pay for her wedding.

 

[Johnny O]

We here to share experiences, information and advice. I will respect your views and ask the same.

Trolls wrecked this forum once before.

These forums are for everyone to read and express their views, opinions, experiences, etc.. there is no need to go overboard with insulting eachother or insulting the providers that service you. We all know what the industry is like, and many end up exploring the fantasy outside the spa and fail, not because they didnt want it or tried hard enough it's because the money is easy, and most of us cant afford to give these woman a lifestyle they are use to. It's a double edged sword anyway you look at it, and if you read numerous postings the odds are stacked against you. If you cant accept their present or past, then dont even engage in it, and if you do enjoy the ride but dont fall knee deep, unless your giving her oral , lol .

 

[c1000]

There are so many good girls out there. As a man you have to value yourself and being particular with woman is a part of valuing yourself.

Who was she?

 

[Johnny O]

There are so many good girls out there. As a man you have to value yourself and being particular with woman is a part of valuing yourself.

Who was she?

She is someone I use to know, but I really didnt know the full extent. Lessons learned.

 

[Homerun001]

Hey JohnnyO, you are not the first and won't be the last. Time heals all right ? Get back out there and hobby around and you will soon enough forget about your ordeal. No one has the right or wrong answers just keep moving forward brother.

 

[Shag]

I’ve been lurking here a couple of years, and only recently decided to register.

It’s easy to see how the business dehumanizes all, both the mpa and the customers. It reduces a basic human need to a commodity. And it’s a need that is hard to separate from other needs. The women are looking for safety and security. Some men are willing to provide, but the women are wary, and always want options open, just in case.

It doesn’t generally work well, especially if there is a mismatch in character and ambition. The man better be able to provide, and he needs to select an independently ambitious young lady, who truly wants to leave the life. It can work if all conditions are right.

I used to hobby a lot, and had fun. I hated the fs shops, and gravitated to the legits and semis. I met a young lady one day and decided to repeat. I saw her a few times, then she asked me out. After a few dates, she revealed she had a live in boyfriend. I told her if she wanted me, then she would have to deal with that. She kicked him out. She was 20 at this point. A couple of months later, she moved in with me. We celebrate 15yrs of marriage this year.

She went on to graduate college, then university, and finally to get some serious professional designations, and soon a masters degree. Her salary is about to top 6 figures, while mine has always been a very strong 6 figures, even when we were first married. There are women in the business worth meeting and getting to know, but you won’t find them if you are looking for bbbj or fs. With that type of woman, you find desperation and damage.

I gotta say, the handle freaks me out. When I started reading, I swear there was only 2 6's

freaked me right out.

If you think about it
isn't there something about 666

 

[Foreigner]

I gotta say, the handle freaks me out. When I started reading, I swear there was only 2 6's

freaked me right out.

If you think about it
isn't there something about 666

Naw. Propaganda by religious folks...

No relation to peter66

 

[henricas]

We all have been there, I once fell for an MP who was 10 years younger and new to the business.
Her "innocence" is what got me. We went for walks near her home and to dinners. I would drive her to and from work etc.
Din't feel like GF, BF relationship, but it didn't feel like I was seeing an MP either.
After 4 months I opened my eyes after run into her in four separate occasions with different clients.
I was just one of many she was fooling.

 

[Davelovezcurves]

Honestly, if you're not rich or wealthy it's not worth it. They are there for the money. They will lie and tell you your special but after you leave another guy is in the room. She sucking or fucking him next.

I have an sp who I tell her all the time just give up the life and come with me. We have been seeing each other for years. She can't. They will almost always have a few regulars who will pay top dollar to see them. So trust will be an issue. I say enjoy the ride. Don't get sucked in. Even if you meet outside the spa. You need a hefty bank account to afford the lifestyle they are used to and desire.

Best advice just keep it in the room enjoy the fantasy

 

[King Arthur]

Yes they all lie all the time. They lie without thinking about it because that is what is normal to them and yes they keep sugardaddies on the side. Plus what the white knights dont realize is that the girls dont respect you no matter how nice you are to them. To them you will be always be a trick so it is good to remember that she is always a whore. Keep it all business and it will be happier.

 

[Blue58]

Wait until you come across a provider who is working the job short term to pay for her wedding.

Have you met an MPA who was working to pay for her wedding? That would be wack.

 

[Pay2Play]

All women are Cunts. It's splitting hairs to claim that escorts are bad but Civie women are better.

Women are incapable of being decent human beings.

They take and take and take, then they find a new Target.

Watch Bear Grylls when he challenged women to survive on an island without the help of men, who were also building their own survival camp. The women, literally, cant survive on their own and they start manipulating men to get what they cant get on teir own.

This thread has a lot of credibility but not all women are weak and useless as you perceive them to be. Sex workers are nothing more than insecure women who learned they can get a lot of attention and a ton of money to fill their needs.

 

[Davelovezcurves]

Yes they all lie all the time. They lie without thinking about it because that is what is normal to them and yes they keep sugardaddies on the side. Plus what the white knights dont realize is that the girls dont respect you no matter how nice you are to them. To them you will be always be a trick so it is good to remember that she is always a whore. Keep it all business and it will be happier.

Exactly lying becomes normal to them. Your just a customer. The 1 in a million chance you meet one who is for real and not their to drain all your accounts is possible .But I said 1 in a million do u really think your that one? Probably not

 

[cupcrazy]

All women are whores. Just some are more whorish than others.

But they are all similar in their behaviour.

Your Mother is a peice-of-shit, dirtbag whore. Remember that. Yes, your Mother.

you basically insulted your wife in the process lol.

 

[Mr.YMMV]

Almost got into that web until i took a hold of myself and slapped myself silly. When you actually realize that you will be having a relationship with a woman who has sucked, licked, deep throated, swallowed every ethnicity out there and she will regurgitate all that into your mouth as you DFK. I dont know if that wont turn you gay but, that sht is nasty.

Goodluck.

 

[cupcrazy]

i recently started to like a mpa
she was genuine
opened up to me
i could tell it was real
never asked me for anything

is that how it starts?
omfg

i pulled back
we still chat
always pleasant

but she fucks
a whole bunch of dudes

nmcot

you started to get to know her. Don't be so sure.

 

[Pay2Play]

you basically insulted your wife in the process lol.

He is a disrespectful coward. He aways has been and he always will be.

 

[krayjee]

Have you met an MPA who was working to pay for her wedding? That would be wack.

Have you ever met a BF or HB who was sitting at the front desk while his GF or wife was playing with different guys in the room? Both ladies are spa owners. I just lost words for that.

 

[hobbyist]

Wait until you come across a provider who is working the job short term to pay for her wedding.

And then doesn't quit after the wedding. Been there, seen that.

 

[Pay2Play]

Have you ever met a BF or HB who was sitting at the front desk while his GF or wife was playing with different guys in the room? Both ladies are spa owners. I just lost words for that.

Can you share once you find the words?