Falling for an MPA

[ilovemybestfriends]

This is exactly what I thought girls would say behind our backs when I first started.

But in my experience at several MPs, this is the exception rather than the norm. And I spend better part of many months in waiting room at one place. Perhaps girls I met are more professional and I don't think they act that different with me around.

The few times this happened was few arragont SOB guys who bragged about being so rich, cars, house, important career, suits, etc. to intentionally belittle the MPA but also tried to shortchange or rip the girls off. Or claimed he should get FS as he can get it from other MP for $20, etc.

There so much I like to get into but my time is limited probably won't get around to it.


My point: There are some really nice ladies in this biz.
And works out for fortunately few, prehaps amazing journey but it take work.

If either of you don't have the right 'stuff' - attitude, honesty, understanding, tolerance, and mental toughness, then losing $ is the least of your worries.

 

[MGSA]

I'll choose to stay on my 20, thanks.

kkarn/

 

[Bret]

I never thought it would happen to me. I would always laugh at those who have fallen for an MPA and thought to myself that if I wanted a girlfriend, then I'd just get a girlfriend. To me an MPA is about no strings attached fun.

Well it happened to me. I don't think I'm in love with her since love can only develop over a long period of time after a deep emotional, mental and spiritual connection has been made. But I think she is so beautiful and she seems to kinda like me too. Maybe it's just an act on her part but if so, it's a good act. I think I'm really obsessed with her but I don't know if it's healthy because I fear she is just telling me what she tells me and doing the things she does for me to keep me coming back. In other words I fear it's all business. And at this point I'm really sensitive to being hurt like that, even though I know it would be mostly my fault.

Part of me wants to not worry and if I had loads of cash, I wouldnt' worry too much. I just wonder, wish sometimes, if she cares for me more than just as a nice customer.

I don't know what to do and I need some advice from the experts. I'm at a loss.

 

[Makaio]

The truth is that when two human beings genuinely enjoy each others' company, who is to say that they can't indulge a bit? Even if it is wrong, even if both know it can't go that far. In fact they should do something about it because it's wrong and because there is an expiry date on it.

Life is interesting, no reason to muzzle it with paranoia.

 

[TheGoldenGael]

Great, another one bites the dust.

If you want a real reality check -

1) Check her reviews - you're not special
2) PM the guys who have seen her - you're not special
3) Tell her how you feel - (best reality check) You're not special.

If number 3 fails then maybe you are special.

 

[dvdljns]

Update: I have decided to stop going to this MPA. I will in fact take some time off and regroup. I don't have a reason to believe she did me any wrong, but really I can't afford to go every week.

I don't know what else I can tell you guys. I think she's beautiful and looks terrific. I'm an average young white guy who's in decent shape. I've been told I'm well endowed but I'm sure we've all been told that so really it's meaningless. I suppose it's possible that she has some attraction to me, but it doesn't really happen in real life. That is maybe why I was starving for some attention and was left vulnerable. And that's why I have such a hard time figuring the situation out and decided that the best idea is to step back, regroup and refocus and gather back my wits.

 

[Robert Cordiak]

It's only bussiness for her sorry.

 

[Bobby]

There are many MPA's; one or more of them is likely to be just your type.
So you find a nice, attractive one, combine it wtih some nudity and more, and the hormones are bound to rage.

Even the most mercenary of us have gone home thinking "wow. sure would be great if..."

But this is how she earns her living. She sells fantasy; she's paid to make you feel that way. (Nevertheless, I imagine that some MPA's go home once in a while after meeting a nice client thinking "wow. sure would be great if...")

The posters who replied have some good advice. Do a search on her. PM the reviewers. I haven't seen any postings that talk about these situations having a happy ending. Good luck.

 

[The awesomest person ever]

Speaking from experience,

The ride was an up and down roller coaster, real high and real low.

But the experience is some thing I would never have missed.

You only live once, so I say take a chance on any experiences.

If they don't work out, so what?



Like my old football coach used to say..... these are character building experiences.

 

[zola237]

If you like her ask her out for a coffee nothing serious just to hang out if she says yes then once you have her outside work tell her how you feel, if she doesn't feel the same way then it's time to find another MP.

 

[Desdamona]

I've told this one before, but it's my fav. and I think it really gets the point across - I know WrongHole likes it...

I used to see this MPA on a takeout basis, still do every once in a while. She would come to my office and we would fuck like wild beasts. Like clock work her boyfriend would call just as I was comming in her mouth, on her face or somewhere nice and dirty. She would joke when I was close to cumming that "boyfriend" (she'd use his real name) should be calling shortly. She'd call him back when it was good for her (ie. needed a lift) and when he would ask where she was she'd lie of course.

This particular MPA was regarded on this board as a "fairly low millage, really nice girl". LOL! Can you imagine what some of the high millage, not so nice girls are into?

I've seen some girls on a Take Out basis and ALWAYS keep it to business. Trust me on this piece of advice: If she really gets you off good, don't fuck it up by playing into her game - always PAY for your PLAY and you will be fucking her as long as YOU like.

kkarn

 

[Demsmierda]

That's not what I heard! I heard you could very well be a Valentino impersonator, except in colour of course, shredded to the bone, with an 11" python in your pants.

 

[Marc M]

Whatever, I knew I'd get picked on for posting that. You comletely missed my point. I wasn't trying to show off.

 

[Marthinus]

I'm not sure what YOUR talking about. That's what I heard.

 

[-~~Rain~~-]

It's business for her but there are odd occassion they might catch feelings.

We are all human

 

[will s]

IMO, you've made an excellent choice!

Going to rub 'n tugs, strip clubs and whoring it up every so often is about male fun!

kkarn/

 

[Cornflakes]

kthxbai ^_^




Yeah. It's not like she'll miss me. Maybe my money, but I'm sure there are other suckers out there.

 

[SPAY YOUR MUTT!]

I was that boyfriend you f#$ker... and I know what you taste like...

I have only "dated" a couple of girls from the industry, and I agree that in general it's a bad idea. But then again, dating girls from outside the industry is also just a crap shoot, and you are just as likely to get a gold digger
"civilian", so to me it does not really matter.

When I have "dated" an industry girl, it usually involves going for drinks or dinner and dancing. The "fee" that I pay is the dinner and drinks, and whatever happens after that I do not expect to be on the clock.

One girls asked me to take her out on her day off. She told me she was attracted to me and all that she wanted to go out with me.

I agreed... we went to dinner and drinks etc.. We had alot of fun, and we ended fucking until it was time for me to go to work... I"thought" it was great. The next time I saw her at work, she asked me if I would pay this time. sound of air letting out of slow's balloon I asked her if I she expected me to pay the last time. The answer was "yes". I paid her rate, and learned a valuable lesson that day.

 

[`Jana]

Hey Waraxe,

Just wanted to welcome you to the club. I'll get down to business as its what you want.

If she mutually feels the same way you do, she'll tell you that she's uncomfortable seeing you as a client. She'll invite you to see her outside the spa instead. Which is the healthiest thing to do, and it truly separates her "act" and allows her the space to be herself with you.

Also, if she is uncomfortable accepting your money. If she is, the gentlemanly thing to do is insist on paying for her time, as it is a business still. But if this does happen, this is a good sign for you my friend.

Yes, what some of these reviewers say is true, there are MPA's who are good at addicting you to a fantasy of a GFE. But there are also women who can be taken off guard and intrigued enough to really want to see you in a normal circumstance.

Good luck to you. I really do hope things work out for you.

 

[Vennice D]

For most of these girls, it's not just about making [easy] money, it's about making that [easy] money as easily as possilbe - so sure, why not get it from a young, clean, in shape simple guy vs. the old geezer who smells regardless of how much you hose him down. That's the level she may miss you on - you are replaceable, but just not as quickly.

The way a lot of these girls are wired, you could look like Brad Pitt and have the charm of a Prince and while you might get a piece of ass, she's still not going to be "into you" in a traditiional sence. However, maybe with Brad Pitt's cash an arrangement could be worked out.

kkarn/