First trip report

[magicbird]

great TR WaikikiJ, nice to read!
so you're going back to Patong?? :whistle:

 

[Davycrop]

"This is a true bachelors paradise"

Well...that's not exactly correct, it is however, a paradise!

 

[June V]

te: te: Thanks for the memories! te: te:
Sounds just like my second tour, except I was there for two months, and after I left Phuket, went to BKK and Chiang Mai, but ended up back in Phuket, because I couldn't stop thinking about the girl. After I left, we emailed for a couple months, then suddenly the emails stopped coming. When I next saw her, she gave me a ****-and-bull story that her daughter was playing with the computer at the internet, while she was talking to a friend there, and accidentally changed her password, so she was locked out of her account and could not email me. Her friend didn't have time to get the official story and gave me a whole different story/excuse for her. Then I thought back on everything that happened and realized that it was all an elaborate game they played.

That was 5 yrs ago. Flash forward to last year. Met a girl my last week in Pattaya. Heard the whole tearful tale of woe, of her supporting her "elderly" parents, sister and brother. A tale of poverty, hardship, and heartache. How she wanted to get out of the bar scene, hated Pattaya, hated working at the bar, wanted to have another child, and live a normal life, etc. She had me hook, line, and sinker. Yet I still knew better than to send her money. That did not deter her from exchanging emails with me several times a week, until I returned 7 months later, in November. I've never gone there that early in the new season, but moved up my schedule to be with her. I got there, and moved into her room with her. Found out in the intervening months, she had picked up 2 sponsors who were sending her 30K/month. Learned she was obsessed with style, both in clothes, dance, and music. Had to be wearing the right brands, doing the right dance moves, constantly refining and perfecting her "look." Visited her elderly parents, who, as it turned out, were 49 yrs old, and live in a nice, large home on large acreage, and own a good deal of sugar cane land, as does she, and she has a herd of cattle, as well. It's true they don't work, except to harvest the sugar cane. The rest of the time it is a life of leisure, driving the new truck she has bought them, and spending the money she sends them.

Nevertheless, I like her Dad and got on OK with her Mom, and I liked the peaceful Isaan life. I asked her if she would stay there in Isaan with me, and I would continue to pay her 1000 Baht per day. She chose to go back to Pattaya. As much as she complained about Pattaya, and working the bar(which she hadn't done in awhile, since she had me plus 2 sponsors), she chose to go back to Pattaya because the truth is that Isaan is too boring for her now, even though she has a new computer with hookup via satellite dish, and would sit for hours playing video games. When I last saw her, before I left Pattaya, she was back at the bar, having left me some time before that, and lost one of her sponsors, when he learned she was in Pattaya, and she refused to go back to Isaan, or stop working in the bar.

She was just turned 23 the week before I met her a year ago. A very pretty girl, and once upon a time, when she was a teenager, a girl of of exceptional beauty, of the caliber that only a few top models and actresses possess. I know that from the pictures her Mom showed me at their home. I thought she looked great when I met her, but was really startled when I saw what she looked like a few years earlier.

I could go on, but you get the picture. The way these girls, especially if they are very pretty or even beautiful, have of weaving their web of sad stories around you, gaining your sympathy, making you feel special, and getting you to fall for them, is, I think, what makes Thai women legendary around the world. In reality, there are beautiful women wherever you go, but how many of them can do that to you, the way the TGs do?

I am not complaining, mind you. It was an incredible, exciting time. When I was with her, I felt more alive than I can describe. The last night we spent together, I remember sitting on the mat at the jim jum place, eating by candlelight under the stars above, gazing into her face, and thinking that there was not anywhere in the world that I would rather be, and how lucky I was to be there. But in the middle of the night, we had another argument, this one because I insisted she share the blanket with me, and she refused. Like a little kid, she then threw a tantrum, because I wasn't giving in so easily, dressed, and stomped out the door. Her parting words were, "I hate you! Go find somebody else to f*ck!" It was finally time to take her advice, as there comes a point where you just can't let your self-esteem drop any lower. But it was a great ride while it lasted, and I have no regrets.

But don't let me rain on your parade, WakikiJ. I am sure your girl is "different." Because you most likely connected with her in a more profound way. After all, there were those two magical nights with her, right?

 

[David G]

I and many other men know how you feel, I got hooked on a gorgeous girl with a personality like no other thai girl I have met. Although on my first trip to Los I had other girls I couldn't get this particular girl out of my head and eventualy went back to los to see her and bring her to australia and get engaged, while it felt like she genuinely loved me, her mother had the ultimate say and guilted her in to leaving me, nothing I could do about this situation except to lose the girl I loved. Am headed back to Los in september and fingers crossed I will be able to get back on the horse and move on from this girl.
I am very keen to see some discos for the first time and try my luck at the after bar hours p4p scene also try some less tourist populated night spots in phuket town. Keep us posted about your thai girl blues.

 

[Alex (the chick version)]

I hear you Jb but that was 3 nights!!! 3 fabulous nights....5555. That was almost 2 weeks ago when I wrote that and I'm over it. I wrote my TR based on emails I wrote to a friend who wanted to be informed about LOS since he wasn't able to come. But really fun memories and feelings I've not had for over 10 or more years. Having lived in 3 different island resort destination frequented by female Japanese tourist all my life, I'm pretty familiar with the games or romance that goes on at a resort destinations. Except, where I come from, it's the other way around where the local guys are the bg's and the falang are female tourists:yes: Asian women warm, soft, smooth and pink. Handle with care....

 

[sentenna]

I finaly made an effort to go out and have fun since I'm stuck in Pataya and won't be able to see my favorite BG. I offerd my favorite if she wnated to come to Bangkok instead of me going to Phuket but she never mentioned it in her text msgs-We text each other often, maybe four times a day and we finaly got to talk again last night which made me very happy. I bought a phone before coming Thailand and it came very handy.

Anyway, yesterday, my day started with a body to body saopy massage. the girl I choose was 22 and petite and cute. I came at the right time 4:00pm cause all the girls were availabe and some were hot and otheres were average. I heard if you come at the wrong time the selection is very limited to just the average lookers. I choose Nom, 22 years old. She started off by having me lay down naked on an inflatable bed, and with all the suds, stared massaging me with her naked body face down and then face up. After taht she had me soaked in a warm tub for a few minutes and later joined me to scrub my body and rinse me off. This was like a gentlemans spa treatment except everything in the menu to BJ, HJ, and FS is included with your therapist. After I dried myself with a towel she had me proceed to the bed and_________(you jokesters will have fun doing this). That was after 30-40 or so minutes, and I actually had an hour more with her. Probably the rest of the time she could have given me a massage but I was already disapointed at that point. Got dress and left. On my way out I told the manger my experience and I was disapointed and he said if I wanted to shot again it would cost another 500baht. The total cost for a soapy was 1800 baht or $55. I got a 200 baht discount. I would definitely recommend it if you've never tried it. It beats a regular massage.

I went to the dance clubs that night and there were alot of gilrs and also a lot of guys. The ratio was pretty even. The girls in the dance clubs aren't really that agressive here compared to the ones in Bangkok and Phuket. There weren't a lot of good looking once too just average in my book. There were some nice ones but they didn't seem very approachable. I think if they didn't stand around as groups then guys would actually come over and talk to them.

The guys and the girls here seem to be a little bit more on the cautious side too. It is weird. Or the guys here are probably more picky and the girls too shy to come on strong. After being in the club for an hour listening to a hip hop band-they were really good, I asked the furst cutie standing next to me her name and how old she was. She is 24. I asked her is she wants to come with me for a Long time and she said how much I pay her. I said 1500 baht. She was happy with that and I was happy I didn't have to negotiate cause that ruins some of the excitement. In the room asked her take a shower together she said okay. I soaped her body down and felt every inch of her and she seemed to like it cause she reciprocated by washing my back and my legs too. She was small petite and very cute. Anyway, after shower we went straight to bed and started the usual drill kissing, hugging, caressing and _________(please fill in the blanks you jokers). We both couldn't sleep afterwards and what better way to kill time-repeat act 1. In the morning I was still thrilled from the episodes we had that night, that thinking about it made me excited again. We repeated act 1 and act 2.

We had lunch the next day and she gave me her number to call her again if I want company. I might actually call her tonight, my last night, for a short time. I have to check out early morning tomorrow, and I have a taxi pick me up at 4:30am for a two hour ride to Bangkok to catch my flight at 8:10am.

I guess overall, it's the attitude that will make or break a vacation. I was sad I had to leave my favorite BG but there's always next time, next year, that I'll see her again. I know I will....

p.s. these TRs were excerpts from an email to a friend who couldn't make it to LOS with me. Thank you very much and I appreciate your time reading it.

 

[livingdead]

Thanks for the updated reports - they are quite entertaining.

It sounds like you have already picked it up, but yeah it pays to keep yourself in the mindset that you are on vacation and these extended LT's are merely holiday 'flings', nothing more, nothing less.

Treat it as anything more and it will continue to do your head in once your back home.

Keep up the good work and enjoy it while it lasts!

 

[912project.com]

Cheap Charlie? 2 for the price of 1

 

[mandiimo aka: amanda]

I never seen him in action, so I think you should ask him.

I wasn't there was I. So it was just a guess. :ange:

 

[Cage]

Good read thanks for sharing. Only 4 months to go now

 

[Cady]

OK, I hate to be a nit-picker....HOWEVER.....in your first post you stated:

So, the first night you BFed a girl from MTB. On the 2nd night, you ended up back at MTB with the same girl, and took her to your loom again. Four minus two = two. So that leaves 2 nights with the one you fell for, unless you originally meant to say "I stayed five fabulous nights."

So which is it?

 

[Sam?]

That seems like a pretty good description of Lucifer's disco on Walking St., so I assume that is where you were. There are other discos where the ratio of girls to guys is much better(for the guys).

One that I remember the name of is Tony's disco(who could forgot, you hear it blaring out on the TV ads so much). There are a lot of girls in there looking for action, and less competition from the guys. Also at the very end of Walking St., across from where the tour boats dock, there is a building with at least 2 big discos in it, and very good guy/girl ratio. The downside of those discos is that the drinks are hella expensive! A beer for you and cocktail for the girl runs you over 500 Baht at Tony's, and more at the places by the dock, IIRC.

 

[none]

JB, my bad. I meant to say five nights at Patong beach and two nights up at Marriot, wherever that is. When your in a holiday and having fun you tend to loose track of time like I did; and that was Lucifer disco where they had that awesome hip hop band. Anyway, thanks for clarifying my mistake. I'll post some pictures as soon as I find out how. But my favorite BG won't be in it. sorry guys....

 

[Sylar- Goodbye for now.]

That is an awesome band at Lucifer's. The musicians kick ass. All the black guys are top-notch singers, and the little Thai gal is smokin' hot with a great set of pipes on her.

I think the reason the g/g ratio there is close to even(but I would say there are still more girls), is that because the music is so good, and so up-to-date hip hop style, that it attracts more young guys there. The younger crowd of guys attracts some of the girls, who are pickier, and hoping to snag a young guy, who can dance, and is more fun for them. They want to have their cake, and eat it, too(make money and go with young guy).

At the places like Tony's, there is better g/g ratio, and a lot of the guys are Middle Eastern and/or older, so they have more money. Actually, anyone who can afford the driinks there has more money. The girls there don't care what the guys look like, just want the money. The band is not half as good at Tony's and the drinks are a good bit more, so why would any young, good-looking guy go there? That is just my theory. Mediocre band and more expensive drinks=fewer customers with more money. More money attracts girls. So you get a less crowded club with fewer guys, and plenty of girls attracted by the money there, which makes for a much better g/g ratio.

 

[Suz123]

Are you 16 yrs old? enguin:

 

[choudhary_ajay1980]

55555 I'm in my mid 30's but people say I look 25.

 

[DolphinFan02]

So WaikikiJ ,

where are you from mate?

 

[LarryBoy]

Isnt it obvious:rules:

 

[JUDY 3000]

Nice report WaikikiJ.

 

[TEEB]

Glad you had a great time mate,im hooked,Thailand is fantastic,great food,cheap beer and beautiful girls