Fuck buddies

[veraks]

The funny thing is that we are hanging off every word here like mesmerized kids during a Christmas story.

too funny, we are so shallow.

ok, well I am too shallow... the rest of you are perfect.

 

[Toniann]

Sounds like a delightful dilemma.

You will find the solution. Trust your intuition. Trust your heart.

Enjoy yourself.

Everybody should be blessed with such problems.

 

[Kimberly Franks]

Just checking... You DID get signed copies from all 4 FB's right?

I had a fuck buddy once.... forgot the paperwork... ended up marrying her! (But she's still my FUCK BUDDY! )

 

[hustla_honeyz]

I thought about it and decided it was best to not leave a paper trail. :tongue:

 

[Tony I]

I love Urban Dictionary's interpretation of a ‘fuck buddy’:
A person who is not your boyfriend or girlfriend (or farmyard animal), with whom you have sexual relations, on the mutual understanding that you both want sex and nothing more.

 

[Prabhupadanuga]

... but I'm still trying to figure out ".....last time I was single.. "??

Good Heavens, how old are you?:shock: Personally, I KNOW the concept has been around at least 35 years, and I'm pretty sure long before that.

You are sure not the average gal. You state there is NO chance of falling in love with #4. But just to add to the complexity of the analysis- what if he falls in :love: with YOU!

 

[ARMY*WIFE[lovin life]]

I guess I should've said, "I was unfamiliar with the concept the last time I was single". Which was 1988.

and you're over-complexifying the situation...I've chosen these men carefully, and "won't fall in over his head" was one of the most important criteria. I hope I haven't miscalculated, cause I'd have to dump him. :666:

 

[KimJongIl]

Think you can teach me....Seems I haven't got a clue....

And quite honestly, I don't think I could do the fuck buddy thing.

 

[Michael N]

Well, let's see...they always get my voice mail. Sometimes I answer texts, sometimes I don't. I'm never available the first time they suggest. No one is permitted to sleep over. Outside of my bed, I really don't care much about how they feel or what they want.

On the flip side, I have no expectations of them. I'd be happy for them if they met someone and fell madly in love. I don't complain about how much they work or the other women they fuck. They're my sex toys, and I'm theirs.

One thing I'm doing that I don't think is Manlike is this...I'm very upfront with these guys. They all know they're part of a rotation. If that becomes a problem, they're free to exit the ride at any time.

I would've said the same thing, Dave...that I wasn't wired for relationships (that seems like too strong of a word) like this. I would've been wrong, and you might be too.

 

[the only dode]

I have had 2 over the years. One of which was perfect, we really did like each other and were very close friends. I was her B plan for dates and she was mine then one night we fell into bed and in the morning we decided that we didn't want our relationship to change so we became fuck buddies. I'd call her up and if it worked we would meet.

The other was my fuck buddy because I had spurned her romantic advances. One day she called me up and told me. "I've been giving what you said a lot of thought and I think that you are right, I'm not ready for a relationship right now either. How about we just fuck"

so, whenever either of us were in the mood, we did.

both relationships were great and we are still friends to this day.

Like Silly girl, the thing that made them work was honesty. It was so simple yet so satisfying.

 

[Sarita]

I like your setup, it's an honest way to handle it. I'll bet the guys know the rules and are aware they aren't the only ones you fuck. They might still jockey for more visits or coax a sleepover once or twice but that's probably not a deal breaker.
Is dating part of it? Are they expected to woo you a bit with dinner or small gifts? Do you spend evenings together just watching TV, chatting or something - is having them for company desired or is it simply pure fucking?

I disagree that being upfront isn't a Manlike quality but if that's your experience I can't say you're wrong.

 

[Latching On]

I don't think I'd call it dating...I've been out to dinner with One, Two and Three. Four and I talked about going out to lunch, but then I answered the door wearing this

and we stayed in. :tongue:

One is a delight to hang out with because he's not someone who feels the need to fill every silence. It's comfortable being quiet with him. Two is funny as hell and interesting to talk to. Three also makes me laugh. Four, well, I haven't had much actual conversation with him...but when a guy can fuck like that, who cares?

Gifts are certainly not required, and would be refused if I thought they were enough of anything to obligate me in any way.

I don't think most guys are as honest about it with women if they are part of a rotation, but that's probably because a lot of women wouldn't fuck them if they were.

 

[Janiesgotagun]

Its interesting that your FB's are all different. If I had multiple FB's, I guess I would want the variety. Can't speak from experience since I've only had a couple of FB's in my life.

Since you rarely see the FB's in the outside world, how did you meet them in the first place? Thru the internet? or locally?

 

[lindirobby]

Oh, if you ever had an opening in your rotation, you could setup some contest where we apply.

You know, many of us have seen enough SPs, so we know what we are doing

 

[I Can Get Sexual Too]

Speak for yourself...

 

[WannaStepOutside]

I hadn't really thought about it, but they are quite the variety pack. The oldest is 12 years older than I am, youngest 11 years younger. Single, divorced, blue collar, white collar...I'm not sure what Four does for a living. But when a guy can fuck like that, who cares? :tongue:



Gosh, that will just never happen. One of the reasons I get along so well with most of you is that I never fuck any of you. This is my online Funplace, and I'm not going to do things that risk bringing drama here. :

 

[Monty Montezuma]

So you ate in... or... ummm "out" as it were. :shock: :great: :he:

 

[Courtney L]

This made me laugh.

 

[luv2help]

No, I don't think so. Unless I got called by the wrong name, that would seem a bit rude. :

 

[Praiser]

SPs, fuck buddies, SOs. All these different relationships are starting to befuddle me. There's appealing factors to all of these option...But at the same time, none seem right fit for me.