Good MPA Kissers?

[Benjamin]

this is where i get your idea that its not good to talk high mileage activity. I agree its up to and decided on by the MPA so i guess i may have misread somehow but if we both agree then we can just move on but i still dont see the diff

 

[buckfever321]

These two threads are clearly not the same at all IMHO. One is a general discussion on things that could/might/did happen. This kind of discussions happen here all the time. As long as no names are mentioned, it's completely harmless and fun. But naming names associated with such activities could do a lot of damage to the people involved, and should not be acceptable.

 

[happybunny101]

The OP is asking for a list of names.

MPA2 wasn't asking for a list of names.

BIG DIFFERENCE

 

[Shelbien]

Honestly, this is one of those activities that's TOTALLY YMMV, and there's no rhyme or reason to it. I've seen some girls 50 times and never made out with them...other girls I've kissed first session. It ALL comes down to the MPA's "line". Some simply won't cross it for a client.

 

[Boo]

It's Ymmv.

Can happen on your first session or might not even happen even after 50+ sessions.

Can happen on your 4th session but you can still be shunned on the 5th.

Things did change for me big time after I quit smoking.

 

[Eleni]

Actually, this discussion went just about as I expected! Which is kind of too bad, because Keyser makes a good point. We are paying for a fantasy, and for many of us kissing the beautiful chick is a desired part of that fantasy, so knowing ahead of time that she will or won't would be helpful.

It is quite true, as some have stated here, that some MPAs who normally won't kiss clients may do so for a few after developing a good connection over time. But it is also true that some MPAs do, in fact, kiss clients, and some do it very well and add a great deal to the session, just as some love DATY. I think for most it is not in fact YMMV, it's a line they will cross or not. Useful information, if one could get it.

Perhaps, rather than providing names of those MPAs who kiss clients, we should include in reviews the information that a particular MPA does NOT kiss. This will not "compromise" the MPA, and will warn away those of us who wish to take heed. I appreciate that some massageplanet.net egos may get involved here, but the information exchange could be helpful.

What do you think, MPA Squared, you old veteran, you?

 

[soaps]

LMAO. Come to think of it, I've gone down on far more MPAs than I've ever DFKed. And no, I won't list them.

 

[rhonda]

Kissing is a very YMMV and its with individaul MPA who offers to their clients with whom they have some common chemistry and trust, i had some wonderful moments with some known MPA's from HFH, SRM & Lexa Spa they are great kissers and provides good DFK's
but this is not the place to mention their names and put them under pressure from every clients who visits them. DFK/LFK is purely between two consceting adults, which applies at MP's & MPA's

 

[Leaira]

Hahaha, you caught me on a good debating day.

As I have stated already...I really feel that kissing IS a YMMV thing. I spent 4-5 yrs of my earlier career NOT kissing at all. Spent many days head-turning, teeth wrestling, and getting annoyed with men grabbing my head and trying to slobber on me. As I grew closer to my regulars and relaxed into my own skin, I eventually DFK-d my favs, hotties, and good kissers.

To call or ask a chick up front if she does...our automatic reply would be NO! Boys, you have to remember that in many spas girls DO NOT discuss mileage. I openly allowed DFK, DATY, digits, etc...but not nessessarily ALL with the same person. Also, alot of those things come with comfort and TRUST...and HYGIENE!!! My response if anyone had ever called me, PM'd me or walked in to ask if I kiss, or anything else, my answer would be NO! Heaven forbid I said yes and John Doe ends up an asshole, smelly, aggressive, or worse, and then he quotes me (or a review) saying "but you said...." . We know this, so we dont jump the gun. Period.

You guys are thinking about yourselves...not all clients are clean, nice, passive, etc. Let me be frank...if you have BO, dick-cheese, and dirty fingernails, I highly doubt you keep your oral hygiene up to any sort of par.

I think you kissing fans, squirting fans, or fans of any other personal/un-guarunteed item, need to realize your search is the same as the hidden gem...its trial and error, expensive trial and error, and will vary greatly!!!!

 

[Pompal 09.]

You rock sistafriend

Doesn't having a checklist acronyms that you plan to receive in a session kinda make things a bit like you're in a diner ordering a meal from some uninterested waitress? Isn't it mechanical? The go-with-the-flow... uncertainty and tease of massage is what I most-like about this facet of the industry... I think it's what draws many clients towards massage attendants as opposed to the guarantees one might get with an SP at times.

I find myself doing the same thing: when someone e-mails me asking if he will get "X, Y, or Z" in his session, I will say no... because I do not know what I'm getting into and I'm not comfortable making any guarantees. I can guarantee that you'll get a massage and a bodyslide and my best effort.... extra stuff is extra stuff....

Kissing (with tongue) is extremely personal for me... When I was brand-spanking new to the industry I crossed the DFKing line.. out of my desire to make my clients happy... but I started to realize that it crossed my personal comfort threshold so I stopped. I'm not sure why but it's the first base I might hit in my personal life but the probably the last base I personally could hit in a work situation. Other MPAs might not feel comfortable with things I have no discomfort with providing. Every girl does have her limits and unless you want to feel as you're on a conveyor belt with someone who is numbed-down enough to provide guaranteed acronyms indiscriminately... those individual limits will vary client to client and maybe even day to day...

 

[PoliceCopManOmg]

I think we all understand your point by now and to varying degrees agree or disagree with it but the horse died a long time ago.

 

[ray- b]

Thanks for clearing that difference up but we did that 5 or 6 posts ago oh and the Caps and Bold helped too lol

 

[Desk3Bound]

Oh but she talks alot about extras being taboo in the MPA world and even gets a bit upset when others talk about it. Im just noting that it seems ironic (as did someone else but remeoved their post) that she brings up a high mileage activity and asks us to comment on it. Again just my view and I cant really see it any differently so i'll move on. No biggie

 

[sweetlilbrat26]

"She" aka I, have no issue with the taboo. And anyone that was a regular of mine can certainly vouch for that! LOL I did not say anything here about DFK/LFK being bad, or squirting being bad...hell they feel really good. All I did was comment on someone's list of fun SP-type activities actively talked about on massageplanet.net, and that that stuff isnt talked about here in the massage forum. And that listing names of people that do fun additional-YMMV-type activities adds pressure and unwelcomed mileage hunters to her day. C'est tous. La fin.

MJ...XOXOXOX

 

[Hipster Doofus]

Long time no see, you gone rastafarian on me ?

 

[Don David]

This is my one and only point. and again i may be missing it but you say NOT to talk about these things on the forum but you started a thread about squirting and who of us has made an MPA squirt. That to me is the same. DIFFERENCE as i noted was that you didnt ask for names of MPA's and i totally agree that that is a good thing. I think this is going no where fast and I/you wont get what the other is saying. I really couldn't care less and i have to go im going to be late for my massage

 

[Pompal 09.]

Ahhhh I see where the misunderstanding came from now...Here's what I was referring to:



The items he listed are not MP activities...thats what I meant.

Enjoy ur massage MJ

 

[Emily M]

hehe...

gotta spice it up now and then; ya know?

 

[stloa]

OK you two - it's time to kiss and make up.
Tongues optional.

 

[dheyenne]

Star and Lexa are famous for their DFK girls but most of the GFE legends are gone or have become owners LOL I must have DFKed at least 20 girls there, a conservative count. The pickings are slim now but I'm jaded from this hobby so no big deal but if Kayla comes back... she rocked.