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[xtc27]

You can have a sexual relationship without having a boyfriend or girlfriend. Yes/No?

Sure.

But can u have sexual relationship if... u aren’t sexually active?

Post 69, above

 

[playfulfun]

From the vague clues that i could ascertain, she works at Premier

I don't think so
She stated that the bulk of the sessions at her spa are 30 minutes in length yet most people at Premier book 40 mins.

Is there any reason you feel she works at Premier?

 

[Chubbypickle]

Oh.

Pay off my cards, pay off my car, buy somewhere I can live that can't be messed with. Put up enough supplies for 7 years. Once that's done, I'm out.

Without revealing specifics, do you have any vices that would put this goal in jeopardy or prolong your MPA career? Such as drugs, alcohol, gambling, impulsive shopping etc. Or are you able to live within your means while keeping your end game in sight?

I can imagine that some girls squander the money they make because they feel they can make easy money forever.

 

[xtc27]

Not sure who he's trying to impress in a forum full of horny guys.

...& yet, here we are...

 

[Cooldude2020]

First of all I would like to thank you for enlightening the group with your honest response. You seem to be quite educated and intelligent, like your way of writing(professional).
You don't know, but it helped many what to expect and how to act with an SP.

Few questions.

1. When you meet a new client X ( decent look), how do you train your brain to enjoy the moments during DFK, fingering or real action? If you don't enjoy those moments with X , doesn't that give you pain or make uncomfortable?
Of course getting paid for those activities and making one satisfied keeps you motivated.

2. Does it make any difference on client's look? I would assume YES as you get attracted or feel ok during activities with a good looking customer. Does it make any difference if he is white/black/asian/latino?

3. If you do the work for money and not enjoying the action, how can you get orgasm? Do you get orgasm with new customers? If Yes, can you get in back-to-back appointment with different customers?

Not sure if few of these questions have been asked. Tried to read this thread, but it's growing and might have missed

Again your responses are eye-opener to many which we could not have asked to someone in person.
Will appreciate if you can respond at the earliest. Have a blessed time ahead!

 

[Deleted member 89502]

It sounds like a sincere nice person who appreciate you and act to the way that excites you would get you to climax. Most girls were trained to please us by pretending to react when we kiss the sensitive parts of their body. Some do it way far too much exaggerated that we can obviously know she pretends so. Therefore my advice to MPA is to have some responses but not overdone. One of my favorite MPA usually cried out loud "It's so good" when I kissed her nipples; I knew it's not real but I appreciated her efforts to make me feel good. Want to make this a two way communication, so you would know how guys feel.

I really don't care about climaxing at work. It's a bonus when it happens. It's actually always a huge relief when a client comes in and just wants me to focus on them without any gross or unreasonable requests.

 

[Deleted member 89502]

You can have a sexual relationship without having a boyfriend or girlfriend. Yes/No?

Casual sex is poisonous to the heart and soul. It's also extremely disadvantageous to women, they just haven't realized it yet. I like the way Jordan Peterson addresses this - it's not healthy to view another human as disposable to suit your carnal needs.

 

[Deleted member 89502]

Have you ever considered dropping down a notch to work at 'semi-legit' spas? The difference is you wouldn't have to do 'elevated' services with all your customers (just the ones you want). The minimum expectation is a decent massage with happy ending. Of course, the downside is you might not make as much money.

Like a holistic? Yes. I do plan on getting a few different licenses when things open up again so that I have more options.

 

[Deleted member 89502]

Can you give us some tips what's the best way to get a MPA to a real climax? When I was at 20s, a massage girl mourned while giving me a legit massage but I have not got anything close to that as I mature!

I didn't understand your second sentence.

I don't know. That's going to be different for everyone. I have already answered this question as it pertains to me.

 

[hangul99]

And you're poor. You will ALWAYS be poor.

Whatever floats your boat.

 

[Deleted member 89502]

I have a few questions..

1) Do you or other girls you know, feel offended if you offer sex and it's turned down? (I don't like doing it on those small beds, I usually just say yes but after 10 mins I just ask for them to finish with their hands)

2) Most spa's I go to, the girl always showers separately, I've only been to a couple where we showered together. Is there a reason for this? Is it something that you would normally have to request? (I find shower play to be fun / erotic)

3) I had an occurrence where the MPA was doing a body slide and it slipped inside, she says it was an accident and asked to keep going, I was obviously not thinking with my head, and panicked for weeks afterwards until I was tested. Have you heard of this happening? I think she was in control and did it on purpose (it kept getting close to this, and then eventually slipped in), but it wasn't our first session together and she usually felt pretty genuine. I didn't see her again since this though, mostly out of embarrassment (we had really good sessions prior to this, but I couldn't sleep properly for days wondering if I caught anything)

4) The first 10-15 minutes are usually really quiet until the girl starts talking. I don't mind it, but I always wonder if it's awkward for the girl. I'm pretty introverted, but I can carry a conversation if someone else starts it. Do you find this awkward? Is there anything that you find most MPAs like in a session?

1) I never make the first offer for anything in any arena of my life. I'm a woman, my role is to receive. I can't say for other girls. If they're bringing it up to try and make more money, they're probably not happy when rejected because they don't get that money.

2) Are you obnoxious during the session with repeated requests despite being told "No"? Think of reasons why a girl would not want any more close contact with you outside of the fact that the service you have paid for has been rendered. To now share a shower with you would be above and beyond - have you given a reason for her to go above and beyond?
For me, the main reasons are because they were already disrespectful throughout the session and I don't want to give them anymore opportunities. A lot of clients will try and get extra time from the girl by dragging out the shower and groping while in there. It's just not really worth it for us nine times out of ten.
Or are you talking about during the session? Bear in mind that being in the shower for long periods of time damages our hair and makeup which then means we need to take extra time after the session fixing and possibly redoing it - potentially missing greetings and potential clients. If you're referring to during the session, most spas offer that as an add on or you could negotiate privately with each MPA. The majority of girls are willing to entertain almost any request as long as we are compensated.

3) I have not, and can't think of any reason why an MPA would do that for free, unless she was trying to undercut her competitors to keep you coming back. She may have been attracted to you but that was still a stupid move on both your parts to have sex without protection.

4) For me, it's not. If the client doesn't start a conversation, I won't either. We don't like personal questions - most of us do like discussing ideas, concepts and recent events that haven't been beaten to death. The majority of MPAs are in school, or went to school and couldn't find jobs in their field. Many of us are very intelligent. Discuss ideas and concepts with us instead of personal information or small talk.

 

[Deleted member 89502]

Nice to know that being a regular who treats you properly has it's benefits.

What percentage of your business would you say are regulars?

Around 30.

 

[Deleted member 89502]

Sure.

But can u have sexual relationship if... u aren’t sexually active?

Post 69, above

What is your point?

 

[hangul99]

Casual sex is poisonous to the heart and soul. It's also extremely disadvantageous to women, they just haven't realized it yet. I like the way Jordan Peterson addresses this - it's not healthy to view another human as disposable to suit your carnal needs.

Not everyone is meant to be in a monogamous relationship. To some sex is merely a physical activity.

One could argue that this whole hobby is unhealthy for most of us. But thats a whole other topic and i dont want to derail your thread.

 

[playfulfun]

Around 30.

I have to admit I am surprised that it is 30%, I would have thought it might have been 50% or more.

 

[Deleted member 89502]

First of all I would like to thank you for enlightening the group with your honest response. You seem to be quite educated and intelligent, like your way of writing(professional).
You don't know, but it helped many what to expect and how to act with an SP.

Few questions.

1. When you meet a new client X ( decent look), how do you train your brain to enjoy the moments during DFK, fingering or real action? If you don't enjoy those moments with X , doesn't that give you pain or make uncomfortable?
Of course getting paid for those activities and making one satisfied keeps you motivated.

2. Does it make any difference on client's look? I would assume YES as you get attracted or feel ok during activities with a good looking customer. Does it make any difference if he is white/black/asian/latino?

3. If you do the work for money and not enjoying the action, how can you get orgasm? Do you get orgasm with new customers? If Yes, can you get in back-to-back appointment with different customers?

Not sure if few of these questions have been asked. Tried to read this thread, but it's growing and might have missed

Again your responses are eye-opener to many which we could not have asked to someone in person.
Will appreciate if you can respond at the earliest. Have a blessed time ahead!

Thank you.

1. I don't train my brain to do anything. I don't fake anything at all. If I'm not enjoying something, clients will usually ask if I "like that" and I will tell the truth. If they aren't narcissists, they will ask what I do like and I will tell them. I never let anyone do anything to me that is painful, uncomfortable or a violation of my personal boundaries. If it's something I don't like but it's not bothering me and I can tell they are doing it to play out a script in their head and not really paying attention to my reaction, then I will let them do it. If they are doing it because they think they need to/they think I like it, I will smoothly change positions.

2. Race makes no difference to me - hygiene/grooming and behavior do, generosity helps. All other things being equal, of course it's better if I find them attractive.

3. 99% of us don't care about climaxing at work - it's not a priority. We are there to make money. I have climaxed the first time I've met someone. I have had multiple climaxes in a shift.

 

[Deleted member 89502]

Not everyone is meant to be in a monogamous relationship. To some sex is merely a physical activity.

One could argue that this whole hobby is unhealthy for most of us. But thats a whole other topic and i dont want to derail your thread.

This hobby and profession is unhealthy - I don't see how you could argue otherwise.

 

[hangul99]

Sure.

But can u have sexual relationship if... u aren’t sexually active?

Post 69, above

Sure. A release for health purposes. Lol!

 

[Deleted member 89502]

I have to admit I am surprised that it is 30%, I would have thought it might have been 50% or more.

I define a a regular as someone who comes on a weekly (or more) basis.

Edit: I also lost a lot of regulars after the first lockdown.

 

[Deleted member 89502]

Without revealing specifics, do you have any vices that would put this goal in jeopardy or prolong your MPA career? Such as drugs, alcohol, gambling, impulsive shopping etc. Or are you able to live within your means while keeping your end game in sight?

I can imagine that some girls squander the money they make because they feel they can make easy money forever.

No. I live below my means as much as possible.