Chat I'm An MPA - Ask Me Anything. :)

[Deleted member 89502]

Have you ever dated or gone on trips with guys you met at the spa?

I do paid dates. I would be open to traveling, if compensated appropriately but I don't see that happening in the near future due to current events.

 

[Deleted member 89502]

Anybody working right now.
Please pm
Thanks

Yes.

 

[Deleted member 89502]

Love this thread.
1. Huge respect for you. This thread feels like a chat in a dating website where you are getting to know more about someone you have right-swiped. Or in this case about 500 guys have now right-swiped.
2. You are clearly intelligent, witty and well read. I'm a 4x reader too, but have never heard of the book: "The Bastard King" by Jean Hardy . I can't find it anywhere. Is it some auto-correct mistake?
3. Any other books you recommend?
4. Favourite photographer and favourite artist?
5. Best of luck on any post-covid retirement plans.

1. Thank you.
2. My mistake - the author is Jean Plaidy. The copyright year is 1974 so it is probably long out of print. Try eBay or other used book websites.
3. "The Jungle Book" - Rudyard Kipling
Game of Thrones series by George R R Martin
"Jane Eyre" - Charlotte Bronte
"Wuthering Heights" - Charlotte Bronte
"Defensive Living" - Bo Hardy
"The Gift Of Fear" - Gavid De Becker
"Rich Dad Poor Dad" - Robert Kiyosaki
"The Game" - Neil Strauss
Harry Potter series - J K Rowling
__________ In Death series - J D Robb
Girl With The Dragon Tattoo series - Stieg Larsson
"The Storyteller" - Jodi Piccoult
"Cathedral Of The Sea" - Ildefonso Falcones
"The Winter Rose" - Jennifer Donnelly
To name a few
4. None at this time - though I do have Ansel Adams' book in my collection, just haven't gotten to it.
5. Thank you.

Edit to add:
"Dr Mutter's Marvels" - Christen O'Keefe Aptowicz
"The Hundred Year Lie" - Randall Fitzgerald

 

[Deleted member 89502]

Damn..you beat me. The longest I had done was with a girl I picked up at Bangkok night club. We made love from 11 pm till 5 pm the next day non stop. I had to stop after I felt pain when I pee. May be from her CG ride that missed the target at one point and bent up the little boy. I was only 30 yrs old that time and Bangkok was a sex haven. Those were the days.

BTW...xyf, you are one of the smartest one I have seen in here. Too bad you are not Asian..sigh. You and a spa boss I am very close with are pretty much alike in how she sees things in this business and very smart as well.

Thank you.

 

[Peter Vex]

Yes.

Pm me please

 

[Massxprt]

I do paid dates. I would be open to traveling, if compensated appropriately but I don't see that happening in the near future due to current events.

I had one MPA I took on several trips. It was very pleasant. I you are so inclined PM you spa info and name and when things improve I will come see you.

 

[Deleted member 89502]

Do the attendants at your place of work, shower between clients?

We are supposed to. Not all do.

 

[Deleted member 89502]

You claim to not offer bbfs, but every chick has her price. Whats yours?

I would never with a client - it's not worth the risk. Even in my personal life, I always required boyfriends to get tested before we ditched the condom and required test results regularly from them.

 

[Deleted member 89502]

What can guys do to increase milage and make the massage enjoyable for the attendant?

Give an actual massage - don't pretend you are going to give a massage and then start groping.

Be clean, polite, come regularly, tip well, ask what she is open to after you have stayed with her a few times. If rejected, take it like a man, keep coming back, eventually you will probably get increased mileage.

 

[Deleted member 89502]

Also, do you know of a potential date in which parlours are allowed to reopen? And do you expect a stampede on the first day?

No.

Hard to say.

 

[Deleted member 89502]

How does someone earn your trust?

By not trying to.

 

[Deleted member 89502]

How do you feel about any clients who can't see beyond the transaction and develop feelings towards you, or any other mpa for that matter?

It's human nature.

 

[LazyBoy]

Give an actual massage - don't pretend you are going to give a massage and then start groping.

Be clean, polite, come regularly, tip well, ask what she is open to after you have stayed with her a few times. If rejected, take it like a man, keep coming back, eventually you will probably get increased mileage.

No offense, but that's exactly the type of mind games that clients have suffered from MPAs. I understand that every girl is different and I respect that, but that, right there is the main reason I switched over the SPs - well and cost too. You have to be careful because what you've describes borders very closely with playing with a client's mind. Not saying you do it, just saying how it's perceived from the other side.

 

[Deleted member 80579]

Give an actual massage - don't pretend you are going to give a massage and then start groping.

Be clean, polite, come regularly, tip well, ask what she is open to after you have stayed with her a few times. If rejected, take it like a man, keep coming back, eventually you will probably get increased mileage.

This right here. Like I said before, start all sessions off with a nice massage. An actual massage you would get at a spa. I know fun is going to happen eventually so no need to go grabbing for things. Let the girl enjoy 10-15 minutes of a nice sensual massage. Then while massaging her legs and butt you occasionally get close her pussy and even graze it while you are working on her butt. Eventually after much teasing you start to casually focus on rubbing her clit and next thing you know the session is in full swing and she is legit turned on and into it if you've done it right. Like I said, never a bad session and usually great mileage if you start off with a nice full body sensual massage

 

[Deleted member 89502]

No offense, but that's exactly the type of mind games that clients have suffered from MPAs. I understand that every girl is different and I respect that, but that, right there is the main reason I switched over the SPs - well and cost too. You have to be careful because what you've describes borders very closely with playing with a client's mind. Not saying you do it, just saying how it's perceived from the other side.

You are free to infer that it is a mind game - it's possible and likely that the majority of the time it is.

As I see it, what I have described is nothing more than the basic tenets of a respectful interaction that includes appreciation for a someone who is providing a service. No different than if a restaurant gave you a free bottle of wine every few times you dined because you were a good customer - came regularly, acted properly, tipped well.

Edit: Something most people don't understand is that if people feel safe to say no and are still treated well after, chances are that they will offer it organically down the line. Once again, it should not be a strange phenomenon to treat someone with respect and compensate them appropriately. All of these Dear Penthouse stories of MPAs slipping it in probably happened because she wasn't pushed, and there was a rapport built on respectful interaction over time.

 

[Deleted member 89502]

This right here. Like I said before, start all sessions off with a nice massage. An actual massage you would get at a spa. I know fun is going to happen eventually so no need to go grabbing for things. Let the girl enjoy 10-15 minutes of a nice sensual massage. Then while massaging her legs and butt you occasionally get close her pussy and even graze it while you are working on her butt. Eventually after much teasing you start to casually focus on rubbing her clit and next thing you know the session is in full swing and she is legit turned on and into it if you've done it right. Like I said, never a bad session and usually great mileage if you start off with a nice full body sensual massage

Yup.

 

[Happyman]

A lot of girls who are open minded would enjoy a massage from a guy. I know one Spa owner well and she wanted me to give her a massage after she did mind if she has time. She even said would pay me the same way that I pay her. I am nice to girl and I think it takes advantage of the girl if I charge her for my massage (so I did it free). I did professional massage for the girl and I asked her if she wanted to do the breast part before I touch that part.

 

[Cool-Story-Bro]

This right here. Like I said before, start all sessions off with a nice massage. An actual massage you would get at a spa. I know fun is going to happen eventually so no need to go grabbing for things. Let the girl enjoy 10-15 minutes of a nice sensual massage. Then while massaging her legs and butt you occasionally get close her pussy and even graze it while you are working on her butt. Eventually after much teasing you start to casually focus on rubbing her clit and next thing you know the session is in full swing and she is legit turned on and into it if you've done it right. Like I said, never a bad session and usually great mileage if you start off with a nice full body sensual massage

What's going on.
Aren't MPA supposed to massage us.
Well well well, How the turn tables.

 

[Deleted member 80579]

Yup.

Sometimes I see MPAs that get right into off the bat so you skip the massage but if things finish early I will give the massage at the end. In nearly 20 years I don't think I've been with one girl who has turned down or hasn't appreciated a nice massage.

As others said before, please PM anyone you know that's working. I'm going a little stir crazy

And thank you for your candidness in this thread. It can be nothing but helpful to people and a nice distraction

 

[Deleted member 89502]

What's going on.
Aren't MPA supposed to massage us.
Well well well, How the turn tables.

We are supposed to. The originally question was how do you get a better session - that is one of the ways. Whether you do it is up to you.