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[Deleted member 89502]

probably been asked but...how's a younger, new woman trained for the spa? Is there such a thing as:
1. A male connected to the spa who takes her into the room and tests her out? Guides her through different scenarios?
2. the new woman watching via real time video viewing or more simply being in the room?

how does it work? I mean, I used to enjoy sessions where a 19 or 20 year old was doing/suggesting things that I thought only existed in porn video. So how do they learn the ropes?

I have answered this question in previous replies.

1. Most spas have long time clients that they will call in to have sessions with new girls.
2. No.

 

[Deyannis]

I have answered this question in previous replies.

1. Most spas have long time clients that they will call in to have sessions with new girls.
2. No.

Yes, around pages 3/4 for those curious.

 

[Deyannis]

Money. Money.
My thinking is post spa love won't work because of the money. In essence, the woman will always feel that any money she invests in the relationship (her helping with mortgage, bills, shared expenses) would be akin to feeling like she did all that sex work .... for HIM. And then resentment would build. Conversely, a man who knows about her past, would think, "I dedicated 15 years to earning a degree, work experience, took all these risks and sacrificed personal comfort at times so I could have financial security, and SHE gets to partake in that?"
I mean no disrespect. None. But how right am I on a rating of 1 (way off) to 10 (bang on).

 

[Deleted member 89502]

Money. Money.
My thinking is post spa love won't work because of the money. In essence, the woman will always feel that any money she invests in the relationship (her helping with mortgage, bills, shared expenses) would be akin to feeling like she did all that sex work .... for HIM. And then resentment would build. Conversely, a man who knows about her past, would think, "I dedicated 15 years to earning a degree, work experience, took all these risks and sacrificed personal comfort at times so I could have financial security, and SHE gets to partake in that?"
I mean no disrespect. None. But how right am I on a rating of 1 (way off) to 10 (bang on).

I couldn't say because I am a traditionalist - in personal relationships, I don't have to work and I don't pay bills.

 

[Deyannis]

And, I know you enjoy life. I get it. But last night, I did all this reading on the stock GME and I said to myself, wow, this thing will hit $280 at some point Wednesday, and probably get back to $350. So, today I bought - just for fun - 100 shares when it hit $274 (that's $27,400 for those of us math challenged) and sold it less than a hour later at $334 (that's $33,400 for those of us math challenged). So here is why I tell that and my related question. Two+ summers ago, I was "dating" a woman who works at one of the very well known spas in the gta, and I said to her, "look I can make you a killing in about six months to a year if you trust me." So we go to her bank and I give THREE HOURS of my time to set up her investing account. Because I did not want any blame, I say to her, "these fuckers are bullshit artists AND this company (Aurora for those dying to know) is going to go from $2 to $15 within the next 10 months. I think I can love you, so please buy 10,000 shares and just sell at $8 if you want to sleep easy." Those who can do math know that's $80k from a $20k investment. She gave all the indicators that she would do it. AND SHE DID NOT. Did NOT. In fact, I think she bought like 1,000 shares and sold them a week later. Never bought in again. ACB killed it over 2 years before becoming the mess they are now. My question (finally): what is it about the sex trade worker that can't trust? That can't say "fuck yes" to EASY MONEY and repeatedly says "yes" to somewhat precarious earnings? Can you help me understand? (With apologies to the sp who knows exactly who I am now and may be reading this....I would have loved you. My ACB pick was proof of that. I told nobody of that guaranteed money. But I told you.)

 

[Deyannis]

I couldn't say because I am a traditionalist - in personal relationships, I don't have to work and I don't pay bills.

And I never have been. So I politely retreated when women of my 20s ridiculed my dick and watched closely as they got fat, divorced, and broke. They envy my brain now. The PEN IS envy.

 

[Toomanymiles]

And, I know you enjoy life. I get it. But last night, I did all this reading on the stock GME and I said to myself, wow, this thing will hit $280 at some point Wednesday, and probably get back to $350. So, today I bought - just for fun - 100 shares when it hit $274 (that's $27,400 for those of us math challenged) and sold it less than a hour later at $334 (that's $33,400 for those of us math challenged). So here is why I tell that and my related question. Two+ summers ago, I was "dating" a woman who works at one of the very well known spas in the gta, and I said to her, "look I can make you a killing in about six months to a year if you trust me." So we go to her bank and I give THREE HOURS of my time to set up her investing account. Because I did not want any blame, I say to her, "these fuckers are bullshit artists AND this company (Aurora for those dying to know) is going to go from $2 to $15 within the next 10 months. I think I can love you, so please buy 10,000 shares and just sell at $8 if you want to sleep easy." Those who can do math know that's $80k from a $20k investment. She gave all the indicators that she would do it. AND SHE DID NOT. Did NOT. In fact, I think she bought like 1,000 shares and sold them a week later. Never bought in again. ACB killed it over 2 years before becoming the mess they are now. My question (finally): what is it about the sex trade worker that can't trust? That can't say "fuck yes" to EASY MONEY and repeatedly says "yes" to somewhat precarious earnings? Can you help me understand? (With apologies to the sp who knows exactly who I am now and may be reading this....I would have loved you. My ACB pick was proof of that. I told nobody of that guaranteed money. But I told you.)

dude your off thinking to find logic in a sex worker. They got sex worker logic. They trust pimps more than anyone else. It’s the game. If the pimp told her to do it she woulda done it.

 

[felixami]

I haven't been doing this that long to say I've fallen in love, but I have certainly developed feelings for a few.

How? Why? Was it purely physical? Emotional?

 

[Deyannis]

dude your off thinking to find logic in a sex worker. They got sex worker logic. They trust pimps more than anyone else. It’s the game. If the pimp told her to do it she woulda done it.

You woulda been a good friend to me. I believe you are right. And I am a naive, sweet, hopeless in love man who only knows one thing and one thing only: money.

 

[Deyannis]

I'm so sweet that when I run into my circle of friends from my late 20s, I say to every single one of my now unattractive, broke and mostly divorced girlfriends, "how'd wonder shlong work out for ya?" Or "still looking for wonder shlong?" It's a good line. Tic for tac as they say. And then I show em my Instagram feed. Europe this. Europe that.

 

[Deyannis]

I couldn't say because I am a traditionalist - in personal relationships, I don't have to work and I don't pay bills.

And I never have been. So I politely retreated when women of my 20s ridiculed my dick and watched closely as they got fat, divorced, and broke. They envy my brain now. The PEN IS envy. You know that line? I'm curious...do you?

 

[Deyannis]

https://twitter.com/x/status/1354256375346561028

 

[Toomanymiles]

I'm so sweet that when I run into my circle of friends from my late 20s, I say to every single one of my now unattractive, broke and mostly divorced girlfriends, "how'd wonder shlong work out for ya?" Or "still looking for wonder shlong?" It's a good line. Tic for tac as they say. And then I show em my Instagram feed. Europe this. Europe that.

Dude you need to let that go. You are doing better in life, no need to rub it in. If they hurt you so be it. Take it as a life lesson (don’t deal with size queens) and move on. If she ridiculed you for your dick o well, by you doing what you do you still show you care for her opinion. For me, if a girl hurt me in some way, like choosing someone else, I’ll just be the best person I can be (prolly took years for me lol) She’ll obviously notice at some point, and if I show I don’t care, which I don’t, it’ll burn her even more. And even then I’d wish her all the best, I just don’t care for you to be part of my life kind of thing (I wouldn’t say it like that though). I honestly think you need a therapist to get over this. I can imagine it holds you back socially.

 

[Deyannis]

Dude you need to let that go. You are doing better in life, no need to rub it in. If they hurt you so be it. Take it as a life lesson (don’t deal with size queens) and move on. If she ridiculed you for your dick o well, by you doing what you do you still show you care for her opinion. For me, if a girl hurt me in some way, like choosing someone else, I’ll just be the best person I can be (prolly took years for me lol) She’ll obviously notice at some point, and if I show I don’t care, which I don’t, it’ll burn her even more. And even then I’d wish her all the best, I just don’t care for you to be part of my life kind of thing (I wouldn’t say it like that though). I honestly think you need a therapist to get over this. I can imagine it holds you back socially.

Man, you're a good man. Thank you for that reply. Honestly, thanks. Gonna head out for my 3-hour walk now.

 

[Deleted member 89502]

And, I know you enjoy life. I get it. But last night, I did all this reading on the stock GME and I said to myself, wow, this thing will hit $280 at some point Wednesday, and probably get back to $350. So, today I bought - just for fun - 100 shares when it hit $274 (that's $27,400 for those of us math challenged) and sold it less than a hour later at $334 (that's $33,400 for those of us math challenged). So here is why I tell that and my related question. Two+ summers ago, I was "dating" a woman who works at one of the very well known spas in the gta, and I said to her, "look I can make you a killing in about six months to a year if you trust me." So we go to her bank and I give THREE HOURS of my time to set up her investing account. Because I did not want any blame, I say to her, "these fuckers are bullshit artists AND this company (Aurora for those dying to know) is going to go from $2 to $15 within the next 10 months. I think I can love you, so please buy 10,000 shares and just sell at $8 if you want to sleep easy." Those who can do math know that's $80k from a $20k investment. She gave all the indicators that she would do it. AND SHE DID NOT. Did NOT. In fact, I think she bought like 1,000 shares and sold them a week later. Never bought in again. ACB killed it over 2 years before becoming the mess they are now. My question (finally): what is it about the sex trade worker that can't trust? That can't say "fuck yes" to EASY MONEY and repeatedly says "yes" to somewhat precarious earnings? Can you help me understand? (With apologies to the sp who knows exactly who I am now and may be reading this....I would have loved you. My ACB pick was proof of that. I told nobody of that guaranteed money. But I told you.)

We've been burned. So many times. If you knew of the stories of men fucking us over, you'd never be able to look a member of your own gender in the eyes ever again without wanting to gouge them out.

 

[Deleted member 89502]

How? Why? Was it purely physical? Emotional?

You wouldn't use the term "feelings" to describe any physical attachment.

 

[OG_funguy]

Depends on how you define 'leading on'. I think the whole service in and of itself is leading on.

Good point, I meant deliberately misleading clients, for example, giving them your number and texting them things that are untrue but that would make them think you like them (this is just one example)...

 

[Deyannis]

We've been burned. So many times. If you knew of the stories of men fucking us over, you'd never be able to look a member of your own gender in the eyes ever again without wanting to gouge them out.

I'm walking here...you telling me? That is exactly why I am tortured soul. Any woman who valued the love I'd give her would be, through ME, made whole again.
"Prostitutes are in no danger of finding their present life so satisfactory that they cannot turn to God: the proud, the avaricious, the self-righteous, are in that danger."

the PEN IS ENVY - teach your daughters that and they'd love the right men.

 

[Deleted member 89502]

Good point, I meant deliberately misleading clients, for example, giving them your number and texting them things that are untrue but that would make them think you like them (this is just one example)...

Never. I have only given my number out to three clients. One asked me a question to which I gave a direct response, never heard from him again. The second, I have discussed in previous replies. The third sees me for paid dates and we chat (we have many shared interests) in between dates.

The thing that baffles me about all these girls spending time leading clients on - is that you are lowering your dollar/hr earnings with that. They spend hours, days and get themselves annoyed to high heaven for clients that may not give in to what they are angling for. I would rather just provide good service and have clients come back for paid sessions, leaving my time between clients for other pursuits. If they are looking for more than that, I'm not the girl for them.

 

[Happyman]

No Daty, No BJ . just hand jobs. They 're there just to enjoy the HJ. She tipped me $80 both times for giving 2 SOGs. . I hated it cuz I had back and neck pain after every session with her. I did only if no one is available.

No Worry, we all care for you and are ready to take over that hard job for you. Just let us know any time the couple is coming to JR and there will be many volunteers to do the job for that lady. I am sure we shall let you keep the tips. Seriously, JR is one of the few non legit spas that have many couples going there. It's the first time that I heard a couple goes there for fun together.

XOyourfriend--- do you have many couples going to your spa? I imagine may be less than 5%?