Is it good to have a one night stand? I will speak from a women's perspective here.
Some women choose not to have them, but of those that choose to have them, sometimes they like them, sometimes not. It depends on how pleasurable the sex is, and whether the man does anything to make them feel uncomfortable or unsafe.
Why do people choose to have a casual sexual encounter with someone they just met? Generally they want to experience sexual pleasure and have fun. Both men and women want this, but women are less likely to choose to. Why?
Women donโt orgasm as easily as men do. most men will be able to have an orgasm if they have a willing partner they find attractive. A woman has no guarantee of getting sexual pleasure from an encounter just because she finds the man attractive, let alone an orgasm. women often take more time to orgasm, and may need very specific techniques or a lot of foreplay, for it to happen. If the man is a selfish lover and not willing to put in the effort to make sure she gets pleasure, then it is a waste of time for her, and also a big risk. some women have a few one night stands, but if they are unpleasurable or otherwise unpleasant, they may decide to never have any anymore, because theyโre more likely to get pleasure from a man interested in actually dating, because the man will be more invested in them and in pleasing them.
There are more risks to women from heterosexual sex than there are to men. the risk of pregnancy. the risk of being raped or otherwise physically harmed. STDs are a risk for both sexes but a higher risk for women in many cases because of biology. So a woman weighs up the risks vs rewards of going home with someone they donโt know that well. taking the above risks for something that may not even be that enjoyable may just seem not worth it. The more time you spend with a man, the more you can gauge if they are likely to be selfish, or violent.
The above reasons are probably part of why a lot of women may prefer to have a โfriend with benefitsโ rather than one night stands, as there are lower risks and higher rewards. In my case I have had one night stand and It was amazing, I dont know where is he now and we never met again. Sometimes great sex happens unplanned
I hope he is not here
One night stand or casual ....sex is aways good when there is no money involved and with mutual connect and comfort.