Don't know how i ended up reading this post but it is absolutely true to the point bro, mongering though has fun but then they fun can be dangerous and to such an extent life reaches an dead end.
Point by point you have articulated it very well here.
STD: Most important of all, few seconds of madness means lifetime regret. Meeting multiple partners even after using protection just cannot guarantee safety wherein anything could go wrong which is why i prefer protection even for BJ bc why take risks
LE fear: Been through it once in this situation guess around 3 years ago, almost got caught and family would have been called had it not been for an friend who also happened to be part of the raid. He helped me sneak out with an promise of not getting into this again but then this habit is so addictive.
Money Draining: We slog our asses be it private company or business and what we do bust it here which means these indies or spa chicks leads an lavish lifestyle wherein for us its money down the drain no matter how hard we convince ourselves that's its just for fun. To be honest if I look at the amount spent on mongering in last 2-3 years its way too much. Had i invested that amount elsewhere it would have grown and could have put it to better use on self rather than someone else who's life gets better the way we shower on them. Lesson learnt-Put money to better use for a better future and be more happy by giving time for self rather for this way which is definitely not correct.
Self respect: And last but not least this is very important. Imagine being caught or worst getting some kind of infection and your close one gets to know you suddenly lose all that respect for which we have work so hard to maintain. Kinda sucks if someone close to you gets to know this as it happened in my case when my cousin got to know, was really difficult to convince him with promise of not getting into this again. But then mongering so addictive happens to get the better of us. Use alternate sim for mongering to avoid being caught
Your post could have not come at a better time while scrolling thorough which got me thinking and calling it quits for now with an hope of not coming back to it but then mongering is so addictive that it will test my patience.
Guys i have only given my views here and not enforcing on anyone.
Stay safe, bang hard and happy mongering boyz