paying bargirls??

[Toni]

I'm an older and uglier guy and I'm not jealous, and yes it does happen to all of us, age is not so neccessarily the only ideal here.

When I first came over here on trips I was suprised how often it did happen, 'heh it was me being such a good lay or such a great guy to be with'.

No it wasn't it was the girl being too shy to ask or deciding she enjoyed my company and was okayish forcash at the time, remember they only think in today terms. Once I learned about this subject I paid everytime and is my advice to all.

Hobbo touches on an important point here as well, you do not pay and then get seen with another girl, wow fireworks are guaranteed to happen. Why because she has given herself for free, her friends have all told her she is stupid and then heh presto she sees you out with someone else, massive loss of face, revenge the only option.

Yes, some of the girls go with the younger guys for free, its the trophy on the arm syndrome but she still has to eat and afford her rent etc so cannot do this for long. Some hope on the long play with the young guy, but they all know it rarely comes up trumps because he is even more likely to butterfly.

There is only one word of advice 'you play you pay', end of story, no other little theories or anti-opinions, count for anything, the girl needs to make a living for her and her family, you by not paying are making things tough or depriving her.

Don't like the rules? don't play the game!!

 

[Cold]

No offence mate, you seem to have a handle on things..

But just read the above couple of lines again and try to keep a straight face.

 

[Dream Girl]

Does anybody really believe the OP??

FFS, 2 weeks with a ladyboy who likee, never spotted the difference and never got his ba**s cut off for not paying??

After criticism her he stops him/her in the street and is informed not only he hansum man likee but gets the fcking payslip details as well.

Mind boggles:

 

[Madeleine Z]

I agree with you totally. Much of it (LB for two weeks!) is unbelievable.

 

[auckerman01]

ho ho ho ho nice guys, thanks

 

[Qassem]

Reminds me of the immortal words one BG once said to me "we fcuk old men like you for money...and young guys for fun!"

 

[bluetigerpaw4]

your lucky to find girls like this generally you wont find girls like this if you do its pure luck. But yeah your not the only one i have been with quite a few girls that dont ask me for money. Every night I go out I have the money put aside for a girl, but hey some just dont ask, yeah some are shy and dont ask but you can usually tell when they say up to you and shy away. I always give those girls money thank them if they were good get A number if I actually think I will ever want to go with her again.
But I must admit theres been a few that I didnt pay because frankly they didnt seem to care, beleive it or not some girls want a good time and love to bang. I met a girl that I actually paid the first time but must have been with her 6 more times in a month where I didnt pay. She would ring me and message me almost everyday. I would go to see her if I had a big night out and didnt find anything that took my fancy. Then there was an older lady that I went with one night that was cleary just out to find a young buck, I showed her a good time and she wouldnt stop calling me either.
Its hard to suss out a situation sometimes but you can usually tell if the lady is happy or not and if she is not and seems pissed off your best to sought it out to avoid any sticky situactions.

 

[Old Kid]

Keep in mind that the going rate is about 1000Bt per night and slip all these girls a few K!!! ( especially the one that stayed for 2 weeks!!). No need to actually pay the going rate but, to give the girls something to live on for a while will make you feel better as well, so that you don't need to ask these sort of questions of the BMs.
BTW .... did you pay BFs for any of these girls???
Only ask to be sure that you realised that these were "working girls"!!!!

 

[Neha R]

"There's something about Mary" Now there were about 6 Chris's there... they all fell for the ladyboy... a week of canoodling and kissing and on national TV! Though they each received a 1/4m pounds in compensation... so I guess Chris is earning his compensation indirectly ;-)

 

[Eugen D]

That 's what I posted and also started a thread sometime ago called "TGs and Thai gigolَs", but for some BMs it looks like I 'm only inventing new theories!!!!:erf: :erf: :erf:

Someone need to really wake up on these issues.:zzz:

 

[Drift Wood]

yep...think the OP has only recently scene the movie "The Crying Game" and decided to weave it into his LOS thread after getting berated for his Cheap Charlie antics....to throw off the scent like???.........gee that worked!!!

 

[shealynn r]

Put your tin hat on. Posts like yours about giving the ladies the benefit of your experience without slipping some spending money in their bag when they're in the shower in the morning don't go down very well on here.

 

[jkhdjsadg(:]

They need the money; sleeping with farangs is their job. They deserve to be paid, WHATEVER THE CIRCUMSTANCES. In similar situations, where cash payment has seemed inappropriate, I have always found that a gold item of appropriately calculated value goes down very well. It's just a loving gift. And in practical terms it's as good as cash.

 

[Mr Bored sober]

5555555555 yes maybe when you single out that one line!!

it does sound hilarious 5555

but in all seriousness to chris, when you take a girl out, depending on how much you like her depends on what you are willing to do for her ie how much you spend when you take her to a club / restaurant etc. on the other end of the spectrum how much does she think you love her when you ask her to marry you and you buy her a $100 ring from argos or a $10,000 ring from harrods. of course it depends on how much you earn but you need to get the weight right to make it look like you care. of course this is all general and how girls think in general (IME). so with a BG like the ones you are going with, maybe she didnt ask and maybe she acts like she doesn't need.. but by giving her some well deserved money (a few K) you are telling her how much you like her (in girl language...$$$).

so if you really do like the girl and like her company thats reason to give her MORE than you would any random girl/TG/BG/whoever. IMO anyway

I know my girl doesnt need me to give her as much as 2K to survive or take care of her kid, as she has her own little business anyway. but i do because i know TGs in particular from reading these girls and talking to them here, respond to money directly as a sign of affection.

 

[Tmucho]

WTB, now you are doing exactly what he wants, you are starting to argue amongst ourselves.

The blokes most likely a troll perhaps as Nelce says its best we just leave this thread and any others he posts.

 

[mrcarrotsayshi]

Yeah, I've read this thread with quite some amusement and interest without replying to it.

But this sentence is really interesting, it looks harmless if you fly over it. I think it was written in a lightly attempt, but it got it all in it.

-> she did once before for a few years

This could mean a lifetime !

- Not into P4P but takes money every day

How do the english call this - kind of a Oxymoron ?

 

[starsky_1212]

Nice introduction Fezzer, no need to guess where we box type caste you!!!

Heh I'm must be full of it because I says otherwise!!

 

[softballxlove3]

Maybe he found a solution to his 'legit' Vietnamese girl problem... ie he goes with a legit TBG and pays now over the odds ....so the contemptable looks he gets are 'legit' now ???

H3X

 

[my_huckelberry]

That last line cracks me up. It's like the "long game" or a long term project. I've had one like that (a cashier at a bar) that took me 6 months before she came with me...I still slipped money into her bag in the morning.

Make whatever comments you want but it has now been made very clear to me that none of the girls I went with expected any financial compensation in return - case closed.

Sure, maybe they didn't, but Patong is VERY small and one of them is sure to see you arm in arm with another girl and she's going to be wondering if you are giving this new girl money when you gave her nothing. She will also be jealous...and a jealous TG is the last thing you want....even worse a jealous katoey!! The way you are going about things we could be reading about you in the PhuketGazette soon...I hope not.

 

[Blurcelve]

to be honest
to each's own
if someone feels like paying a little more, a little less or nothing at all
all of us are different and act differently