Alyson,
we love you, love your girls, love your attitude, love teasing, love missing with you (in a good way)
Look at the positives, if you can try to change the negatives, always remember you can not please everyone, and to each his own (your understanding is the part I like about you the most), just be happy and focus on the positives.
I hate it when good people get sucked in defending, arguing about their good intentions...
I'd be more than happy to go on a self sponsored TOFT any time with your MP's though I have not had bad experiences before with any of your MP girls.