Should I tell my mom that I know my dad's using porn sites and chatting rooms?

[sabrina p]

I am 25 years old, but that's really besides the point. I'm still living at home working my way through college. About three weeks ago I found that my dad has been going to porn sites. Two times previous I've deleted browse history...then when I checked it again there were more porn sites. My mom and I just went on a week long girls trip when I came home I found that he has still been using the porn sites but now even chatting rooms and adult mate rooms. My mom all week has talked about how she can't wait to get back home to him and how she hates being away from him. How do I tell her what I've found out? It's going to break her heart! My dad is 63 and she is 54...so they're both up in age! Please help my heart is breaking and I have no idea what to do. I feel like I'm lying to her by keeping the secret, but I know it will be a horrible fight if I tell her!

 

[Diana]

I know you love your parents, so stay out of their business. Nothing wrong with looking at porn, maybe they do it together?

 

[Cody M]

LOL

Dont tell your mom for god sake, give her some piece of mind. Every man looks at porn at some time. Really, I think your to old to be getting into their relationship that way. I understand its your parents, but this should be handled between the both of them. Trust it, porn is not a big deal and it dosnt mean he dosnt love your mom, he just a man (sorry)

 

[robert c]

look its not you home and what makes you think mom has no clue? i think you need to let dear ole dad who probably broke his back working for years to raise you alone. god why would you do that to your folks? you need to get a life. what would you do if pop followed you around all day and night reporting to mom what your doing, i bet you would not like that now would you? keep your snoopy nose out of your parents lives mm kaayyy

 

[Lou's wife]

Why tell her? Why not let your Dad know what you know and take it from there, and besides this why don't you think your Mom doesn't already know? There is a point where we need to be out of our parents lives and I think this is one of those points. It would be like sabotaging their relationship to assume that your Mom even wants to know or that they aren't alright with the situation would you do this to a friend? And 54 and 63 isn't up there these days.

 

[♥ Simply Kaylee! ♥]

well its not like hes cheating or done anything wrong so just go ahead and tell her or just drop it
or what you do is when you go on the computer, leave it on one of the porn sites then walk away and wait for someone to see it. then nobody gets blamed!

 

[Mooches]

What makes you think your mother doesn't know that your father enjoys browsing porn sites or chats with other people? Believe me, chances are good that she is aware of your fathers behavior and has been for quite some time. I wouldn't sweat it. Just go about your business and live your life

 

[Kellayyy]

Just tell her.

I'm always honest with my mom and wouldn't be able to hold it in.

At least tell her the chat room thing that's a bit strange.

She won't be mad at you.

Just ask her to tell him she found it her self.

If he knows you know it will be humiliating for him.

Let them deal with it after that.

Not all those people are right

My step mom and I would always talk a bout this stuff,

If I caught my dad doing something like that I'd tell her

and then she'd tell him she found it.

She apreciated me telling her.

So just tell her.

 

[fittyp205]

how do you know weather or not he's doing this to keep what they have spicy how do you think you got here it wasn't by accident so stay out of there business and let them live their lives that might have been why she said she can't wait to get back to him and she hates being away from him ever thought of that you might wind up telling her and she might wind up telling you to mind your own business this is what they do know