Opinion Small stuff that makes a difference

[Rupert Redrooster]

Occasionally I find a well trained old school MPA who helps me get dressed after the session.
That one last glimpse of a lady squatting while putting on my socks, when she looks up and shyly smiles can often guarantee my return.

Several girls at Greenway do that.

I wonder if Anna teaches them that?

 

[UsefulIdiot]

An MPA once asked me, in a soft voice, "Do you want me to sit on your face". What she said, and the way that she said it, were a huge turn on. "Fuck me" whispered in my ear in the heat of action also a big turn on. In contrast "cum baby" is a turn-off - to me it says hurry up and get things over with.

 

[DennyRenny]

Being upfront and and straightforward about the payment during text or at least before the session starts

Hate talking about money during the session, huge turn off.

 

[Rupert Redrooster]

An MPA once asked me, in a soft voice, "Do you want me to sit on your face". What she said, and the way that she said it, were a huge turn on. "Fuck me" whispered in my ear in the heat of action also a big turn on. In contrast "cum baby" is a turn-off - to me it says hurry up and get things over with.

Exactly!

I guess though they don’t teach proper little girl GFE behaviour.

That girl you found is a gem.

Fantasy spa? Nancy?

 

[UsefulIdiot]

Exactly!

I guess though they don’t teach proper little girl GFE behaviour.

That girl you found is a gem.

Fantasy spa? Nancy?

I will DM you.

 

[Fakes125]

An MPA once asked me, in a soft voice, "Do you want me to sit on your face". What she said, and the way that she said it, were a huge turn on. "Fuck me" whispered in my ear in the heat of action also a big turn on. In contrast "cum baby" is a turn-off - to me it says hurry up and get things over with.

Yeah when I was fucking an MPA at Ambassador, 1 minute in she was already like cum for me. Bruh, that makes it worse cause it sounds like she wants it over with

 

[Samurai_Hai]

I wish these ladies keep their clothes on longer and then take it off (or let us) in a sensual manner, later on in the session.

This I try to do every damn time! I absoutely get off reaching from behind when their yoga pants and underwear are still on and it's wet! Now, it's GO TIME! Lol

 

[eyeswideshut]

Yeah when I was fucking an MPA at Ambassador, 1 minute in she was already like cum for me. Bruh, that makes it worse cause it sounds like she wants it over with

I had the opposite once. Riding me eyes closed hands squeezing my shoulders saying don't cum yet don't cum yet

Didn't last too long after that

 

[superdick]

There are some small things that can really add to the enjoyment of a session. One example for me is kisses and hot breath around my ears and neck. Another is when an MPA strips down from ordinary clothes to reveal sexy underwear. How about you guys: what little things add to your enjoyment?

Gotta give you the ultimate props.
You always come up with these thoughtful thread starters, responses, and/or comments.
No muss or fuss you Just go about your business with no political agenda.

• For me it always starts with the meet and greet. ..a hug ...a kiss ....taking me by the hand and leading me like a little boy.....off to the candy store LOL
• Any incidental or suggestive touching, ie brushing of hands on thighs or bum during massage (NOT GROPING MAYBE LATER.)
• Special attention to my lower cheeks telling me it is almost time.
• A meticulous and gentle wipe down of groin and butt crack prior to main event. Had this done to me recently. I usually opt out of any anal play. Previously limit was a BJ with tongue bath of balls and perineal area never the anus ......but damn I went with the flow this time due to her gentle persuasion.....and was rewarded with one of my most intense and explosive sessions. Now I am all in.
• On the flip side.... is there are probably just as many small things that can derail or "cold turkey" a session. Communication is the key. Verbal and non-verbal

 

[Mr Shibari]

Clean facilities, fresh smelling towels. No double booking. like Rob Ford said “customer service excellence!”

 

[Fakes125]

Clean facilities, fresh smelling towels. No double booking. like Rob Ford said “customer service excellence!”

me wondering what's going on at some Elevate Spa rooms when I see no mouthwash on the counter

 

[Rupert Redrooster]

Clean facilities, fresh smelling towels. No double booking. like Rob Ford said “customer service excellence!”

Perhaps you mean Henry Ford?

Rob Ford more famous for saying, “Gimme that crack pipe bro”

 

[Rupert Redrooster]

me wondering what's going on at some Elevate Spa rooms when I see no mouthwash on the counter

Perhaps it’s a big hint that the girl is restrictive.

 

[Fakes125]

Perhaps it’s a big hint that the girl is restrictive.

Well it's also strange how much kissing they do when they don't offer mouthwash

 

[Itiswhatitis]

I have the most janky and obviously knot ridden shoulder, so massage wise- when a therapist recognizes and addresses it without being told, I am impressed and anticipate a high quality massage.

Fun wise, different positions but not sex positions- HE positions. Most girls do the same stand over the dick type thing but every so often they sit in front, throw a leg up, put their butt in your face, whatever... anything outside the standard stand and deliver method, is a nice surprise.

I agree- an actual good massage instead of light rubbing looking into space

 

[Itiswhatitis]

For me- a cute little outfit leaving something to the imagination before I rip it off, shy/sweet demeanour (even when doing the do), impeccable hygiene (smooth/fresh) and a clean space.
Most memorable was Kendall who would have candles lit, mouthwash with disposable cups & a warm towel handed to me the second I stepped out of the shower.
The attention to detail is very important to me and what truly makes for a good session- even more so then a good blow job (but pretty close)

 

[Rupert Redrooster]

Well it's also strange how much kissing they do when they don't offer mouthwash

You mean they should offer the client mouthwash?

 

[Rupert Redrooster]

I had the opposite once. Riding me eyes closed hands squeezing my shoulders saying don't cum yet don't cum yet

Didn't last too long after that

We need more girls like that!

 

[Deleted member 101953]

Gotta give you the ultimate props.
You always come up with these thoughtful thread starters, responses, and/or comments.
No muss or fuss you Just go about your business with no political agenda.

• For me it always starts with the meet and greet. ..a hug ...a kiss ....taking me by the hand and leading me like a little boy.....off to the candy store LOL
• Any incidental or suggestive touching, ie brushing of hands on thighs or bum during massage (NOT GROPING MAYBE LATER.)
• Special attention to my lower cheeks telling me it is almost time.
• A meticulous and gentle wipe down of groin and butt crack prior to main event. Had this done to me recently. I usually opt out of any anal play. Previously limit was a BJ with tongue bath of balls and perineal area never the anus ......but damn I went with the flow this time due to her gentle persuasion.....and was rewarded with one of my most intense and explosive sessions. Now I am all in.
• On the flip side.... is there are probably just as many small things that can derail or "cold turkey" a session. Communication is the key. Verbal and non-verbal

Holy shit..that's pretty much exactly the same way that gets me going when an MPA does the things you just stated..

Another turn on is.. i'll lay on my stomach and she climbs aboard and starts dry riding (a la cowgirl fashion) while expressing her sexuality in a sensous manner.Fully confident and knows hot to commmand a room..
Licks and whispers to my ears. Talks very vulgar, nasty and dirty to me..She's more of the bratty type and i'm more of the brat tamer..Turns me on every time lol

 

[UsefulIdiot]

Holy shit..that's pretty much exactly the same way that gets me going when an MPA does the things you just stated..

Another turn on is.. i'll lay on my stomach and she climbs aboard and starts dry riding (a la cowgirl fashion) while expressing her sexuality in a sensous manner.Fully confident and knows hot to commmand a room..
Licks and whispers to my ears. Talks very vulgar, nasty and dirty to me..She's more of the bratty type and i'm more of the brat tamer..Turns me on every time lol

It helps a woman if she herself is turned on. I did not know until a couple of months ago that during arousal a woman's vagina lengthens and her cervix lifts up and out of the way. Woman do not walk around with open vaginas. This is why forced sex is not only traumatizing but physically painful. As men we know with civilians we have to turn women on, they just cannot spread her legs for us while playing Candy Crush. Of course lube helps, but the woman has to be in the right place mentally, foreplay is needed. When an MPA is teasing you she is also preparing herself - maybe she is thinking about you, or just something she likes about you, or the power she has over you, the idea of sex itself, or she is thinking about someone else. Now they may be only turned on enough so their bodies can receive us, but it is a factor. And personally, my best sex is with a woman who is not only technically proficient but seems to be having fun.