snt86
Known Reviewer
Absolutely. That's why I'll never go holistic/semi holistic. But honestly, a lot if services end up being ymmv. Not every guy is going to be able to even touch the girl.I know the mouth on mouth services are always YMMV. I am certainly not going to ask her before the massage if she is going to kiss me!
In a way, that would spoil the fun. It’s always feels a bit more realistic, date-like, when it evolves as you relax with the girl. At a holistic spa, naturally you DO ask, since they are not really there for the massage.
Is it so much worse than guys who make the girl drunk so they can get more action? Not to me. At least the spa girl has choices and all her faculties.