Taking things further with a cuddler?

[Victor Charlie]

I have zero respect for anyone who preys and takes advantage of one's emotional intelligence and tries to profit from it. Drop that slut and move on dude!

1000% Agree!

 

[karlcox]

Might as well go on secret benefits at those prices if you don’t want to be with a SP. I’ve met a few girls. No hourly rates. Paid $150-500 per meet. Spent anywhere from 2-8 with them. BBFSCIP with all but one of them.

 

[Dong Hung Lo]

Might as well go on secret benefits at those prices if you don’t want to be with a SP. I’ve met a few girls. No hourly rates. Paid $150-500 per meet. Spent anywhere from 2-8 with them. BBFSCIP with all but one of them.

how many pregnancies?

 

[superdick]

Just thought I'd get some constructive opinions.

Been seeing a cuddler for a couple of months. She's pretty, great conversationalist. We do a lot of talking, cuddling. It's platonic but i like her.

Last session she wore a tank top and shorts and I've been wearing boxers. Previously it was T shirt and pants. She has a lot of emotional maturity.

She lets me graze her boobs and butt but no lingering. No kitty touching. No kissing of lips.

We have gotten close and meet for 2 hours at a time. $120 per hour = $240 per meet. She hosts. We have met maybe 6 times over the past 3 months.

I really enjoy the emotional intimacy with her which I don't get much of at spas. We share our lives.

We have been talking about being more intimate and I expressed desire to do fully nude, DATY and have a handjob from her. She suggested at a higher rate.

She has friends who are strippers and frequently she has been quoted that strippers earn $400 per hour to sit in the SC. Red flag i know and poor point of reference for her.

After a week of thinking on it, she offered the following: topless with touching boobs. Panties stay on. No touching over panties. No handjob. If I get turned on, no self jacking off. She wants $300 per hour and thinks her time is comparable to full time strippers.

I asked about rubbing pussy over panties and me getting a handjob, as otherwise the hour would like become quite frustrating from a number of angles. She's said "that's sexwork and clearly would be more than $300 per hr".

To go from $120 per hour for cuddling to $300 per hour for "boobs only" is ridiculous right?

I do really like this girl and the connection we have created. But I think she's pricing herself out of this planet?

Or am I the one who is off base? Thanks for your ideas.

Clarify in you mind what is it you "want versus need".....
Pussy is usually a "want".......You can get pussy any day of the week and twice on Sunday.
Emotional attachment and intimacy (Maslow's hierarchy of needs) is not a commodity.
Ya cant buy it,,,,it has to be earned through mutual respect and a genuine caring for the other person over time.

Three month......6 x $240 = $1,440. Not lot of money or time but.....

If you took a civilian or a Spa girl out to for nice dinner/movie/walk at $240 a pop you most likely would get some pussy without the strings attached (pun intended).
You might even get some meaningful emotional attachment and intimacy.

Hope I did not sound too negative.
I don't think you are in tooo deep in the "cooch trap"
Bottom line is "she has very little RESPECT for you as a person.

 

[Barney_B]

Hey, if you are in to cuddling with a lady, good for you. I had a sp who would hold me close for 5 minutes after I came. It was nice and felt good as we embraced as our bodies returned to normal.

All of the ladies that I currently see, quickly move on to clean up after I blow. It's kinda cold. I miss the cuddling.

So I get it. But, rates must be anchored in reality. She is delusional if she thinks that reasonable. And to ask a stripper! FFS in the sex worker world, strippers are above lot lizards and below MP attendants.

Never haggle as that is only going to lead to poor service. Consider this a life lesson and move on.

Sorry

 

[SleepingonBoobies]

I sense Michael777 is in a higher grade and got enough maturity to write a full story now. All ya jerks fell for it

 

[Muskokaman]

Yeah, it was his first post. Hahahaha

 

[Muskokaman]

I sense Michael777 is in a higher grade and got enough maturity to write a full story now. All ya jerks fell for it

Everyone who goes to Spas gets jerked around!!!

 

[BigRed77]

Just thought I'd get some constructive opinions.

Been seeing a cuddler for a couple of months. She's pretty, great conversationalist. We do a lot of talking, cuddling. It's platonic but i like her.

Last session she wore a tank top and shorts and I've been wearing boxers. Previously it was T shirt and pants. She has a lot of emotional maturity.

She lets me graze her boobs and butt but no lingering. No kitty touching. No kissing of lips.

We have gotten close and meet for 2 hours at a time. $120 per hour = $240 per meet. She hosts. We have met maybe 6 times over the past 3 months.

I really enjoy the emotional intimacy with her which I don't get much of at spas. We share our lives.

We have been talking about being more intimate and I expressed desire to do fully nude, DATY and have a handjob from her. She suggested at a higher rate.

She has friends who are strippers and frequently she has been quoted that strippers earn $400 per hour to sit in the SC. Red flag i know and poor point of reference for her.

After a week of thinking on it, she offered the following: topless with touching boobs. Panties stay on. No touching over panties. No handjob. If I get turned on, no self jacking off. She wants $300 per hour and thinks her time is comparable to full time strippers.

I asked about rubbing pussy over panties and me getting a handjob, as otherwise the hour would like become quite frustrating from a number of angles. She's said "that's sexwork and clearly would be more than $300 per hr".

To go from $120 per hour for cuddling to $300 per hour for "boobs only" is ridiculous right?

I do really like this girl and the connection we have created. But I think she's pricing herself out of this planet?

Or am I the one who is off base? Thanks for your ideas.

An older post but if you'd still like more opinions, I agree, that's steep! As someone that would also like a more intimate experience (and have never been to a cuddler yet), in researching various women and places/services, this is a bit ridiculous. If I were in your place, it might be different if she was also completely naked, and at least finished you off with a hj, minimum. For that price, I'd even suggest some kissing and letting you touch her everywhere. But women get away with these outrageous prices because some guys will pay sadly. Women have learned well how to milk us dry, and providing as little as possible for it, and their prices only continue to rise. Can you imagine if this was the other way around lol.

 

[Victor Charlie]

Might as well go on secret benefits at those prices if you don’t want to be with a SP. I’ve met a few girls. No hourly rates. Paid $150-500 per meet. Spent anywhere from 2-8 with them. BBFSCIP with all but one of them.

You shouldn't have said that bro..

 

[Nickforn]

Might as well go on secret benefits at those prices if you don’t want to be with a SP. I’ve met a few girls. No hourly rates. Paid $150-500 per meet. Spent anywhere from 2-8 with them. BBFSCIP with all but one of them.

Bro how do you get meet ups through SB. I’ve had no luck lmao never get responses

 

[karlcox]

how many pregnancies?

Zero. I’m part of the vasectomy gang. I have enough legitimate children as it is. Don’t need and bastards coming after 15 years from now.

 

[karlcox]

Bro how do you get meet ups through SB. I’ve had no luck lmao never get responses

Just like dating apps. Be funny and confident. Make fun of them in a playful way.