Those of you that date(d) SPs and MPAs...

[Asscream]

From the title, I thought he was asking about whether that comes up during "dates"...not during sessions.

Regardless...for me, they always talk about that stuff whether it's in or out of the spa lol

How do you deal?

 

[UsefulIdiot]

How do you deal?

I have not done this but I will imagine it starts with seeing them in the spa a few times, chatting and being friendly, exchanging cell numbers, some flirty texting, and then one of you broaches the subject of seeing each-other outside the spa.

 

[Heyyoo]

I dated an SP once. Met on a dating site, had no idea until she outed herself on date two. After shock and moment to adjust I was ok with it. We dated for a few months.

One time she had a customer who wanted to be watched while fucking. Did she know anyone? GF asked if I’d want to play voyeur and I agreed. After the customer left she and I had the hottest sex ever.

Nice woman. We broke up for reasons unrelated to her being an SP. we’re still friendly.

 

[Tigercat]

I can’t imagine myself dating a MPA. Unless I have a purpose like some of the guys using their MPA girl friend or wife.
I am not expecting to date a virgin but definitely no MPA.
You may not agree with me but this is my honest answer.

 

[GradBears]

Very few fat cyclists, BTW. certainly not me.

Cycling = very gd 4 mental health as well. Mebbe u should try it.

I’ve mentioned many times, I gotta car

All of this has nuthin 2do w hobbying. But u don’t hobby.

only broke boys like PornPrince makes not having a car an insult.

PornPrince must be spending more than half of his salary for his car thinking it’s an achievement owning one haaahaaaaaa

 

[xtc27]

I have not done this but I will imagine it starts with seeing them in the spa a few times, chatting and being friendly, exchanging cell numbers, some flirty texting, and then one of you broaches the subject of seeing each-other outside the spa.

My aunt discussed this a me very seriously! It kinda blew my mind… I’m like I dunno twenty something yrs old…

… she thot an older guy who didn’t wanna make a family could find a former or current SW 2b an xxxcellent choice… u get a younger “outta yer league” woman whose gd @ sex, she gets veneer of respectability. Win-win!

And Aunty = pretty firm that I shouldn’t do that!

… it may seem crazy 2 those dudes dreaming of a White Wedding… but think of guys married 2 PSWs, sticking their fingers up a guys ass 2 make him sh!t … nurses do some nasty stuff 2…

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Imagine yer a single dude in his 50s & u get the offer… $25k lump sum, u marry this Filipina girl, she gets citizenship & lives in yer house, pays her own bills, u can fuck her all u want (or not) & u can have all the gf u want… after she gets citizenship, divorce… NSA.

Would u understand why a guy’d say Yes! to that? Even if… away f/ home… she’s an mpa giving hjs?

Allots guys gonna see $25k, free sex, NSA, & they’re asking “Where can I sign up!!!”

 

[Deleted member 107715]

It’s possible .
But it will end up like a princess or mistress or wife syndrome .

 

[Deleted member 107715]

My aunt discussed this a me very seriously! It kinda blew my mind… I’m like I dunno twenty something yrs old…

… she thot an older guy who didn’t wanna make a family could find a former or current SW 2b an xxxcellent choice… u get a younger “outta yer league” woman whose gd @ sex, she gets veneer of respectability. Win-win!

And Aunty = pretty firm that I shouldn’t do that!

… it may seem crazy 2 those dudes dreaming of a White Wedding… but think of guys married 2 PSWs, sticking their fingers up a guys ass 2 make him sh!t … nurses do some nasty stuff 2…

---

Imagine yer a single dude in his 50s & u get the offer… $25k lump sum, u marry this Filipina girl, she gets citizenship & lives in yer house, pays her own bills, u can fuck her all u want (or not) & u can have all the gf u want… after she gets citizenship, divorce… NSA.

Would u understand why a guy’d say Yes! to that? Even if… away f/ home… she’s an mpa giving hjs?

Allots guys gonna see $25k, free sex, NSA, & they’re asking “Where can I sign up!!!”

It’s possible .
But it will end up like a princess or mistress or wife syndrome .

 

[Charli3]

only broke boys like PornPrince makes not having a car an insult.

PornPrince must be spending more than half of his salary for his car thinking it’s an achievement owning one haaahaaaaaa

He's still around?

 

[HandyAndy]

Dated a few but Can't think of a post/ poster here tell a story where it has worked out well. I was OK with all but one ending - that one though sheesh, "the one that got away" hah . With all of them we've talked about promoters and Spa management and conflicts with other girls, but rarely about other hobbyists. Only time hobbyists came up was when they were causing the girl shit in her personal life by stalking or talking shit on social etc. To be honest though if you're with an MPA/ SP and you can't find anything else to talk about then you can't expect that relationship to go anywhere anyway.

 

[HandyAndy]

Those that do obv do not think its a headache… they must think its fun!

…. Its highly likely dudes dating mpas & sps = dating WAY out of their league… a guy who’s like a 5 outta 10 will b w a gal who is an 8 or 9

He likely can’t believe his luck!

WAAAAAAY out of my league. 2 of them especially.

Massive headache, crazy bitches with tons of baggage... totally worth it tho

 

[MovingRightAlong]

He's still around?

Sometimes pp asks serious questions, but he is on ignore list for so many members he never gets an answer.

Making enemies with all the helpful guys on the board will have that result!

 

[MovingRightAlong]

WAAAAAAY out of my league. 2 of them especially.

Massive headache, crazy bitches with tons of baggage... totally worth it tho

You have to adopt a flexible attitude to fidelity and normality

 

[Crushing-It]

My fear would be running out of things to talk about when not making out. There might be a few weeks of sex and fun dating, but then what? The difference in age, background and culture would be too much, one or both of us would get bored.

Don’t you have an Asian spouse?

The difference creates its own convo, no?

 

[UsefulIdiot]

Don’t you have an Asian spouse?

The difference creates its own convo, no?

That only lasts so long. We started a business together, other people have children, so there is/are shared journeys.

 

[felixami]

Talking about yourself?
You're fat, ugly and don't own a car.

2 out of 3 ain't bad

 

[Crushing-It]

That only lasts so long. We started a business together, other people have children, so there is/are shared journeys.

So if there are no kids, no shared biz, you think it could get stale?

Certainly, if its going to last, there has to be more than sex.

 

[UsefulIdiot]

So if there are no kids, no shared biz, you think it could get stale?

Certainly, if its going to last, there has to be more than sex.

Guys talk about post-nut clarity but there is also post-passion clarity. Love and passion are like drugs that nature uses to bring people together who have little in common. You wake up one day and realize the person you are with is not who you thought they were. The person who was so happy to have you in their life now takes you for granted or thinks you’re an asshole. Sex every day dwindles to once a week or less. Marriage is really about partnership, family, shared journeys and responsibility.

 

[Sybarite]

Guys talk about post-nut clarity but there is also post-passion clarity. Love and passion are like drugs that nature uses to bring people together who have little in common. You wake up one day and realize the person you are with is not who you thought they were. The person who was so happy to have you in their life now takes you for granted or thinks you’re an asshole. Sex every day dwindles to once a week or less. Marriage is really about partnership, family, shared journeys and responsibility.

Thank god for spas and escorts!

 

[MovingRightAlong]

Thank god for spas and escorts!

Really an essential service.

Guys who are too stuck up to get themselves serviced end up becoming stalkers and creeps.

Get it taken care of and do not pretend you do not need It.