The art of tease is long gone by most MPA's, You don't get into your car in winter, start it and go. You warm it up first, that's half the battle right there, today girls think by doing Bj or FS is the be all end all, I had session like this and I felt nothing, I was not turned on and totally not feeling it at all. it's like a girl, it takes time for her to get wet. you have to engage her mind first. We are the same as well.
My advice to girls!!! watch lot's of good porn and all types and pull info from it and use it. Shit sex sucks, and bad Bj suck even more. Learn the art of tease and seduction ladies!!! it all starts inside the brain, not the dick. lol