It seems thereโs a fundamental misunderstanding of the nature of this business. Letโs clarify a few things:
A) This is NOT a hobbyโitโs a service-based transaction per client with monetary compensation. A buyer and a seller agree on terms, just like any other business. The idea that services are offered on demand, like a vending machine, is simply incorrect. Proven failure and obsolete.
B) The notion of "semi-legitimate" spas is a marketing illusion created to categorize businesses in a way that suits certain narratives. It doesnโt change the fundamental structure: owners set the environment, but the providers themselves determine pricing and services. When management controls what a provider earns, thatโs manipulationโplain and simple. A tool from Human Traffickers.
C) The idea that certain providers are "not skilled" at specific services is a misconception. If a provider doesnโt offer something, itโs because she doesnโt want toโend of story. This isnโt about skill; itโs about consent and personal choice. Those who agree to provide a service set their price, and thatโs the transaction.
D) Pricing isnโt up for negotiation like a flea market. You donโt walk into a store, and run away with free stuff, demand a different price, or take only part of a product and walk away. If a provider sets a price, thatโs the priceโrespect it.
E) SL and similar are .................. and have reputations for a reason, and those who understand how things work wonโt need anyone to fill in the blanks.
At the end of the day, this is a business. Trying to justify lower tips by comparing different establishments doesnโt change the fact that providers determine their own worth, not the clients.