Chat Can you trust spa girls...

[startbeforeIfinish]

Over time, I have found the MPAs I'm very close to still lie around 10% of the time...ones I casually know probably lie around 30% of the time. Of course, this is just a guess since there's no way to know for sure.

What have you guys' experience been? What are some of the worse lies they told you?


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This thread kicks ass. I hope is does not get hijacked.

 

[UsefulIdiot]

This thread kicks ass. I hope is does not get hijacked.

He tried and got no reaction. It is best not to mention his name, the dude craves negative attention.

 

[Dotanuki]

Good, open honest dialogue is ALWAYS good for men. Women too if they would allow it

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[eyeswideshut]

Yes one of her side pieces was in the medical field was used just to secure meds.
He was gonna leave his wife and purpose and got dropped. He was South Asian and she literally hates them. Poor fool

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That's the part that sucks. He was probably an average guy that got in over his head and almost has his life ruined. And the mpa didn't lose a second of sleep over it I'm sure

I kind of get it though, when they literally have a line-up of guys that want to see them - even if just for an hour - how could they not let it go to their heads? So you think she'll miss you if you break up? Fat chance because she's already got a half dozen other waiting in the wings to take your place.

You resist making friends with SWs, but it happens and you enjoy your time with them so much more. Lies, disappointments, etc., happen, but it is the price of being open to new experiences.

And therein lies the rub. But I find myself coming back for more time and time again

I only hope a little wiser each time

 

[Dotanuki]

That's the part that sucks. He was probably an average guy that got in over his head and almost has his life ruined. And the mpa didn't lose a second of sleep over it I'm sure

I kind of get it though, when they literally have a line-up of guys that want to see them - even if just for an hour - how could they not let it go to their heads? So you think she'll miss you if you break up? Fat chance because she's already got a half dozen other waiting in the wings to take your place.


And therein lies the rub. But I find myself coming back for more time and time again

I only hope a little wiser each time

The hard piece is that most would be cool with a gal asking for a favor instead getting BF status so to be exclusive and eventually get cut off sex wise then get discarded. Most spa ladies frown on that kind of behaviour as they know it pollutes the whole game. There are rules for both sides as to not cause too much bad blood

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[eyeswideshut]

The hard piece is that most would be cool with a gal asking for a favor instead getting BF status so to be exclusive and eventually get cut off sex wise then get discarded. Most spa ladies frown on that kind of behaviour as they know it pollutes the whole game.

I agree, but it does still seem to happen a lot

 

[Eyes]

That's the part that sucks. He was probably an average guy that got in over his head and almost has his life ruined. And the mpa didn't lose a second of sleep over it I'm sure

I kind of get it though, when they literally have a line-up of guys that want to see them - even if just for an hour - how could they not let it go to their heads? So you think she'll miss you if you break up? Fat chance because she's already got a half dozen other waiting in the wings to take your place.


And therein lies the rub. But I find myself coming back for more time and time again

I only hope a little wiser each time

The psychological explanation of constantly returning/paying is poor self-esteem due to not getting or not wanting a civ relationship built on trust, etc.
Also, I can say and do what I want within reason with little consequence (unlike in a marriage relationship).
The reality in today's relationship environment is it is a reliable way to get what you want at a nominal cost. It is a relationship, although not recognized as such. Trust existing at a physical/sensual level.
The wisdom aspect is further alienation from trusted relationships. I can walk away after done playing. On the plus side of wisdom is learning to get more for less.

Perhaps they lie due to mistrust and self-protection as well.

 

[Deleted member 101953]

Question: How do you know when a sex worker is lying?

Easy...YMMV

 

[Deleted member 101953]

not impressed always keeps it real whenever he comes through no matter who it offends..... and I like that.

And he is right too. This is a nasty little world the spa industry.... full of predatory sleazeball pimps both male and female, sex traffickers, drug dealers, and various other lowlife scumbags and degenerates.

Unfortunately, we the customers are just as guilty..No one is innocent here. I'm sure there are sex workers who frequent on this site who would agree with this yes?

 

[Deleted member 101953]

I would love to get input from SWs on this subject.

Same here but the majority of SWs frequent on the red boards and some of them have very bad attitudes and lie it's not even funny...

 

[UsefulIdiot]

I am in a dark mood today. Normally I look for the best in people and try to be sympathetic to their shortcomings and selfishness. We are all flawed, but most of us mean well most of the time. In my funk I am seeing the world as consisting of predators and prey. Perhaps I am both. I do not want to delve into cynicism or misogyny. I will just feel my feelings, move through them to get past them. People disappoint me. Such is life. I will be back to my optimistic self soon enough. Sorry to be vague, that is as much as I care to share.

 

[startbeforeIfinish]

I am in a dark mood today. Normally I look for the best in people and try to be sympathetic to their shortcomings and selfishness. We are all flawed, but most of us mean well most of the time. In my funk I am seeing the world as consisting of predators and prey. Perhaps I am both. I do not want to delve into cynicism or misogyny. I will just feel my feelings, move through them to get past them. People disappoint me. Such is life. I will be back to my optimistic self soon enough. Sorry to be vague, that is as much as I care to share.

It is better to be altruistic than cynical but the middle ground is most practical. You should do better after a nights sleep.

 

[Deleted member 101953]

I am in a dark mood today. Normally I look for the best in people and try to be sympathetic to their shortcomings and selfishness. We are all flawed, but most of us mean well most of the time. In my funk I am seeing the world as consisting of predators and prey. Perhaps I am both. I do not want to delve into cynicism or misogyny. I will just feel my feelings, move through them to get past them. People disappoint me. Such is life. I will be back to my optimistic self soon enough. Sorry to be vague, that is as much as I care to share.

I'm sorry if I come across as negative to you in the comments but tbh, I think you are a great person. It's not the end of the world friend. I mean, you're still alive. You will feel better again. Stick to what makes you feel happy and @ peace regardless of the outcome. You will be alright. Hang in there

 

[not impressed]

I am in a dark mood today. Normally I look for the best in people and try to be sympathetic to their shortcomings and selfishness. We are all flawed, but most of us mean well most of the time. In my funk I am seeing the world as consisting of predators and prey. Perhaps I am both. I do not want to delve into cynicism or misogyny. I will just feel my feelings, move through them to get past them. People disappoint me. Such is life. I will be back to my optimistic self soon enough. Sorry to be vague, that is as much as I care to share.

I live the dark side , it’s exhausting , at least you see light , one day at a time , be good to yourself

 

[eyeswideshut]

I am in a dark mood today. Normally I look for the best in people and try to be sympathetic to their shortcomings and selfishness. We are all flawed, but most of us mean well most of the time. In my funk I am seeing the world as consisting of predators and prey. Perhaps I am both. I do not want to delve into cynicism or misogyny. I will just feel my feelings, move through them to get past them. People disappoint me. Such is life. I will be back to my optimistic self soon enough. Sorry to be vague, that is as much as I care to share.

Been there done that. Too many times. Good to hear that you know there's a light at the end of the tunnel

Maybe this will help

I must not feel funk. Funk is the mind-killer. Funk is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my funk. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the funk has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain


Me and the sand worms. Peace out

 

[UsefulIdiot]

Been there done that. Too many times. Good to hear that you know there's a light at the end of the tunnel

Maybe this will help

I must not feel funk. Funk is the mind-killer. Funk is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my funk. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the funk has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain


Me and the sand worms. Peace out

I had to look that one up. It is from Dune, with fear replaced by funk. It still works. I used to repress suffering. That did me no good. It is better to go through it to get past it.

 

[kittyhound69]

The mass of men lead lives of Quite desperation.

 

[Young heart]

I don't disagree...

Having said that, some guys find it a turn on that their girl is getting it on with other guys. I recall a while back one guy always posting that his wife or GF was working in the house and he could always hear her having sex and it turned him on...different strokes for different folks...

And lots of guys think they can get them to quit...this has happened with one very popular girl recently

My girl quit. I couldn't be with her otherwise.....jerking off dozens of guys per week plus whatever else happened behind closed doors...

Trust but verify proved she is out of the business

 

[Jumpin’ Jack Flash]

Money or the exchange of it acts as a buffer or armour that protects each party of emotional involvement. It keeps things real. We pay for the fantasy. They accept payment to provide such.

 

[startbeforeIfinish]

Money or the exchange of it acts as a buffer or armour that protects each party of emotional involvement. It keeps things real. We pay for the fantasy. They accept payment to provide such.

Quid pro quo. It is the basis of all relationships money or no money. You are good to them and they are good to you. You want unconditional love get a dog.