Saw a lot of msg on getting with dB on girls. Have a different take on this. Ppl who have seen me in this forum will understand the cryptic nature of it. Forgive else.
Point of marriage has few clear Freudian angles
Procreation : there are enough kids in this country who needs a good parent. At least ones who can give basics of food, education and safety from exploitation. If kid is what one needs please adopt.
Emotional support: thousands of widows who have lost their life support in every age bracket. Possible u get the kid along free as +1. They are mature, will understand your current life style and can hold an intelligent conversation for another 30 years. Baggages and memories that hold u back are there for both.
For going with any dB on girl, they are as Han as everyone anrd. From an emotional support what u need ? Define it first. Many conversations will need a point of view that is thought through, gives u a wow when u get corrected and a life partner needs to be an onion. You peel layers as you run thru life. And new ones evolve that go with your life, your hobbies, your interests, your political standings that's based on careful ass sments. Life partner is some one who carves your life decisions. Going with someone who makes u feel good now might be short term. One will get bored other will get frustrated once initial sheen wears off.
Every one has been trying to find/figure X (Ex) from the first algebraic equation solved in 5th grade. It will never be found. Start finding Y. It's also a variable and equally important exciting.
I have not read thru the whole conversation thread. If msg has meaning take it. Else let it die in our archives of useless gyan.
And yes bar reaopened and running till 10 30 so not bad.
Point of marriage has few clear Freudian angles
Procreation : there are enough kids in this country who needs a good parent. At least ones who can give basics of food, education and safety from exploitation. If kid is what one needs please adopt.
Emotional support: thousands of widows who have lost their life support in every age bracket. Possible u get the kid along free as +1. They are mature, will understand your current life style and can hold an intelligent conversation for another 30 years. Baggages and memories that hold u back are there for both.
For going with any dB on girl, they are as Han as everyone anrd. From an emotional support what u need ? Define it first. Many conversations will need a point of view that is thought through, gives u a wow when u get corrected and a life partner needs to be an onion. You peel layers as you run thru life. And new ones evolve that go with your life, your hobbies, your interests, your political standings that's based on careful ass sments. Life partner is some one who carves your life decisions. Going with someone who makes u feel good now might be short term. One will get bored other will get frustrated once initial sheen wears off.
Every one has been trying to find/figure X (Ex) from the first algebraic equation solved in 5th grade. It will never be found. Start finding Y. It's also a variable and equally important exciting.
I have not read thru the whole conversation thread. If msg has meaning take it. Else let it die in our archives of useless gyan.
And yes bar reaopened and running till 10 30 so not bad.