dance bars in navi mumbai

[Deleted member 63909]

Hi,

I am in a big trouble friends right now. I don’t know how to write my situation and should i write it or not.
Please i want some good suggestions to get rid of this situation and please don’t make fun of me.

I am a guy who is regular at db ob from more than 15 years and I don’t fell in trap of this girls.
But now i have find myself in very uncomfortable situation.

I have started to have some feeling for a particular girl in a bar and I am not able to forget her.

Maybe she is not a Angel looking but for me she is beautiful than angel.
Few of my friends ask me to take her to bed so that her charm will fade away but i can assure it is not about lust as i didn’t even touch her inappropriate when i visit her several time from last few months and i know if i will do this the situation will worsen.

She is very cooperative and she doesn’t demand anything and always care for me.

But i want to get out of this situation as she is 24hrs controlling my mind.
My business is facing loss as my decision making is becoming worse day by day.
I am not able to handle my family and staffs well and i always shout on each of them every time.

I always feel to cry and sleep.
I have stopped drinking and smoking and visiting other bar or girls after i meet her.

I am going deep in depression.
None of my friends able to help me out of this situation.

We are starting a new business in other city where my brother willgo and take care of the business.
I thought i should move out from Mumbai and shift there so i can be away from her.
In that case i will visit Mumbai after 4/5 months.
Will these will help?
Should i call her and tell i am moving out?


I want to post this problem as my friends problem,but I don’t have that much of energy to make a story.
My energy level is totally soak.

Just want to get out of this situation without hurting the girl sentiment.

 

[Uncle Sam]

Hi,

I am in a big trouble friends right now. I don’t know how to write my situation and should i write it or not.
Please i want some good suggestions to get rid of this situation and please don’t make fun of me.

I am a guy who is regular at db ob from more than 15 years and I don’t fell in trap of this girls.
But now i have find myself in very uncomfortable situation.

I have started to have some feeling for a particular girl in a bar and I am not able to forget her.

Maybe she is not a Angel looking but for me she is beautiful than angel.
Few of my friends ask me to take her to bed so that her charm will fade away but i can assure it is not about lust as i didn’t even touch her inappropriate when i visit her several time from last few months and i know if i will do this the situation will worsen.

She is very cooperative and she doesn’t demand anything and always care for me.

But i want to get out of this situation as she is 24hrs controlling my mind.
My business is facing loss as my decision making is becoming worse day by day.
I am not able to handle my family and staffs well and i always shout on each of them every time.

I always feel to cry and sleep.
I have stopped drinking and smoking and visiting other bar or girls after i meet her.

I am going deep in depression.
None of my friends able to help me out of this situation.

We are starting a new business in other city where my brother willgo and take care of the business.
I thought i should move out from Mumbai and shift there so i can be away from her.
In that case i will visit Mumbai after 4/5 months.
Will these will help?
Should i call her and tell i am moving out?


I want to post this problem as my friends problem,but I don’t have that much of energy to make a story.
My energy level is totally soak.

Just want to gt out of this situation without hurting the girl sentiment.

Yes, you should move out of Mumbai city if it has gotten so far that its impacting your business and family.

But...before you move out of city, fuck her and more importantly while fucking her give her lots of gaali’s and keep calling her a bitch.

And before you go to see her to fuck her, have your tickets booked already. Otherwise after seeing her again some moh-maya will take control over you.

And keep your wife and kids photo in your wallet. Take a look at their pics whenever the bitch disrupts your mind.

 

[Deleted member 63909]

Cp I have already mentioned that if i will sleep with her the situation will get out of my hands.
Just think without touching her i spend lots on her and a regular monger and drinker from 15 years had left drinking mongering just for her.
And she didn’t deserve foul language from me as she didn’t force me to fall in love/trap of her, its me who have made this mistake.

Better i move out of city for few months without make her know.

Maybe i get some mental peace than.

 

[Uncle Sam]

Cp I have already mentioned that if i will sleep with her the situation will get out of my hands.
Just think without touching her i spend lots on her and a regular monger and drinker from 15 years had left drinking mongering just for her.
And she didn’t deserve foul language from me as she didn’t force me to fall in love/trap of her, its me who have made this mistake.

Better i move out of city for few months without make her know.

Maybe i get some mental peace than.

Sure, move out of city either way.
I’ve been in such situation. Spent several thousand $ on a girl and it was effecting me personally. Wife also got hints of what was happening.

Finally, one day I saw a guy entering her home. Argument began and she said they were just her friends. Don’t know yet what’s the truth. But she was clearly ignoring my calls when I called her up that time when I saw the guy entering her home. Only after I texted her that I am outside her apartment did she show up.

Finally what did I do?
I blackmailed her as I had her nude pics. I had FB of her parents and relatives too. So told her I would post her pics on their FB.

She agreed for few free sex sessions.
She is a bartender now. Sells her body few times a month for extra money.

Since then, I don’t really care for such bitches. Disrespect is all what I have now for them.

 

[Windsor]

Hi,

I am in a big trouble friends right now. I don’t know how to write my situation and should i write it or not.
Please i want some good suggestions to get rid of this situation and please don’t make fun of me.

I am a guy who is regular at db ob from more than 15 years and I don’t fell in trap of this girls.
But now i have find myself in very uncomfortable situation.

I have started to have some feeling for a particular girl in a bar and I am not able to forget her.

Maybe she is not a Angel looking but for me she is beautiful than angel.
Few of my friends ask me to take her to bed so that her charm will fade away but i can assure it is not about lust as i didn’t even touch her inappropriate when i visit her several time from last few months and i know if i will do this the situation will worsen.

She is very cooperative and she doesn’t demand anything and always care for me.

But i want to get out of this situation as she is 24hrs controlling my mind.
My business is facing loss as my decision making is becoming worse day by day.
I am not able to handle my family and staffs well and i always shout on each of them every time.

I always feel to cry and sleep.
I have stopped drinking and smoking and visiting other bar or girls after i meet her.

I am going deep in depression.
None of my friends able to help me out of this situation.

We are starting a new business in other city where my brother willgo and take care of the business.
I thought i should move out from Mumbai and shift there so i can be away from her.
In that case i will visit Mumbai after 4/5 months.
Will these will help?
Should i call her and tell i am moving out?


I want to post this problem as my friends problem,but I don’t have that much of energy to make a story.
My energy level is totally soak.

Just want to get out of this situation without hurting the girl sentiment.

Bro i don't know for how long you are eyeing her,but i m sure , the feelings will fade away with passage of time with out sleeping with her or sleeping with her.By the mean time have strong will power to control your senses and manage your business as well.Shifting of city won't solve your problem, what if you come across new women it can be anyone your secretary or any of your clients too?To overcome you require strong will.
Just think if you not focus on business money will dry up eventually and your visits too. So Paisa he to enjoyment he.
Enjoy the feeling but don't neglect business also, try to balance both.N it's great she not that demanding too.Always remember family comes first, then profession, then all other things.Just a temporary phase don't take some too drastic steps which may impact you in the long run.Tc..

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[Deleted member 63909]

CP my situation is different from yours a bit.
Spending a hefty amount of money don’t trouble me but she doesn’t get of my mind on next day when i sit before my share trading screen.
My personal decision making of buying selling getting effected by this.
I do start making wrong decisions.
I started to treat my client rudely as i always have some anger inside me.

The girl here doesn’t have any fault.
She doesn’t demand anything from me.
She advice me to take care of myself and visit once a month to her.

I don’t expect a sati savitri in db environment and niether its effect me if she do anything outside my knowledge as she is not made any contract or commitment with me that she will be only mine.

 

[Deleted member 63909]

Bro i don't know for how long you are eyeing her,but i m sure , the feelings will fade away with passage of time with out sleeping with her or sleeping with her.By the mean time have strong will power to control your senses and manage your business as well.Shifting of city won't solve your problem, what if you come across new women it can be anyone your secretary or any of your clients too?To overcome you require strong will.
Just think if you not focus on business money will dry up eventually and your visits too. So Paisa he to enjoyment he.
Enjoy the feeling but don't neglect business also, try to balance both.N it's great she not that demanding too.Always remember family comes first, then profession, then all other things.Just a temporary phase don't take some too drastic steps which may impact you in the long run.Tc..

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Yeah i know that moving out if city won’t help me but I don’t have any other options.

I was in USA in full month of May and didn’t able to forget to think about her on single day
Even she know in that period I might never return to her ever but she was Waiting for me desperately ( its not her word i have a source who confirmed me that).

Now i want to end or at least pause this laila majnu situation.
And no other way i can go away from her other than going out of city for few months

 

[Rickky]

Hi,

I am in a big trouble friends right now. I don’t know how to write my situation and should i write it or not.
Please i want some good suggestions to get rid of this situation and please don’t make fun of me.

I am a guy who is regular at db ob from more than 15 years and I don’t fell in trap of this girls.
But now i have find myself in very uncomfortable situation.

I have started to have some feeling for a particular girl in a bar and I am not able to forget her.

Maybe she is not a Angel looking but for me she is beautiful than angel.
Few of my friends ask me to take her to bed so that her charm will fade away but i can assure it is not about lust as i didn’t even touch her inappropriate when i visit her several time from last few months and i know if i will do this the situation will worsen.

She is very cooperative and she doesn’t demand anything and always care for me.

But i want to get out of this situation as she is 24hrs controlling my mind.
My business is facing loss as my decision making is becoming worse day by day.
I am not able to handle my family and staffs well and i always shout on each of them every time.

I always feel to cry and sleep.
I have stopped drinking and smoking and visiting other bar or girls after i meet her.

I am going deep in depression.
None of my friends able to help me out of this situation.

We are starting a new business in other city where my brother willgo and take care of the business.
I thought i should move out from Mumbai and shift there so i can be away from her.
In that case i will visit Mumbai after 4/5 months.
Will these will help?
Should i call her and tell i am moving out?


I want to post this problem as my friends problem,but I don’t have that much of energy to make a story.
My energy level is totally soak.

Just want to get out of this situation without hurting the girl sentiment.

You have created this situation for yourself. What you have done is instilled an image of this girl as a goddess because she was compassionate and kind to you. In your mind, there is no other like her but the fact is that there are millions of others like her. She farts, shits and is vulnerable just like any other person.

Fuck her and be done with it. Your mind is addicted to the drama and u do not want it to end.



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[Deleted member 63909]

You have created this situation for yourself. What you have done is instilled an image of this girl as a goddess because she was compassionate and kind to you. In your mind, there is no other like her but the fact is that there are millions of others like her. She farts, shits and is vulnerable just like any other person.

Fuck her and be done with it. Your mind is addicted to the drama and u do not want it to end.

Women have no shortage of bakras and you may just be one more in a never ending list.

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Haha just fall from my sofa after reading this.
Maybe if someone like u are parents friends or family member of a guy got into the trap he can easily be kicked out by u from this.

Btw jokes apart

Sleeping with her will not solve my problem
I will go away from the city for some time so this drama ends.

 

[Uncle Sam]

CP my situation is different from yours a bit.
Spending a hefty amount of money don’t trouble me but she doesn’t get of my mind on next day when i sit before my share trading screen.
My personal decision making of buying selling getting effected by this.
I do start making wrong decisions.
I started to treat my client rudely as i always have some anger inside me.

The girl here doesn’t have any fault.
She doesn’t demand anything from me.
She advice me to take care of myself and visit once a month to her.

I don’t expect a sati savitri in db environment and niether its effect me if she do anything outside my knowledge as she is not made any contract or commitment with me that she will be only mine.

Yes its different. I was just narrating my story.
I had to get my anger out on her. That was the only way I could get out of the mess.

I think you staying strong and away from the city is needed at this time. But if you think about it...you are getting angry on your clients and family. They also didn’t do any wrong to you.

So what’s better? Giving gali to a bar girl or clients?
Both are clean. Id give gali to bar girl and finish it off.

 

[Deleted member 63909]

You have created this situation for yourself. What you have done is instilled an image of this girl as a goddess because she was compassionate and kind to you. In your mind, there is no other like her but the fact is that there are millions of others like her. She farts, shits and is vulnerable just like any other person.

Fuck her and be done with it. Your mind is addicted to the drama and u do not want it to end.



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Rickky as u mentioned she is compassionate and kind to me, DONT u think other girl from other bar hadn’t tried this on me before.
WHY I had fallen for this girl but not other in last 15 years.

Its not a new glamour for me as i am regular in this field.

I agree with u that its my fault who created all this nonsense and it should be me who should suffer before i forget her which seems very hard till now for me.
So if I can’t forget her better i go far away from her so that doesn’t cause more trouble in mylife.

 

[Deleted member 63909]

Yes its different. I was just narrating my story.
I had to get my anger out on her. That was the only way I could get out of the mess.

I think you staying strong and away from the city is needed at this time. But if you think about it...you are getting angry on your clients and family. They also didn’t do any wrong to you.

So what’s better? Giving gali to a bar girl or clients?
Both are clean. Id give gali to bar girl and finish it off.

You guys sounds like just my friends,
They do such give advice
Better i stay away from her as i cannot hurt her

 

[Windsor]

Yeah i know that moving out if city won’t help me but I don’t have any other options.

I was in USA in full month of May and didn’t able to forget to think about her on single day
Even she know in that period I might never return to her ever but she was Waiting for me desperately ( its not her word i have a source who confirmed me that).

Now i want to end or at least pause this laila majnu situation.
And no other way i can go away from her other than going out of city for few months

Would like to add Gambling/ Liquor/girls are to be enjoyed but in limited way.They are part of life don't make them life.Life is more than this three vices..

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[romeo123]

Hi,

I am in a big trouble friends right now. I don’t know how to write my situation and should i write it or not.
Please i want some good suggestions to get rid of this situation and please don’t make fun of me.

I am a guy who is regular at db ob from more than 15 years and I don’t fell in trap of this girls.
But now i have find myself in very uncomfortable situation.

I have started to have some feeling for a particular girl in a bar and I am not able to forget her.

Maybe she is not a Angel looking but for me she is beautiful than angel.
Few of my friends ask me to take her to bed so that her charm will fade away but i can assure it is not about lust as i didn’t even touch her inappropriate when i visit her several time from last few months and i know if i will do this the situation will worsen.

She is very cooperative and she doesn’t demand anything and always care for me.

But i want to get out of this situation as she is 24hrs controlling my mind.
My business is facing loss as my decision making is becoming worse day by day.
I am not able to handle my family and staffs well and i always shout on each of them every time.

I always feel to cry and sleep.
I have stopped drinking and smoking and visiting other bar or girls after i meet her.

I am going deep in depression.
None of my friends able to help me out of this situation.

We are starting a new business in other city where my brother willgo and take care of the business.
I thought i should move out from Mumbai and shift there so i can be away from her.
In that case i will visit Mumbai after 4/5 months.
Will these will help?
Should i call her and tell i am moving out?


I want to post this problem as my friends problem,but I don’t have that much of energy to make a story.
My energy level is totally soak.

Just want to get out of this situation without hurting the girl sentiment.

Hi bro...
This is d feeling which u are getting for her.
I dont know d gal, nor in which har she works nor u personally....
She might be too good n polite...
Remember not all people are bad n she might not be taking u as a Bakra..
Still some good humans exist...
Maybe she might be feeling good about u due to your qualities or d way u might be respecting to her..different than others...
Now, it's you who have been in love or whatever wid her.. If she has not done bad to you den y give her bad words, etc...
If u wanna sleep den sleep wid her if she allows...but don't do bad... Karma is Bitch..
N if u wanna get over her den go away from city or don't visit her simple.. Try to get out of its before its too late...
Or if u can handle d situation den manage her, wid family and your trading business...
If your 15years experienced monger den it shouldn't be a problem for u...
Baaki toh mausam ka maza lo aur khub mongering karo...
Dont forget to share wid me some good trading tips...
Happy Mongering...!!!

 

[mumbaikadon]

Hi,

I am in a big trouble friends right now. I don’t know how to write my situation and should i write it or not.
Please i want some good suggestions to get rid of this situation and please don’t make fun of me.

I am a guy who is regular at db ob from more than 15 years and I don’t fell in trap of this girls.
But now i have find myself in very uncomfortable situation.

I have started to have some feeling for a particular girl in a bar and I am not able to forget her.

Maybe she is not a Angel looking but for me she is beautiful than angel.
Few of my friends ask me to take her to bed so that her charm will fade away but i can assure it is not about lust as i didn’t even touch her inappropriate when i visit her several time from last few months and i know if i will do this the situation will worsen.

She is very cooperative and she doesn’t demand anything and always care for me.

But i want to get out of this situation as she is 24hrs controlling my mind.
My business is facing loss as my decision making is becoming worse day by day.
I am not able to handle my family and staffs well and i always shout on each of them every time.

I always feel to cry and sleep.
I have stopped drinking and smoking and visiting other bar or girls after i meet her.

I am going deep in depression.
None of my friends able to help me out of this situation.

We are starting a new business in other city where my brother willgo and take care of the business.
I thought i should move out from Mumbai and shift there so i can be away from her.
In that case i will visit Mumbai after 4/5 months.
Will these will help?
Should i call her and tell i am moving out?


I want to post this problem as my friends problem,but I don’t have that much of energy to make a story.
My energy level is totally soak.

Just want to get out of this situation without hurting the girl sentiment.

You have hypnotized yourself to fall for her.Just let it go or else you have serious issues.

 

[romeo123]

not comfortable doing that....

just for info any OB vip in normal times open with minimum 40k-50k..... and time like i went is a bit different.....

so u can get a hang of it.... nearby price....

Devil

Maybe 20-25k more...
Bhai ye sab hotel me ya bahar b toh acche se 25-30k me hojata...
Itna extra paisa dia...
Waah sahi h boss....

 

[orient longman]

not comfortable doing that....
just for info any OB vip in normal times open with minimum 40k-50k..... and time like i went is a bit different.....
so u can get a hang of it.... nearby price....
Devil

I always used to wonder how much one has to spend to get into the VIP in a high-end OB. Thanks for posting ball park amounts... much appreciated.
To me, experiences are important than the cost. Money can be earned in due course of time ; such experiences are priceless. After all YOLO

 

[Raj k]

not comfortable doing that....

just for info any OB vip in normal times open with minimum 40k-50k..... and time like i went is a bit different.....

so u can get a hang of it.... nearby price....

Devil

Itne me bangkok ho k ata

 

[orient longman]

Hi,
I am in a big trouble friends right now. ..
...
Just want to get out of this situation without hurting the girl sentiment.

First of all, believe it or not, this whole situation is your own mind playing tricks with you. As someone else also pointed out, you have subconsciously placed this girl on a pedestal. Your heart and mind are not willing to accept that she might be a completely different person compared to the image you have of her.

A lot of us, whether we care to admit it or not, have fallen into this moh-maya jaal of our creation at some point in our lives either with girls or other possessions (cars / gadgets etc.). Once we "get" what our heart desires, the longing fades away gradually.

I believe this is the same girl whose face our "friend" would forget and had to visit the bar a few times every week. You need to convince yourself that this girl may be nice to you, but in the end she is just another bar girl (albeit a nice human being) who plays with customers imagination to get them to spend money on her.

The only solution to this issue, believe it or not, is to sleep with her at least once (perhaps a few times). Moving to a different city will only make your life miserable. This was verified when you went to the USA for a month and couldn't get her out of your mind. Running away is not a viable solution. Sleep with her and a few other girls on back to back days. Eventually you will find another girl that is just a sweet/nice to you. hopefully that will help prove to you that there are a lot of bar girls that can provide the same experience without screwing with you mental peace and normal daily life (professional and person).

Summary -> please fuck her OR make love to her nicely... whatever... just do it !!!

P.S: I am never ever rude with any bar girls / working girls, even when they are obviously scamming me. I always deal with them with a smile on my face and humor in my words. I make it clear to them that I understand their games and am not falling for any of that shit. From your posts, it appears that you are probably the same. Stay true to your nature and deal with this situation head-on. There is absolutely no need to change your behavior. Will power can get you out of this situation. Trust yourself.

 

[Raj k]

Hi,

I am in a big trouble friends right now. I don’t know how to write my situation and should i write it or not.
Please i want some good suggestions to get rid of this situation and please don’t make fun of me.

I am a guy who is regular at db ob from more than 15 years and I don’t fell in trap of this girls.
But now i have find myself in very uncomfortable situation.

I have started to have some feeling for a particular girl in a bar and I am not able to forget her.

Maybe she is not a Angel looking but for me she is beautiful than angel.
Few of my friends ask me to take her to bed so that her charm will fade away but i can assure it is not about lust as i didn’t even touch her inappropriate when i visit her several time from last few months and i know if i will do this the situation will worsen.

She is very cooperative and she doesn’t demand anything and always care for me.

But i want to get out of this situation as she is 24hrs controlling my mind.
My business is facing loss as my decision making is becoming worse day by day.
I am not able to handle my family and staffs well and i always shout on each of them every time.

I always feel to cry and sleep.
I have stopped drinking and smoking and visiting other bar or girls after i meet her.

I am going deep in depression.
None of my friends able to help me out of this situation.

We are starting a new business in other city where my brother willgo and take care of the business.
I thought i should move out from Mumbai and shift there so i can be away from her.
In that case i will visit Mumbai after 4/5 months.
Will these will help?
Should i call her and tell i am moving out?


I want to post this problem as my friends problem,but I don’t have that much of energy to make a story.
My energy level is totally soak.

Just want to get out of this situation without hurting the girl sentiment.

U didn't fuck her is ur biggest mistake

Girls want lil money more emotions

I had a girl on whom i spent around 30-40 thousands in a week like 4-5 k daily

She said collection karao fir milungi so i did and she was a nice dancer slim fit 22 years

Randi ne 8th day pe no and bar chance kar diya

I took her info n went to the new bar where she started working.. Paid caption 500 and told him to throw 500.. 500.. 500.. Directly on her face

She started crying on the floor

Caption said to her paisa chaiye to ruk she waited

Mera ego pura huwa n paisa barbad huwa u get nothing

We pay to girls.. Our loss.. We get no satisfaction

Girls get sex + money