Chat Does my favourite MPA like me or not???

[Pay2Play]

Dude, you can't be this stupid! Maybe her other boyfriend writes this shit to you using her phone. It's time to wake up! These messages are crap.

It’s not uncommon to have pseudo friendships with MPA’s or SP’s. Some of them will do it to keep your business, some of them will do it because they are insecure needing the attention and some will do it because they truly enjoy the interaction. It’s best never to read to much into it without enough time to decide which category you both fall in.

 

[Leviathan]

I agree. But it’s a rare exception than the rule. I can size up frauds very quickly.

You would be surprised, I’m sure, to know that my experience is the opposite.

 

[Homerun001]

It’s not uncommon to have pseudo friendships with MPA’s or SP’s. Some of them will do it to keep your business, some of them will do it because they are insecure needing the attention and some will do it because they truly enjoy the interaction. It’s best never to read to much into it without enough time to decide which category you both fall in.

Stop complicating your life, and stressing about someone who services multiple men on a weekly basis.. it will eventually hit a breaking point, and you need to set yourself free ..
Cheers.

 

[OG_funguy]

Dude, you can't be this stupid! Maybe her other boyfriend writes this shit to you using her phone. It's time to wake up! These messages are crap.

Aw...how cute, you can't make up your fucking mind. First, you say she's telling me to leave her alone, now you're saying her boyfriend is trying to string me along. Real or not, seems like you're jealous that no MPA is willing to send you even fake messages. They probably recognize you for the cheap fuck that you are and can't be bothered.

 

[Happyman]

It’s not uncommon to have pseudo friendships with MPA’s or SP’s. Some of them will do it to keep your business, some of them will do it because they are insecure needing the attention and some will do it because they truly enjoy the interaction. It’s best never to read to much into it without enough time to decide which category you both fall in.

Very true. A few years ago I "fell in love" with a MPA who did legit massage but gave a girl friend experience in understanding you, chatting in a romantic way while performing massage. I got tied in with this girl for a few years until I found out that all she had been doing was to keep me as her client. Now, there are a few MPA singing a common song to me----fall in love with you......only do this for you..... I believe guys here must have heard this song many times too. I don't even laugh because it is a bad song/joke!!!! If you are young and handsome, yes, you may have a chance for "real love" from a MPA. Each individual has to make a sensible observation and judgement.

 

[Homerun001]

Well, she literally just sent this to me an hour ago, doesn't really feel like she's telling me to get lost. But it doesn't matter, I would prefer her telling me to leave her alone. At least that way, there would be no guilt on my side.


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[Homerun001]

You would feel guilt for what ?? Erase her from your life and move on, everyday woman are already complicated enough, keep the fantasy where it belongs in the spa.. why would anyone want to invest time and money with someone who services multiple men on a weekly basis ??

 

[Happyman]

keep the fantasy where it belongs ...in the spa.

Golden word of wisdom from those who know how to enjoy life. But may not be easy for everyone to adopt.

 

[altaguetta]

Aw...how cute, you can't make up your fucking mind. First, you say she's telling me to leave her alone, now you're saying her boyfriend is trying to string me along. Real or not, seems like you're jealous that no MPA is willing to send you even fake messages. They probably recognize you for the cheap fuck that you are and can't be bothered.

Dude, your thinking is on a 14-year-old level!

 

[Pay2Play]

Dude, you're mind thinking on a 14-year-old level!

You can not make that statement with the profile pic that you have chosen.

 

[Leviathan]

So the only thing that changed is she works far away ? And now she actually wants you to meet after work ?

Something doesn’t add up. I must be missing something. So it’s incovenient now. Some soul mateLoL

Unfortunately, she lost her spot at her previous places. She now works somewhere very far from me. She wants to see me late in the evenings when she gets off work but given my personal situation, I cannot make that happen.

I'm not going to pursue this any further as it just won't work out. The next few months are going to be really rough for me since I'm very emotionally invested in her but it's for the best. It's not a healthy situation that I'm in right now anyways so before it gets out of hand, I'm going to stop it and just see her the occasional time.

 

[altaguetta]

You can not make that statement with the profile pic that you have chosen.

Your comment somehow doesn't make sense in this context...

 

[OG_funguy]

So the only thing that changed is she works far away ? And now she actually wants you to meet after work ?

Something doesn’t add up. I must be missing something. So it’s incovenient now. Some soul mateLoL

Levi, I've always said you are more perceptive and "get it" more than most of the morons here. I guess deep down I always knew I'm in an unhealthy situation (for lack of a better word) and while what I said is absolutely accurate, I feel I need to use this opportunity to detach and distance myself, especially on the emotional level. It's also a bit easier to do now because I haven't seen her in months. If I were to see her now, whether in or out of the spa, I'll be too weak to do it and will fall back into the emotional roller coaster. When I feel I'm strong enough to see her again without falling in knee deep, then I will.

 

[Leviathan]

A lot of guys talk smack. Some experience heartache. Some experience getting fleeced. Some only dream to have such an experience. Few lucky ones found happiness. Every situation is different. Every person sees their situation with different lenses. Yes the odds are against those who choose these type of pursuits.

It’s the journey and thrill of pursuing the taboo to shake up a humdrum life - Loneliness, bad existing relationships, workaholics etc etc.

Thank you for allowing us to follow your journey and taking the abuse/ridicule. You have bigger balls than 99% here.

“I'd rather die on an adventure than live standing still.”
V.E. Schwab, A Darker Shade of Magic

Levi, I've always said you are more perceptive and "get it" more than most of the morons here. I guess deep down I always knew I'm in an unhealthy situation (for lack of a better word) and while what I said is absolutely accurate, I feel I need to use this opportunity to detach and distance myself, especially on the emotional level. It's also a bit easier to do now because I haven't seen her in months. If I were to see her now, whether in or out of the spa, I'll be too weak to do it and will fall back into the emotional roller coaster. When I feel I'm strong enough to see her again without falling in knee deep, then I will.

 

[OG_funguy]

Very true. A few years ago I "fell in love" with a MPA who did legit massage but gave a girl friend experience in understanding you, chatting in a romantic way while performing massage. I got tied in with this girl for a few years until I found out that all she had been doing was to keep me as her client. Now, there are a few MPA singing a common song to me----fall in love with you......only do this for you..... I believe guys here must have heard this song many times too. I don't even laugh because it is a bad song/joke!!!! If you are young and handsome, yes, you may have a chance for "real love" from a MPA. Each individual has to make a sensible observation and judgement.

I agree with you around the observation and judgement thing. I am a very sensible and analytical person by nature. My honey has gone out with me countless times, spending hours each time. Why? So that I can continue to see her every other week and pay her less than market value for our sessions (before you say anything, she won't take more). She doesn't have to do this...I was actually visiting her more often "before" she started going out with me. Maybe if I was a sugar daddy spending money on her, I can buy into this theory but I'm not. Also, despite what many guys think, the vast majority of MPAs could not and would not be bothered going out with a client they don't like (unless that client is spending tons of money on them). Even for them, life is too short to be wasting time. I guarantee the guys saying this never went out with an MPA in their lives and don't have a fucking clue. I mean really, on her precious day off, she is going to spend 3+ hrs with me so that she can continue to make $60 from me every two weeks, never mind the texts throughout the week too. This isn't about ego stroking, it's about fucking common sense. She could make much more than that by working those 3 hrs instead, no?

Anyways, this is the last I'm saying about this. Think what you want. To the earlier poster, even if my story doesn't end well, there's no doubt in my mind that it is possible to find true love with an MPA but it's definitely the exception rather than the rule.

 

[Happyman]

I agree with you around the observation and judgement thing. I am a very sensible and analytical person by nature. My honey has gone out with me countless times, spending hours each time. Why? So that I can continue to see her every other week and pay her less than market value for our sessions (before you say anything, she won't take more). She doesn't have to do this...I was actually visiting her more often "before" she started going out with me. Maybe if I was a sugar daddy spending money on her, I can buy into this theory but I'm not. Also, despite what many guys think, the vast majority of MPAs could not and would not be bothered going out with a client they don't like (unless that client is spending tons of money on them). Even for them, life is too short to be wasting time. I guarantee the guys saying this never went out with an MPA in their lives and don't have a fucking clue. I mean really, on her precious day off, she is going to spend 3+ hrs with me so that she can continue to make $60 from me every two weeks, never mind the texts throughout the week too. This isn't about ego stroking, it's about fucking common sense. She could make much more than that by working those 3 hrs instead, no?

Anyways, this is the last I'm saying about this. Think what you want. To the earlier poster, even if my story doesn't end well, there's no doubt in my mind that it is possible to find true love with an MPA but it's definitely the exception rather than the rule.

Sounds like you have better luck than me. Good luck

 

[Kawailuvr]

I have been lucky enough to bang a few of these nasty whores out of the MPA ., it’s been great sex and that is it .! I have to be honest they are fucking scandalous man . One of these whores was pretty open and before she went to sleep she had to send out a bunch of messages to her “regs” as she called them . By her own submission was to keep them on the hook thinking they had something going . Now I’m the dumbass I thought she was playing wth like 3-4 guys man she was on the phone texting for like 45mins fucking with loads of dudes . I told her your fucking nasty and her exact answer was do you think I’m different than any other women in this biz . She said you guys want the pussy and we take your cash !
Some guys here have even PM me and told me I’m an asshole for my aggressive nature but imho every single SW is a nasty fucking whore the worst of the lot !! I always say fuck her if you can but keep your wallet in your back pocket and watch your back . These women are a rough bunch and Oscar award winning actresses . A very special mind of whore

 

[topo112]

Her boyfriend probably answers messages when she’s busy, writing sweet things to clients who think they have a chance with her mpa girlfriend. Very “smart”people indeed!

 

[Farm Gate]

I have been lucky enough to bang a few of these nasty whores out of the MPA ., it’s been great sex and that is it .! I have to be honest they are fucking scandalous man . One of these whores was pretty open and before she went to sleep she had to send out a bunch of messages to her “regs” as she called them . By her own submission was to keep them on the hook thinking they had something going . Now I’m the dumbass I thought she was playing wth like 3-4 guys man she was on the phone texting for like 45mins fucking with loads of dudes . I told her your fucking nasty and her exact answer was do you think I’m different than any other women in this biz . She said you guys want the pussy and we take your cash !
Some guys here have even PM me and told me I’m an asshole for my aggressive nature but imho every single SW is a nasty fucking whore the worst of the lot !! I always say fuck her if you can but keep your wallet in your back pocket and watch your back . These women are a rough bunch and Oscar award winning actresses . A very special mind of whore

What he said. Almost prophecy.

 

[Pay2Play]

Sex workers are people in need of some kind of connection like all of us. Sadly, once you get to know them their agenda is most certainly focused on money and they will use you much like how we buy them.