Chat Does my favourite MPA like me or not???

[cupcrazy]

Wtf? I started this thread like a year ago!!!

Anyways, to all the skeptics out there, all I can say, once again, is not all MPAs are only after your money. It's true when I started this thread that I wasn't sure if this particular MPA liked me or not but now there's really no doubt in my mind.

These days I rarely see her at the spa anymore and we've done stuff outside the spa on numerous occasions where money is not involved. We've spent entire all-day outings together and she's even come to my place several times for simple things like dinner and a movie. She's very thoughtful and when she comes over, she'll bring a gift and will also insist on helping me cook (even though I told her to just sit down and relax). In fact, just this past weekend, she invited me to go on a nature tour that she and 6 of her friends had organized. She lives a simple life, drives an old beat up car and is not into materialistic things at all.

I know some guys get what I'm saying but many still think there's only one type of MPA (i.e. the sneaky, manipulative kind that plays with your mind for financial gain). All I can say is don't generalize...NOW, having said this, I do agree it's best not to look for love at the spa.

look at long term. Some scammers are pretty sneaky. They give you the impression they are truly into you. When the ball is in their ball, things can turn extremely ugly in matter of minutes.

 

[Can't_Get_Right]

Why not diversify? I am on online dating, have fucked several nice women through it, and still do, actually I have a new catch this Sunday as a first date (I know I'm a cheater), go to the spa once a week, fuck my pipedream extreme, and flirt as much as I can with women wherever, to try to get laid. I'm going to the golf place that was recommended. I have very high expectations of myself, but not high expectations of others, so I'm not that dissapointed, you need to have a winning attitude, "it's about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward" otherwise this life will bring you to your knees and make you cry like a little bitch.

 

[Can't_Get_Right]

1 more thing, never go full retard, in anything.

 

[OG_funguy]

look at long term. Some scammers are pretty sneaky. They give you the impression they are truly into you. When the ball is in their ball, things can turn extremely ugly in matter of minutes.

Are you speaking from personal experience?

What do you mean by "extremely ugly"? Give some examples...

 

[OG_funguy]

Why not diversify? I am on online dating, have fucked several nice women through it, and still do, actually I have a new catch this Sunday as a first date (I know I'm a cheater), go to the spa once a week, fuck my pipedream extreme, and flirt as much as I can with women wherever, to try to get laid. I'm going to the golf place that was recommended. I have very high expectations of myself, but not high expectations of others, so I'm not that dissapointed, you need to have a winning attitude, "it's about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward" otherwise this life will bring you to your knees and make you cry like a little bitch.

You sound like you're still young, single (as in not married) and full of energy.

The majority of us are older, middle aged guys that are tired as hell dealing with work and family responsibilities...that's why : )

I like your approach though but just no time...although I might check out that golf place too. Unfortunately I'm not good enough to be giving tips so will have to tackle it from another angle.

 

[cupcrazy]

Are you speaking from personal experience?

What do you mean by "extremely ugly"? Give some examples...

yes based on personal experiences. Sure you know her from the spa. Do you know her history?

An example of extremely ugly: A dude marries his so call dream girl. Marriage lasted about a year or two and filed for divorce. Took half of his possession

 

[krayjee]

Are you speaking from personal experience?

What do you mean by "extremely ugly"? Give some examples...

Personal experience ?? cupcrazy???

He is too frkn busy shooting shits here with all his borrowed experience .

 

[Pay2Play]

Are you speaking from personal experience?

What do you mean by "extremely ugly"? Give some examples...

I’m guessing he was longing for love but got rejected so now he’s on a mission to “belong” somewhere. What better place then here?

 

[newtothis82]

No, I am a schlub with a bad combover. I also only wear crocs. If I want to dress up, it is socks and sandals.
I call it the MassagePlanet uniform.

I am just admiring all the alpha males, who post repeatedly how they get all their bitches and hos in line.
You guys must have a special entrance or something, because you sure as fuck aren't the guys in the waiting room.

Lol...kinda angry. I never said I was a super stud lol...next time you see Jenn ask her about me. I’m sure she will tell you I have great hair and handsome as fuck lol. I agree I have been in the waiting room and not seen to many male models lol. But who cares guys are paying therefore it really doesn’t matter how they look

 

[newtothis82]

1. Zero anger. Zero point zero. You need to get a sense of humor.
2. I do not ask MPAs about other customers. It is not why I am there. I know some of you homos do ask though.
3. I am fine with customers being ugly. It is when they try to talk tough here I find it funny. Most guys in the waiting area are afraid of their own shadow.

Lol I was joking...that’s why I use lol

 

[Whitesnake1987]

Wtf? I started this thread like a year ago!!!

Anyways, to all the skeptics out there, all I can say, once again, is not all MPAs are only after your money. It's true when I started this thread that I wasn't sure if this particular MPA liked me or not but now there's really no doubt in my mind.

These days I rarely see her at the spa anymore and we've done stuff outside the spa on numerous occasions where money is not involved. We've spent entire all-day outings together and she's even come to my place several times for simple things like dinner and a movie. She's very thoughtful and when she comes over, she'll bring a gift and will also insist on helping me cook (even though I told her to just sit down and relax). In fact, just this past weekend, she invited me to go on a nature tour that she and 6 of her friends had organized. She lives a simple life, drives an old beat up car and is not into materialistic things at all.

I know some guys get what I'm saying but many still think there's only one type of MPA (i.e. the sneaky, manipulative kind that plays with your mind for financial gain). All I can say is don't generalize...NOW, having said this, I do agree it's best not to look for love at the spa.

I'm sure all 6 of her friends know you are one of her Johns.

 

[cupcrazy]

Personal experience ?? cupcrazy???

He is too frkn busy shooting shits here with all his borrowed experience .

at least my bullshit not as bad as your trolls. Lord Kray. making stories up.

 

[OG_funguy]

at least my bullshit not as bad as your trolls. Lord Kray. making stories up.

Your story may be true but I highly doubt all MPAs are like that. Also, how do you know they weren't really in love with each other and that things just didn't work out?

Right now, my fave and I are just having fun and enjoying each other's company. Neither of us are "in love" and I highly doubt she's scheming in the background on how to get me to marry her so that she can divorce me and take half my assets. Also, you know there's a thing called pre-nup, right?

 

[cupcrazy]

Your story may be true but I highly doubt all MPAs are like that. Also, how do you know they weren't really in love with each other and that things just didn't work out?

Right now, my fave and I are just having fun and enjoying each other's company. Neither of us are "in love" and I highly doubt she's scheming in the background on how to get me to marry her so that she can divorce me and take half my assets. Also, you know there's a thing called pre-nup, right?

I wish you well but do proceed with caution.

 

[felixami]

Some quick background. I've seen many MPAs in the past, almost all work at semi-legit places. I'm really drawn to one in particular and have very strong feelings for her (I've been seeing her almost every week for the last couple of years). By all accounts, she is very average looking and most guys here would not even look twice at her. She's Asian, probably mid to late 40's (she won't tell me her age) and very traditional. Despite the profession she's in, she's actually quite inexperienced sexually (yes, I know this is hard to believe). In any event, I'm not drawn to her because of anything sexual related (even her massage is not that good LOL). Anyways, I know a lot of you have experience from being in similar situations so based on the facts below, please let me know if you think she has genuine feelings for me or if she is playing me just so I continue to see her.

Reasons why she might actually like me:

• She has told me many times that she has strong feelings towards me (I'm not naive and can usually tell if someone is genuine or not).
• Our sessions are very intimate and include both passionate and tender kissing as well as cuddling. We also have pretty deep conversations.
• No surprise here but she tells me that we do things that she doesn't do with anyone else (in case you're wondering this doesn't include FS or even BJ).
• I know her real name and birthday (in case this actually matters).
• We've gone out once and she insisted on paying for the venue. At the venue, there were many people that know her. I mean the "real" her, they have no idea she is an MPA. We had a great time together and no, there was no fooling around at all.
• She does nice things for me, for example sometimes after our session has ended, we'll just sit around and she'll feed me fruit or something.
• We chat regularly via IM and sometimes live so yes, I do have her number (and she claims I'm the only customer that has it).
• I asked for and she sent me photos of her younger self. She grew up in China without digital cameras so these are actually pictures of pictures.
• I don't tip her anything above the norm; when I do try to tip her more, she refuses.
• I've offered to buy her small things and she refuses.

Reasons why she might just be playing with me:

• Mixed messages. She knows I'm falling for her (yes, I'm breaking the golden rule) and basically encourages me to see other MPAs but then she'll send me a message saying she's afraid to lose me. Then a week later, she'll say not to see other MPAs. The constant back & forth is confusing.
• This is the big one. Except for the one time we went out, she has not agreed to go out again (except for her birthday which is coming up). When I ask why, she can't really offer up a good reason and avoids the topic. Now, she does know I'm married so that could be it (she has said before that if I was single, she would definitely date me). But if this was the case, why did she even go out with me that one time. Also, I recently asked again if it was because I'm married and she said no.
• So basically the only time I see her is during our paid sessions.

Sorry for the long post but I really would like to get your guys thoughts on this. Thanks.

She’s playing you. It’s a long complicated weave she is crafting.

R U N ! !

 

[OG_funguy]

She’s playing you. It’s a long complicated weave she is crafting.

R U N ! !

Haha, wow someone dug this thread from the grave

Well, she's retired now but we still hang out occasionally...

 

[topo112]

if you pay then you’re not her boyfriend.

 

[OG_funguy]

if you pay then you’re not her boyfriend.

Uh...you think. Anyways, I don't pay to spend time with my faves but I'm not their BF either...

 

[Ursus]

Every sex worker I have ever visited has tried to take advantage of my good nature and swindle me.

They like me, I suppose, because they see me as a Mark.

 

[Gulag107]

The only guarantee and constant is that she likes your money and that you can be made to ejaculate on time without too much strain on her part. All other variables about you are subject to change in her opinion as required.