Chat Does my favourite MPA like me or not???

[Happyman]

Yes, I was naive and could still be. I am in touch with a girl who is 20 years younger than me on line (she lives in US) but she's well educated and has a respectful job. It could be another wishful thinking exercise. We moved one step closer, we shall have a Zoom meeting after the New Year holiday. I am not looking for a quick fuck, so time will tell.

 

[Deleted member 79939]

Some quick background. I've seen many MPAs in the past, almost all work at semi-legit places. I'm really drawn to one in particular and have very strong feelings for her (I've been seeing her almost every week for the last couple of years). By all accounts, she is very average looking and most guys here would not even look twice at her. She's Asian, probably mid to late 40's (she won't tell me her age) and very traditional. Despite the profession she's in, she's actually quite inexperienced sexually (yes, I know this is hard to believe). In any event, I'm not drawn to her because of anything sexual related (even her massage is not that good LOL). Anyways, I know a lot of you have experience from being in similar situations so based on the facts below, please let me know if you think she has genuine feelings for me or if she is playing me just so I continue to see her.

Reasons why she might actually like me:

• She has told me many times that she has strong feelings towards me (I'm not naive and can usually tell if someone is genuine or not).
• Our sessions are very intimate and include both passionate and tender kissing as well as cuddling. We also have pretty deep conversations.
• No surprise here but she tells me that we do things that she doesn't do with anyone else (in case you're wondering this doesn't include FS or even BJ).
• I know her real name and birthday (in case this actually matters).
• We've gone out once and she insisted on paying for the venue. At the venue, there were many people that know her. I mean the "real" her, they have no idea she is an MPA. We had a great time together and no, there was no fooling around at all.
• She does nice things for me, for example sometimes after our session has ended, we'll just sit around and she'll feed me fruit or something.
• We chat regularly via IM and sometimes live so yes, I do have her number (and she claims I'm the only customer that has it).
• I asked for and she sent me photos of her younger self. She grew up in China without digital cameras so these are actually pictures of pictures.
• I don't tip her anything above the norm; when I do try to tip her more, she refuses.
• I've offered to buy her small things and she refuses.

Reasons why she might just be playing with me:

• Mixed messages. She knows I'm falling for her (yes, I'm breaking the golden rule) and basically encourages me to see other MPAs but then she'll send me a message saying she's afraid to lose me. Then a week later, she'll say not to see other MPAs. The constant back & forth is confusing.
• This is the big one. Except for the one time we went out, she has not agreed to go out again (except for her birthday which is coming up). When I ask why, she can't really offer up a good reason and avoids the topic. Now, she does know I'm married so that could be it (she has said before that if I was single, she would definitely date me). But if this was the case, why did she even go out with me that one time. Also, I recently asked again if it was because I'm married and she said no.
• So basically the only time I see her is during our paid sessions.

Sorry for the long post but I really would like to get your guys thoughts on this. Thanks.

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[Happyman]

Put him in touch with KJ. Lol!

He is looking for a decent girl. I have to put him in touch with a therapist. I used to have a girl in my work place doing the same thing and got cheated everything by guys whom she meet on line.

 

[OG_funguy]

Yes, I was naive and could still be. I am in touch with a girl who is 20 years younger than me on line (she lives in US) but she's well educated and has a respectful job. It could be another wishful thinking exercise. We moved one step closer, we shall have a Zoom meeting after the New Year holiday. I am not looking for a quick fuck, so time will tell.

Tread carefully...if you're very old (not saying you are since I don't know you) and haven't had the time to get to know her in person (i.e. for her to develop feelings for you), then there's a good chance she has ulterior motives...again, take your emotions out of the equation and ask yourself the right questions and answer them realistically.

 

[Happyman]

Thanks, we have some common interests/hobby. Our conversation has been on the intellectual side but we also share our personal issues frankly and deeply. I am not expecting to meet her in person soon. She has an important job and exchanges with a similar level person makes me feel good. It's wonderful if we end up going to bed, if not, having such a friend even on line is an enjoyable experience for me . Again, time will tell.

 

[cupcrazy]

I have a small penis, I finish in under 2 minutes and I repeat like a you can't imagine, so yes, the escorts do love me. But it's not me they love, its the super easy money from me that they love.

Women are incapable of loving anything, hooker or not. It's not you, it's them (women).

i always wonder why Asian Angela banned you.

 

[hangul99]

Yes, I was naive and could still be. I am in touch with a girl who is 20 years younger than me on line (she lives in US) but she's well educated and has a respectful job. It could be another wishful thinking exercise. We moved one step closer, we shall have a Zoom meeting after the New Year holiday. I am not looking for a quick fuck, so time will tell.

A few things to consider.

She's in the US with a much larger population. Why can't she find someone closer to home?

We know what's in it for you, but what's in it for her?

 

[cupcrazy]

Thanks, we have some common interests/hobby. Our conversation has been on the intellectual side but we also share our personal issues frankly and deeply. I am not expecting to meet her in person soon. She has an important job and exchanges with a similar level person makes me feel good. It's wonderful if we end up going to bed, if not, having such a friend even on line is an enjoyable experience for me . Again, time will tell.

best wishes. After seeing the 90 days fiance episodes, I would definitely proceed in caution. Unless you hire a detective, you don't really know if she is telling the truth or just a scam artist.

 

[Happyman]

best wishes. After seeing the 90 days fiance episodes, I would definitely proceed in caution. Unless you hire a detective, you don't really know if she is telling the truth or just a scam artist.

Thanks for all the good advice from you guys. A lot of frustrated housewives want to have some fun outside her home. I believe that lady may be one of them but it's certainly a good idea to be aware of possible scam. When I was younger, I frequently met unhappy housewives on business trips and they were opening their arms and legs wide to welcome a few nights crazy excitement. They had a decent job which possibly also gave them much pressure, therefore they were not looking for additional income but purely a release or an escape when outside her home.

 

[Deleted member 79939]

Everyone needs to assess their own situation. You should have an idea of whether or not it's reasonable for an MPA to 'like' you. For example, 1) are you the type that had no problems dating civie girls, 2) if you did not meet the MPA at the spa, would it be reasonable for her to like you (i.e. is she out of your league), 3) if it's not money, why else might she be attracted to you (physical, emotional, fun), 4) do you have common interests, background, culture, 5) is it easy for you to get close to other MPAs, do you make them laugh 6) what are signs that she might enjoy your company, hint: her spending significant time with you outside the spa with no money involved is normally a good indication, etc. etc.

For me personally, when I ask myself these questions (and more), I do not find it 'unreasonable' at all that some MPAs might like me, mostly the 40+ ones but even a few in their 30s. Now, if I ask the same questions with regards to a young, attractive MPA in her 20s that lives a full life with many friends her own age, then yeah, my thesis would not hold water.

MOST MASSAGE LADIES HATE OLD MEN.
MOST MASSAGE LADIES HATE THE NEW GENERATION.
MOST MASSAGE LADIES HATE ROBIN HOOD.
MOST MASSAGE LADIES HATE SPECIAL NON-DOCTORS. WHO MAKE OVER 300K PER YEAR.

 

[gcoogieben]

There are very few things colder than a whore’s heart. Some of these ladies have been known to piss ice water and can play with a sucker, ultimately sending him for analysis, even to a shrink.

In general females have been known to talk crazy talk, tell you anything, make a man ruined, make a man dance like a puppet on a string. And if you continue to fall for her lies....

Caught my MPA lying to me and called the bitch out on it. told her to fuck off. Cleaning house before the end of the year

 

[krayjee]

Yes, I was naive and could still be. I am in touch with a girl who is 20 years younger than me on line (she lives in US) but she's well educated and has a respectful job. It could be another wishful thinking exercise. We moved one step closer, we shall have a Zoom meeting after the New Year holiday. I am not looking for a quick fuck, so time will tell.

Age doesn't really matters much. I was in my low 60s when I got divorce. I advertised on POF and Craiglist. I got a few responses from much younger girls, most of them were students who were just looking for small financial assistance to pay their tuition fees. Some were married lonely wealthy house wives looking for fun.

I ended up seeing one 28 yrs old Korean student who responded before she left Korea for U of T graduate study. She is very pretty and assistant KBS , Korean drama TV producer in Korea. One was 24 yrs old Japanese student who was here to study English. They both stayed with me for 2 yrs each as FWB. The Japanese girl didn't want any financial assistance. She just want to have some companion. One was a very wealthy Real estate business woman from BC looking for fun whenever she is in TO cuz her husband was in his 80s. She was 50 at that time and horny as hell.

It was fun in those days but lots of work and too much time consuming. Much cheaper seeing spa girls.

The Korean girl at Inn of Manitou golf resort. We were together for 2 yrs and we never once said I love you to each other. It was just a special arrangement. All she asked was her dorm fee at U of T for $600 a month. I gave her 1500 a month.

 

[krayjee]

Caught my MPA lying to me and called the bitch out on it. told her to fuck off. Cleaning house before the end of the year

LOL...I have never come across a MPA who doesn't lie. One Korean MPA crazily fell in love with me to a point she couldn't live without me, and yet she still lied a lot and see some of her regulars behind my back.

 

[krayjee]

was she worth it is the question!

She's a real nymph and well worth it. She cooked for me and did all the laundries for me. She even ironed my under wear. I saw her right after my separation from my wife. I was planning to marry her but she said her parents will never accept me and it will never happen cuz we are 32 yrs apart. I didn't want her wasting her youthful life with me. So I let her go even though it was very painful. It took me about 3-4 months to recover...lol

 

[xtc27]

cat tog time - I understand! i had sim issues when I left my kids with mom for other women.. I always have love!!!~

Catherine Tog time?

..I mean, sure, its always CTog time, but...

 

[gcoogieben]

fuck.. I thought i was the only one!! but is she worth the trouble? is she that good?

I’ve had better but she’s really generous. Doesn’t charge for the session so I only pay the house fee. When we go out she pays for the meals. I know she’s got plenty of clients on her phone but doesn’t want to admit it to me. I can never understand what these women do, nothing makes sense. Don’t need the relationship there’s tons out there. But I can’t tolerate bullshit.

 

[xtc27]

Age doesn't really matters much. I was in my low 60s when I got divorce. I advertised on POF and Craiglist. I got a few responses from much younger girls, most of them were students who were just looking for small financial assistance to pay their tuition fees. ...

I ended up seeing one 28 yrs old Korean student who responded before she left Korea for U of T graduate study. She is very pretty and assistant KBS , Korean drama TV producer in Korea. ... stayed with me for 2 yrs each as FWB. ...

It was fun in those days but lots of work and too much time consuming. Much cheaper seeing spa girls.

The Korean girl at Inn of Manitou golf resort. We were together for 2 yrs and we never once said I love you to each other. It was just a special arrangement. All she asked was her dorm fee at U of T for $600 a month. I gave her 1500 a month.
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...can just imagine some dude spitting out his coffee & sayin', shit man, that my gf!

 

[krayjee]

...can just imagine some dude spitting out his coffee & sayin', shit man, that my gf!

Nothing to worry. She was here for only two yrs and she never saw anyone else and all she did was study and study and all she knew was her dorm room and my condo and my office bed room at my business. She stayed away from Koreans so to improve her English. She is back in Korea and a big shot now. She already had a position waiting for her before she returned to Korea.

I have the pictures of the Japanese girl too but she is just a GND type girl, but very good in bed.
BTW..Japanese Akira is working tomorrow. If interested send me a PM. So are Cecilia and Penny. It's a hotel near hwy 7 and Leslie.

 

[OG_funguy]

Age doesn't really matters much. I was in my low 60s when I got divorce. I advertised on POF and Craiglist. I got a few responses from much younger girls, most of them were students who were just looking for small financial assistance to pay their tuition fees. Some were married lonely wealthy house wives looking for fun.

I ended up seeing one 28 yrs old Korean student who responded before she left Korea for U of T graduate study. She is very pretty and assistant KBS , Korean drama TV producer in Korea. One was 24 yrs old Japanese student who was here to study English. They both stayed with me for 2 yrs each as FWB. The Japanese girl didn't want any financial assistance. She just want to have some companion. One was a very wealthy Real estate business woman from BC looking for fun whenever she is in TO cuz her husband was in his 80s. She was 50 at that time and horny as hell.

It was fun in those days but lots of work and too much time consuming. Much cheaper seeing spa girls.

The Korean girl at Inn of Manitou golf resort. We were together for 2 yrs and we never once said I love you to each other. It was just a special arrangement. All she asked was her dorm fee at U of T for $600 a month. I gave her 1500 a month.
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Nice...but you're talking about financial arrangements. I'm talking about seeing them with no money involved...

 

[krayjee]

Nice...but you're talking about financial arrangements. I'm talking about seeing them with no money involved...

Nothing is free in life my friend and don't forget my girls are in their 20s and very good looking ones
Korean girl was financial arrangement I paid cuz she responded to one of my ad saying " New in Toronto and looking for someone to show you around and some financial assistance ?" . She was very decent girl and only asked $600 for her dorm fee.
Japanese girl was free and came from a high middle class family. Her father was a major, a pilot in Japanese army.

POF was very good for me in those days. I picked up quite a few Asian girls from there. It was funny some of them I met are MPAs and SPs I have known.