Chat Does my favourite MPA like me or not???

[xtc27]

The only guarantee and constant is that she likes your money and that you can be made to ejaculate on time without too much strain on her part. All other variables about you are subject to change in her opinion as required.

...so u read this woman retired, & he still sees her? So... guessing she’s not getting $$ f/ him, & ejaculation mebbe not happening either...

Guess KL has his answer now... she likes him 4sure...

Cynical part of me wants to shout, “No Sex! Who cares?” But @Caliguy always told me u can’t have 2 many friends, just being friends= gd...

... guess I’m more of a FWB guy... although still worry about mpas I stopped seeing... even text occasionally.... dunno why...

 

[OG_funguy]

...so u read this woman retired, & he still sees her? So... guessing she’s not getting $$ f/ him, & ejaculation mebbe not happening either...

Guess KL has his answer now... she likes him 4sure...

Yep, she hasn't gotten money from me in a long time (she's been retired for over a year). And yes, we do have 'fun' too.

She's my original 'honey' and the first MPA I saw outside the spa. However, as close as I am to her, there's 3-4 other faves that I'm even closer to now.

 

[xtc27]

Yep, she hasn't gotten money from me in a long time (she's been retired for over a year). And yes, we do have 'fun' too.

She's my original 'honey' and the first MPA I saw outside the spa. However, as close as I am to her, there's 3-4 other faves that I'm even closer to now.

'Fun'=fs?

Relationships progressing 2 sex not surprising.,.. except u said all she did = HJ!

Is it still HJ?

Those quotes around 'fun' ... got me confused....

 

[OG_funguy]

'Fun'=fs?

Relationships progressing 2 sex not surprising.,.. except u said all she did = HJ!

Is it still HJ?

Those quotes around 'fun' ... got me confused....

No fs or bj (she doesn't do the latter) but everything else is on the table, no where to do FS since she won't go to a hotel. She's old school, pretty sure if I had my own place, it wouldn't take long for sex.

Anyways, sex with her is not that important to me. Like I said, I have 3-4 other faves that I'm much closer to now

 

[xtc27]

No fs or bj (she doesn't do the latter) but everything else is on the table, no where to do FS since she won't go to a hotel. She's old school, pretty sure if I had my own place, it wouldn't take long for sex.

Anyways, sex with her is not that important to me. Like I said, I have 3-4 other faves that I'm much closer to now

Wild... so still getting the hj... & dfk?... guessing thats pretty much what u can do ina car if fs/bj not happening... & old school girl...

 

[OG_funguy]

Wild... so still getting the hj... & dfk?... guessing thats pretty much what u can do ina car if fs/bj not happening... & old school girl...

Pretty much, she'll get naked (I have a blanket in the car) and enjoys me using a 'toy' on her (she has intense orgasms). I know you like DFK, well she's the best kissing MPA I've met. Truth be told, that's the main reason why I kept going back to see her in the early days...

 

[xtc27]

Pretty much, she'll get naked (I have a blanket in the car) and enjoys me using a 'toy' on her (she has intense orgasms). I know you like DFK, well she's the best kissing MPA I've met. Truth be told, that's the main reason why I kept going back to see her in the early days...

...so funny but true... almost every MPA w wildly loyal desperate clients... DFK... & dudes won't admit it!.... like this girl Apple @ Purple Sugar... everyone looking for this lil spinner, lotsa similar girls out there, WTF?!?! Anyway, finally located... & found out she's DFK almost guaranteed (via DM).


...used 2 wonder WTD w all these ISO threads... 'In Search Of'

....any time I read ISO thread now, think... ISO=DFK... if they find her, hmm, mebbe TDL...

 

[dirtyoldman]

Ask yourself what the point of being a MPA is? money.

You give her steady money and your not abusive. Why wouldnt she see you?

Men are from mars and women are from venus. MPA are from pluto. You can’t even guess what they really feel.

Fuck her a few times and dont waste either of your time. Does anyone ever think your helping anyone except yourself?

We all selfish, lets not pretend to be anything but that. She wants your money from an easy client. Thats it.

Only money that's it's

 

[dirtyoldman]

Some quick background. I've seen many MPAs in the past, almost all work at semi-legit places. I'm really drawn to one in particular and have very strong feelings for her (I've been seeing her almost every week for the last couple of years). By all accounts, she is very average looking and most guys here would not even look twice at her. She's Asian, probably mid to late 40's (she won't tell me her age) and very traditional. Despite the profession she's in, she's actually quite inexperienced sexually (yes, I know this is hard to believe). In any event, I'm not drawn to her because of anything sexual related (even her massage is not that good LOL). Anyways, I know a lot of you have experience from being in similar situations so based on the facts below, please let me know if you think she has genuine feelings for me or if she is playing me just so I continue to see her.

Reasons why she might actually like me:

• She has told me many times that she has strong feelings towards me (I'm not naive and can usually tell if someone is genuine or not).
• Our sessions are very intimate and include both passionate and tender kissing as well as cuddling. We also have pretty deep conversations.
• No surprise here but she tells me that we do things that she doesn't do with anyone else (in case you're wondering this doesn't include FS or even BJ).
• I know her real name and birthday (in case this actually matters).
• We've gone out once and she insisted on paying for the venue. At the venue, there were many people that know her. I mean the "real" her, they have no idea she is an MPA. We had a great time together and no, there was no fooling around at all.
• She does nice things for me, for example sometimes after our session has ended, we'll just sit around and she'll feed me fruit or something.
• We chat regularly via IM and sometimes live so yes, I do have her number (and she claims I'm the only customer that has it).
• I asked for and she sent me photos of her younger self. She grew up in China without digital cameras so these are actually pictures of pictures.
• I don't tip her anything above the norm; when I do try to tip her more, she refuses.
• I've offered to buy her small things and she refuses.

Reasons why she might just be playing with me:

• Mixed messages. She knows I'm falling for her (yes, I'm breaking the golden rule) and basically encourages me to see other MPAs but then she'll send me a message saying she's afraid to lose me. Then a week later, she'll say not to see other MPAs. The constant back & forth is confusing.
• This is the big one. Except for the one time we went out, she has not agreed to go out again (except for her birthday which is coming up). When I ask why, she can't really offer up a good reason and avoids the topic. Now, she does know I'm married so that could be it (she has said before that if I was single, she would definitely date me). But if this was the case, why did she even go out with me that one time. Also, I recently asked again if it was because I'm married and she said no.
• So basically the only time I see her is during our paid sessions.

Sorry for the long post but I really would like to get your guys thoughts on this. Thanks.

She love your money.

 

[Ursus]

I have a small penis, I finish in under 2 minutes and I repeat like a you can't imagine, so yes, the escorts do love me. But it's not me they love, its the super easy money from me that they love.

Women are incapable of loving anything, hooker or not. It's not you, it's them (women).

 

[OG_funguy]

I have a small penis, I finish in under 2 minutes and I repeat like a you can't imagine, so yes, the escorts do love me. But it's not me they love, its the super easy money from me that they love.

Women are incapable of loving anything, hooker or not. It's not you, it's them (women).

Yes, those are all good attributes that you possess but do you connect with them emotionally? By your admission, you look down on women and don't listen to them...so why would they do anything for you?

 

[Gulag107]

There are very few things colder than a whore’s heart. Some of these ladies have been known to piss ice water and can play with a sucker, ultimately sending him for analysis, even to a shrink.

In general females have been known to talk crazy talk, tell you anything, make a man ruined, make a man dance like a puppet on a string. And if you continue to fall for her lies....

 

[xtc27]

There are very few things colder than a whore’s heart. Some of these ladies have been known to piss ice water and can play with a sucker, ultimately sending him for analysis, even to a shrink.

In general females have been known to talk crazy talk, tell you anything, make a man ruined, make a man dance like a puppet on a string. And if you continue to fall for her lies....

Mebbe...

...but this thread is about an mpa who really liked her client... she’s retired & dude sees her 4 free...

Happily ever after...

 

[Ursus]

I am dead serious when I say this:

I am very thankful to Asian Angela for teaching me about how much women use and lie to men. Angela used me so much, it was a continuous slap in my face; and it taught me about the true nature of women. It has helped me avoid Asian Angela types, going forward. I am very, very thankful to her for treating me so badly. It was a great lesson for me to learn.

Everyone should meet a woman like her once in their life, preferrably early on, so they can learn and thus avoid similar minded people forever.

Thank you for the lesson Angela. You taught me well.

 

[Happyman]

How to tell a decent senior who is at 70 to wake up? A business associate of mine who had helped me when he was doing fine is now in bad shape. He stopped working for health reason and recently divoiced, thus is actively seeking out young girls (not MPA) on line. He has been in touch with numerous young girls whose age is 20-30's in USA. He has been trying to get this girl to come up to Toronto to stay with him in his Condo. With the situation now, the girl has to stay in his place. He has been paying half a dozen tickets to have these girls to fly to see him but all ended up no show. His Ex and his children have tried to give him a wake up call. I have told him in a nice way that these girls are just wasting his time. How would a decent girl comes to see an old man and stays in a Condo almost like in jail deal to the lock down rule??? We will just say to someone here in a straight way, unless you pay, forget about it! Any suggestion to have this old man back to track? I am thinking to have his daughter to talk to him, convince him to see a therapist/healer?

 

[Gulag107]

Mebbe...

...but this thread is about an mpa who really liked her client... she’s retired & dude sees her 4 free...

Happily ever after...

I had the same experience but nothing is really “free” is it ?

 

[xtc27]

How to tell a decent senior who is at 70 to wake up? A business associate of mine who had helped me when he was doing fine is now is bad shape. He stopped working for health reason and recently divoiced, thus is actively seeking out young girls (not MPA) on line. He has been in touch with numerous young girls whose age is 20-30's in USA. He has been trying to get this girl to come up to Toronto to stay with him in his Condo. With the situation now, the girl has to stay in his place. He has been paying half a dozen tickets to have these girls to fly to see him but all ended up no show. His Ex and his children have tried to give him a wake up call. I have told him in a nice way that these girls are just wasting his time. How would a decent girl comes to see an old man and stays in a Condo almost like in jail deal to the lock down rule??? We will just say to someone here in a straight way, unless you pay, forget about it! Any suggestion to have this old man back to track? I am thinking to have his daughter to talk to him, convince him to see a therapist/healer?

...in his shoes... ...

...would NOT want 2 talk w daughter about fuckng girls her age... dunno if she nose already, but... convo= super awkward... would not be in listening mode...

...& I would keep doing it, right?

Nobody outside of Cda getting in here for many months... hes gotta give his head a shake... if hes into it, shoukd concentrate on Cdns, & mebbe Seeking Arrangements... esp w older gal, I mean, when yer 70, 40= still pretty young & hot... yeah, wont b hot 4ever, but hes friggin 70, doesnt hafta worry how she looks in 20 yrs... younger girls just gonna rob him...

...Needs a dude 2 talk w him... me= not volunteering . ... I nominate u...

Tell him: If u want actual sex, not fantasy of sex, stop chasing Twenty Something Yanks... not realistic... go4 Cdn woman, esp 40s... & yeah, use yer $$$, gets hotter girl... something like Sugar Daddy setup... or if u want real relationship, u gotta check out even older girls... gd thing is, when yr 70, 50 looks hot!

No therapist gonna talk frankly like this...

 

[Happyman]

Thanks, what you said makes sense. He does not have money now to be a sugar dad. He has to be realistic that he is way passed the stage to have a teen to come to him at his age. I have to figure out a nice way to give him a wake up call. At one time, I thought a 20-30 year old MPA was interested in me, but of course I soon found out it's total a wishful thinking. After that exercise, I acknowledge the fact that time is gone is gone.

 

[OG_funguy]

At one time, I thought a 20-30 year old MPA was interested in me, but of course I soon found out it's total a wishful thinking. After that exercise, I acknowledge the fact that time is gone.

Everyone needs to assess their own situation. You should have an idea of whether or not it's reasonable for an MPA to 'like' you. For example, 1) are you the type that had no problems dating civie girls, 2) if you did not meet the MPA at the spa, would it be reasonable for her to like you (i.e. is she out of your league), 3) if it's not money, why else might she be attracted to you (physical, emotional, fun), 4) do you have common interests, background, culture, 5) is it easy for you to get close to other MPAs, do you make them laugh 6) what are signs that she might enjoy your company, hint: her spending significant time with you outside the spa with no money involved is normally a good indication, etc. etc.

For me personally, when I ask myself these questions (and more), I do not find it 'unreasonable' that some MPAs might like me, mostly the 40+ ones but even a few in their 30s. Now, if I ask the same questions with regards to a young, attractive MPA in her 20s that lives a full life with many friends her own age, then yeah, my thesis would not hold water.

 

[hangul99]

Thanks, what you said makes sense. He does not have money now to be a sugar dad. He has to be realistic that he is way passed the stage to have a teen to come to him at his age. I have to figure out a nice way to give him a wake up call. At one time, I thought a 20-30 year old MPA was interested in me, but of course I soon found out it's total a wishful thinking. After that exercise, I acknowledge the fact that time is gone is gone.

Put him in touch with KJ. Lol!