Chat Does my favourite MPA like me or not???

[Ursus]

You are always full of shit as usual. If you are not ready to see them, why did you bother asking me. That's why KL said you only talk, never walk the walk.

When you say:

'You are always'

You don't need to say:

'as usual'


Say one or the other, but not both.

 

[bbqt61]

Sound like one of my experiences. Of course she likes you.

 

[BulliedEnough]

Sir, I think what you're going through is the classic "injured deer syndrome." All you're seeing is what your feelings want you to see: A subjectively cute face; a sweet little Asian girl from China. In your eyes, you're probably thinking "what a sweet girl. Poor thing, what is she doing in this line of work?? I must save her from this madness." You're probably looking at her as a poor and lost soul waiting to be saved. You may be seeing a bit of depression in her eyes every time you hang out with her.

Brother, take advice from the experienced posters around here that had a similar story as you. The mind of a prostitute or ANY woman who is in this line of work is on a whole different level. We will never really know what goes on in the mind of a prostitute. It is impossible to dissect them on a psychological level. You may think that you're doing them a favor by being around them and saving them from a life of prostitution. Next thing you know, she'll ghost you out of nowhere, block you on all phone numbers, and move away never to be seen again.

Just because she has a sweet appearance, doesn't mean she has a sweet "heart." Any woman who goes into the field of prostitution or porn industry, there is something wrong with their neurological wiring. It's not normal for woman to go down this line of work. Something happened in their lives that changed them on a fundamental level and caused them to choose this line of work. And we are fools for thinking that we can save them.

 

[OG_funguy]

Sir, I think what you're going through is the classic "injured deer syndrome." All you're seeing is what your feelings want you to see: A subjectively cute face; a sweet little Asian girl from China. In your eyes, you're probably thinking "what a sweet girl. Poor thing, what is she doing in this line of work?? I must save her from this madness." You're probably looking at her as a poor and lost soul waiting to be saved. You may be seeing a bit of depression in her eyes every time you hang out with her.

Brother, take advice from the experienced posters around here that had a similar story as you. The mind of a prostitute or ANY woman who is in this line of work is on a whole different level. We will never really know what goes on in the mind of a prostitute. It is impossible to dissect them on a psychological level. You may think that you're doing them a favor by being around them and saving them from a life of prostitution. Next thing you know, she'll ghost you out of nowhere, block you on all phone numbers, and move away never to be seen again.

Just because she has a sweet appearance, doesn't mean she has a sweet "heart." Any woman who goes into the field of prostitution or porn industry, there is something wrong with their neurological wiring. It's not normal for woman to go down this line of work. Something happened in their lives that changed them on a fundamental level and caused them to choose this line of work. And we are fools for thinking that we can save them.

Thanks for your perspective...I never had any intentions of "saving" anyone and quite frankly, the ones I'm close to don't need saving. And these "experienced" posters you are talking about, trust me when I tell you most of them don't know much beyond their own limited experiences (no offense to the guys that do). Like I said many times before, don't generalize as not all MPAs are the same...and if you are of sound judgement, you can navigate through this hobby just fine.

 

[MICHAEL7777]

i wouldn't be surprise if he is. I mean all of the spas he works for is currently out of businesses. Need to find ways to get free perks here and there.

I did receive offers to do it in hotels and even at the spa. I will take a pass on the spa. I don't want to get a ticket.

Sour grapes eh?
In reality, your dying to be in his shoes.

 

[MICHAEL7777]

Women tell us all kinds of contrived sweet talk to control us, whores not withstanding, especially about the guy being exclusive or getting unique services. Woman get off on these power trips and play on words to control us.

Arguably , the most dangerous extra is not bbfs, it is the controlling , mesmerizing tirade of lies feed into a vulnerable guy’s ears.

Isn't bbfs one of their best weapon to control you?

 

[cupcrazy]

Sour grapes eh?
In reality, your dying to be in his shoes.

If i am really that sour, I would put in more efforts. I don't need the influencer job to pay for my hobby. Having met numerous spa owners, it is always an uphill battles to work with them.

 

[Toomanymiles]

Yeah she loves you and wants to brag to the world what you did/do/going to do together.

 

[krayjee]

ha ha ha - I think it's every woman on earths weapon!!! make us guys pussy whipped and get us on a leash. and to be frank, I'm on a few leashes!!
and a few of them also have cooking skills as some of them have shared their lunch with me..
these are the girls that make me bark.. woof!

BBFS is happening a lot in spa world lately more than you can imagine. It seems to me like lots of girls are doing this to keep their customers. Some holistic girls are providing for a few extra dollars and some semi legit girls are doing it to keep their customers and to satisfy their own needs. Especially those in their 40s, single with average looks.

 

[Toomanymiles]

I know, it would be a total hoot if the girls were on here reviewing us!! ha ha - I would even buy a subscription!!
I have 2 freebies to cash in on someday.. or maybe that deal has expired??
will have to check with that spa owner soon! or maybe she lets me in on 411 before new girl goes to market..
or maybe I'm just garbage dude she plays like a fiddle!!
there are many other OP's here that get way more than I do! I'm just a small fish in this ocean!
and why is it again @toomanymles that you hate me? because I don't talk about what I pay, is that it?
no matter..

Happy hunting always!

I hate you? That is news to me. If I am somewhat negative think it’s because you are always so happy I couldn’t help but take shots a you (sorry if I did). It must be the Cali in you, I notice west coast people are always so happy and positive. I’m much more cynical east coast persona. Sorry dude I’ll be much less negative.

 

[Toomanymiles]

it's the cali in me for sure!
I've had a lot of great experiences since I started hobbying and really few, not so good ones..
but honestly, I live with a tumor in my femur that can go sideways any day!
it's in my best interest to stay positive for sure!

ah makes sense now. Hope all goes well!

 

[krayjee]

I hate you? That is news to me. If I am somewhat negative think it’s because you are always so happy I couldn’t help but take shots a you (sorry if I did). It must be the Cali in you, I notice west coast people are always so happy and positive. I’m much more cynical east coast persona. Sorry dude I’ll be much less negative.

West coast East coast doesn't make any difference. It's the person who sets his own destination.
Negative people will never have a positive life cuz they are more busy focusing on other people's lives and forgetting how to make their lives better.

 

[Happyman]

Age doesn't really matters much. I was in my low 60s when I got divorce. I advertised on POF and Craiglist. I got a few responses from much younger girls, most of them were students who were just looking for small financial assistance to pay their tuition fees. Some were married lonely wealthy house wives looking for fun.

I ended up seeing one 28 yrs old Korean student who responded before she left Korea for U of T graduate study. She is very pretty and assistant KBS , Korean drama TV producer in Korea. One was 24 yrs old Japanese student who was here to study English. They both stayed with me for 2 yrs each as FWB. The Japanese girl didn't want any financial assistance. She just want to have some companion. One was a very wealthy Real estate business woman from BC looking for fun whenever she is in TO cuz her husband was in his 80s. She was 50 at that time and horny as hell.

It was fun in those days but lots of work and too much time consuming. Much cheaper seeing spa girls.

The Korean girl at Inn of Manitou golf resort. We were together for 2 yrs and we never once said I love you to each other. It was just a special arrangement. All she asked was her dorm fee at U of T for $600 a month. I gave her 1500 a month.
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Well, you got a dam good deal which sounds too good to be true. You are qualified to be the King of the hobby here. My idea for the budget of a sugar Dad would be $5000 -$100000 a month. So far the (free) fun that I have with normal girls was really short, no more than a few nights. All were frustrated housewives around their 40s and all were encountered at business meetings when I was young. They could be very aggressive in taking the initiation. The most outstanding one was when I attended a training session in a resort. After the training session, we went to the beach. One of the girls who was around late 30 with not a bad look, used her leg to touch my little boy when we were swimming. If a guy did a similar action, he would be in jail. I believe she had been doing so to a few guys and I could not get close to her at all because she was surrounded by guys throughout the training session; who could resist such a strong indication. You are a hero because I have no more luck with free entertainment for a long time as my age advances. I may be hitting a jackpot now but only time will tell.

 

[Toomanymiles]

West coast East coast doesn't make any difference. It's the person who sets his own destination.
Negative people will never have a positive life cuz they are more busy focusing on other people's lives and forgetting how to make their lives better.

while I appreciate your sentiment the region you are from does affect your personality or at least your mannerisms. Going to different areas it is quite noticeable.New Yorkers tend to act arrogant and abrasive, la vibe is laid back and chill, southern people process things at a more conservative pace and are not nearly as rude as east coasters. Canadians are nice and polite but not as direct as their southern counterparts. Everyone has a different personality but it’s hard to escape the mannerisms and accents from where you originate.

 

[SPAfan2020]

while I appreciate your sentiment the region you are from does affect your personality or at least your mannerisms. Going to different areas it is quite noticeable.New Yorkers tend to act arrogant and abrasive, la vibe is laid back and chill, southern people process things at a more conservative pace and are not nearly as rude as east coasters. Canadians are nice and polite but not as direct as their southern counterparts. Everyone has a different personality but it’s hard to escape the mannerisms and accents from where you originate.

Hi Toomany,
One of the well-known world philosopher has believed: those people who are still believe in tribe. clan, race, skin color, place of birth differences are ignorant. After all, if we believe science (evolution) we are all from monkeys and if we believe religions we are from the same parents: Adam and Eve. I do believe in Krayjee's comments because it is based on realty: negative people can not have positive attitude. There are many BS shitters in this board that just they write bad comments about MPAs who did not provide them good service for much less money or jealous of members who had fun or helped others to earn living or have some fun. Let's start 2021 in positive and helping each other mode.

 

[Sybarite]

Sir, I think what you're going through is the classic "injured deer syndrome." All you're seeing is what your feelings want you to see: A subjectively cute face; a sweet little Asian girl from China. In your eyes, you're probably thinking "what a sweet girl. Poor thing, what is she doing in this line of work?? I must save her from this madness." You're probably looking at her as a poor and lost soul waiting to be saved. You may be seeing a bit of depression in her eyes every time you hang out with her.

Brother, take advice from the experienced posters around here that had a similar story as you. The mind of a prostitute or ANY woman who is in this line of work is on a whole different level. We will never really know what goes on in the mind of a prostitute. It is impossible to dissect them on a psychological level. You may think that you're doing them a favor by being around them and saving them from a life of prostitution. Next thing you know, she'll ghost you out of nowhere, block you on all phone numbers, and move away never to be seen again.

Just because she has a sweet appearance, doesn't mean she has a sweet "heart." Any woman who goes into the field of prostitution or porn industry, there is something wrong with their neurological wiring. It's not normal for woman to go down this line of work. Something happened in their lives that changed them on a fundamental level and caused them to choose this line of work. And we are fools for thinking that we can save them.

And yet here you are on this website seeking advice on how to meet women. So what is wrong with your neurological wiring?

 

[Toomanymiles]

Hi Toomany,
One of the well-known world philosopher has believed: those people who are still believe in tribe. clan, race, skin color, place of birth differences are ignorant. After all, if we believe science (evolution) we are all from monkeys and if we believe religions we are from the same parents: Adam and Eve. I do believe in Krayjee's comments because it is based on realty: negative people can not have positive attitude. There are many BS shitters in this board that just they write bad comments about MPAs who did not provide them good service for much less money or jealous of members who had fun or helped others to earn living or have some fun. Let's start 2021 in positive and helping each other mode.

well if you are referring to this board then yes I agree. But when I am in Cali or New York (a different tribe) my Canadian tendencies become rather apparent. Not saying it is negative just that they respond to situations differently than here. Like how fast Americans are to flash a firearm in a disagreement. Lol

 

[Toomanymiles]

Inglewood, CA. always up to no good for sure!

lol! Issues with piru can escalate quickly

 

[krayjee]

Well, you got a dam good deal which sounds too good to be true. You are qualified to be the King of the hobby here. My idea for the budget of a sugar Dad would be $5000 -$100000 a month. So far the (free) fun that I have with normal girls was really short, no more than a few nights. All were frustrated housewives around their 40s and all were encountered at business meetings when I was young. They could be very aggressive in taking the initiation. The most outstanding one was when I attended a training session in a resort. After the training session, we went to the beach. One of the girls who was around late 30 with not a bad look, used her leg to touch my little boy when we were swimming. If a guy did a similar action, he would be in jail. I believe she had been doing so to a few guys and I could not get close to her at all because she was surrounded by guys throughout the training session; who could resist such a strong indication. You are a hero because I have no more luck with free entertainment for a long time as my age advances. I may be hitting a jackpot now but only time will tell.

Talking about horny housewives...... I have never came across one as horny as this purchasing manager from Montreal whose husband was a surgeon with 2 teen age kids.
Just have a look at part of her emails while communicating with me through Craiglists dating site. She looks really good for her age. I met her a few days later at her downtown hotel suite. She was more than I could handle..lol

Hmmmmmmmm....so what to do with you then Daniel???? As much as I am looking for a young stud...I have to admit your wonderfully sweet e-mail got me really intrigued!!!

...and those awesome pictures of you in action with some young chickys...got me really wet! As I just mentioned, I'm actually in a teeny weenie sexy bikini sitting on a lounge chair at my hotel pool as I type out this message (supposed to be responding to work e-mails but...oh well!!!) and seeing those pics of you fucking those girls is getting me quite turned on!!!

You have a big cock by the way!!!...YUMMY!!!!

You look like you are in really good shape and you seem really sexy and full of energy!!! That's soooooooooooo HOTT!!! How did you convince those two young women to spread their legs for you???? What's your secret??? I'd love to hear the story!

So, this is my dilemm: I think one of the reasons I look for younger guys aside from the obvious reason is that they don't remind me of my husband...so, when I'm doing stuff with them, there isn't any sense of guilt. I just let go and enjoy. I think being with an older guy will make me realize that I am cheating!!!

...then again, you look like you really enjoy fucking and would know how to please a woman!!!...what to do???

Anyway, sorry to write such a long e-mail but, I did want to respond because you sound really sweet and you look so sexy!!!! I will tell you that I did meet one guy earlier in the week...just an ok experience. I will probably head out to a bar or club tonight (brought my tiny skirt...may as well use it) so, I don't know if I'll get luck or not.

I am also seriously considering your offer....love seeing you fucking those girls and wondering what it would be like if you were with me...sooooooooooo, just want you to know...I'm really kinda tempted!!!

If you are still interested and available...let me know and let me know what you think after reading all of this!


Desirae

P.S. because you seem so sweet...a few more pics for your viewing pleasure...

 

[gcoogieben]