Ever fall in love with a prostitute?

[Pompal 09.]

That was a good advice.:]

 

[moderateprofessor]

The book that I reviewed here from the ex pimp Brother Rapp, talked about a 'practice dummy' basically it's a girl who is a 'door mat' to you. You basically treat her like shit, because you really don't care about her. So you just do what you want, come and go as you please, fuck other women, and if the practice dummy objects, you tell her nobody is keeping her here, there is the door if you want. By practicing with her, you hone you skills. Because no matter how bad you threat her, she will not leave you.( in order to get rid of her you might have to threat her nice?)

Come to think about it, it reminds me how I use to treat my wife sometimes. She'll tell me how good her brothers or friends from church treats theirs wives , buying them anything they wants, allows them to stay home, buying them flowers for no reason, while she claims I threat her like crap and take her for granted. I just tell her those guys are idiots, and look at crap those wives pull? She'll even admit some of these guys are stupid and get walked over. { BTW I don't consider a wife a practice dummy, its just an example I'm using]

The problem with a practice dummy is it works both ways. If she isn't your dummy, then it''s a good bet you're her practice dummy, she is just seeing how much she can get away with.

The other problem is in terms of looks she has an advaneforum.xxxe over you. She is a 7 or maybe an 8 very young and beautiful. You on the other hand, might be a 3 or 4 in the looks department, maybe have a little bit too much weigh around the middle, and no longer considered young.

There has been studies done by psychologist that show than when one partner in a relationship is a lot better looking then the other, that the better looking partner tends to have more power in a relationship and takes advaneforum.xxxe of the plain looking partner. Of course if you have lot of money, and are an American citizen, and she wants something from you......then you can even out the odds. But more often then not, guys/mongers don't know how to take advaneforum.xxxe of the situation, and allow the puta girlfriend to walk all over you.

Of course there are some strong willed women, with tons of self-respect, who won't put up with some guys antics?

 

[nOnAME_MAN]

Personally I've been in relationships before, and I don't need the bullshit that follows the territory. Women that we become involved with use sex as a weapon, or overburden the family court system.

 

[Yahzmin (US) (???)]

It is very hard for guys to follow, but the truth is you should enter into any relationship with the thought you don't care if she leaves. If you can behave in such a way that she truly believes you don't care, she finds herself more attracked to you.

Have you ever had sex with a lady that you really don't like?...yet she calls you, shows up unannounced, and just basically bothers you??? If you can treat the ladies the same way you treat her you will have better luck.

At the same time I am not saying disrespect the lady or beat her, or anything...just don't trip over yourself trying to keep her. If she believes you don't care, she will try and make you care.

This is not exlclusive to working women, but women in general. I just choose to have 100% of my relationships with working girls.

 

[Milk Maid]

Bohemian...
If you don't have enough experience with working girls...
If you don't know fully from the start the escence of their business....
If you don't know the mechanichs of their business...
If you don't know right now what they are doing right this instant, be it free time or working time...
If you don't fully know her normal and/or family life...
If you don't know if she has been sincere with you...
Just stop it.
I am reading between lines doubts and questions and it seems that you are waiting for someone to write precisely what's eating you up.
I think you just can't define what you are dealing with and unless you manage and write it down here so we can read it, we might not give you the answer you are looking for.
Meanwhile, this is my advice.
Have a normal life, get a normal girl and keep normality by your side.
Best case scenario, you are going to suffer some and that'll be just you wondering about her life.
You know what Bohemian... walk away.
Just walk away and live happy.

 

[brooklyn]

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[Fluke]

desertdon wrote:

I think you're being a little harsh on the typical monger that fall in LOVE Desertdon. Perhaps the monger could be a little shy, or lacking in social graces, and maybe could be a little neurotic, who isn't? But to say a monger who falls in love with a puta is 'disfunctional' is just over the top, and I believe just PLAIN WRONG.

Lets put the shoe on the other foot: Could it be the disfunctional man, is the man in the so-called, ' normal relationship?' The normal man if he is middle aged, is with another overweight women, who treats him like SHIT, and doesn't lift a finger around the house and cook, and the SEX life, what sex life? Once a week maybe.

Now the so-called 'disfunctional monger' is with a HOT sexy, young foreign born babe, who cooks and cleans, and fucks his brains out every night, or until they break up. Now tell me who is the 'disfunctional one?

 

[luvmylittlefatcat]

With your thinking you will do well in any country that caters to the monger scene. Because it be Mexico, the PI or Thailand, it is all the same. Just don't let it cloud your judgment if you hook up with a maid, or a waitress, or legal masseuse that turns out to be a sweet girl.

One maid I had in PVR a few years ago was a total sweetie, I'm still sure money was a factor, they don't love older men because they look better than younger guys. They know older men have money. But she would have made me a good wife.

 

[leafie]

When I was engaged my father advised me that the first two years of my marriage I should live 200 miles away from relatives. (Close enough to see them on ocassion, but far enough they can't drop in.) After getting married I understood why he gave me this advice--and how good it was.

 

[Paige]

Sampson
I like your advice ! However its difficult to implement, most guys will give money to their girls. This is not a normal relation, some of us get into this crap relation and we think we are helping the girl her family whatever. If you dont give them money, they will walk away. Hey it just dawned on me, if she walks away she wasnt your girl firend. "IF You Love something set it free, if it comes back to you, it is yours, if not, it NEVER WAS !!!!"
I am convincd about your advice, but one will have to make a complete brain make over to be like that. I guess thats why a normal guy loving a Bar Girl is doomed form the start !
Please advise further

 

[Nikke]

Good topic Fireballs. This is totally covered in "The relationships and Thai Culture topic on the Pattaya Pages.

I for one have had more failed relationships with Thai Whores, than Mexican ones. Only 2 latina whores come to mind. One was named Maria in Puerto Vallarta, and another was named Sandra I met in Mazatlan. Both were more into the relationship thing. I think Maria would have worked out, but every time I tried to call her in PV, nobody would answer the phone. Sandra's case was real easy, when she asked "Was I rich?" I said "talk to you later," and never called her back.

The Thai ones were easy to weed out, for they always use the excuse of sick family members and buffalo stories. The last one I dated even told me she was working a factory in Bangkok, while taking care of sick mama in Ubon Rathanchani some 400 miles away. And she was commuting between a city on Laotian border, to the heart of Thailand everyday. Here's the letter she sent last year, along with her photo.

Hello Darling,

How are you? Now I am very busy but still have time to mail to you? Now I am working in Bangkok. I work in the factory that I used to work before. I am in Ubon now and Yupa will come here today.
For Songrean fastivay. it is up to you I can go whereever you like or you like to go to Ubon ( my hometown) but it not such a nice house. You know a lot about Thai girl but I like you to believe me. I told you already that I have only my mother now.
If you don't like me to drink. Don't worry if I stay with my mother she also don't like druk lady as well. OK. Take care of yourself I will take care of my mother too.

Love and miss you very much

Yupin

 

[babydoll]

as long as she turned out to not have STD's, and was faithful to me, I would bring a chica back to the states and marry her. But i know that combo is rare.., the only reason I pay for sex is cus I am too shy to pick a girl up at a bar. Hell, I even lost my virginity to a korean whore at a massage parlor in Mcdunough , Georgia..

Sucks for me and the ladies I suppose.. cus for the most part, I'm a very caring sensitive guy. I just cant play the dating game. I even picked the west coast for my job cus I want to find a nice latina to marry eventually. how sad is that?

 

[Sahara]

Fireballs says: "However, most guys just can't get pass the problem that their puta girlfriend, or ex-puta girlfriend working as a sex provider while at the same time see them."

But there are many exceptions, not just a few. I wouldn't narrow them to a small number.
It's an un easy relationship, that it is.
I mean, if it works between, let's say waiters and girls that work right in front of them with locals and Americans....

 

[Brrrrrrin]

" But back to our regular scheduled program, "have you ever fell in love with a prostitute"? "

Only every damn time I walk into Adelita's, Chicago Club, Hunter's, Rio, Papagayo, Club 54, Cactus Club, San Diego Bar, Pink Lady, Danash, Tamyko, Marabu, Shamrock, Obsession, ...............................

And a million others over time.
But it passes and the best way to hurry that along is to take a chica upstairs, pound it hard and get that first one out of the way.
Wait, I may have this confused with lust. Yeah, that's what it was.
Sorry, only been in love once.

 

[Allen W]

One of the first reasons that I get with chicas easily and do well is because they don't know me as a client. If someone really is interested in making a bar girl a wife, they first thing to do is not go up. I am the wingman...I translate, I throw down some barely pops and I laugh and talk with the guys.

Ladies approach me as a client. They don't look at me and say, "I have to have him". They don't find me the least bit attractive, but when I politely tell them that I have a wife(even when I don't) and I must show respect for her, I always get "Why can't I find a guy like you". Then I ask her what her name is and wish her well. I sometimes tell them things like, you should be glad I'm married because if I wasn't I would be chasing you all over the bar...

After a few visits I invite the chica for a drink. Now she has seen me 4 or 5 times, and I never buy a chica a drink. I tell her either that I am not married, or we just split up. If I wasn't married at the time, I tell her that because I am not a client I use that line so I won't be bothered. I am only in the bar to accompany my friend. The chicas eat that up, and I usually get a chica to move in with me...however I am not trying to go to the States with her. I let them know from the beginning...most don't want to go anyway. These relationships very in length...the longest 3 years and I wish I was still with her.

One chica just recently moved to Los Angeles with a client. She calls me about 3 times a week to see if anyone is with me. She constantly says she thinks the USA is ok, but the problem is him....she hates living with him and wishes she could be independent. She always promises to be back with me in a week or so.....I wish she was here right now....and she probably will be back....just one day after I move another chica into my home. That is the way it always works.

As long as a chica knows you as a guy that pays, the chance of having a relationship that is real is about as close to zero as it can get.

 

[J. K]

opiouyh8tgy

 

[moderateprofessor]

I'm sure Sampson knows what he is talking about, but that's also the method he used to recruit girls in the states to work for him, and there are many benefits trying his techniques on both working gals, or civilians.

In fact my buddy( guy I know online) that I was thinking about when I started this thread. I was going to suggest to him, when he brings his ex-Adelitas to San Diego and put her to work part-time as a Craig List's escort. Imagine, the money she could make, if he puts out an add saying ex-Adelitas Tijuana provider come to San Diego, speaking three languages, Spanish, Greek, and a little English too, but she mostly speaks Spanish, as her favorite words are Si Si to anything you ask! I think she could easily make $300 dollar per session , and guys to afraid to travel to Tijuana will pay that kind of money too for a chance to be with a true professional from a bar like Adelitas?

However, most guys just can't get pass the problem that their puta girlfriend, or ex-puta girlfriend working as a sex provider while at the same time see them. However, most guys can forgive her past as long as she doesn't enter that field again, but the money is good and so easy, many ex-providers have a hard time giving it up, and moonlight behind the back of her monger boyfriend.

Most mongers don't want the ex-providers money, we are just happy that she quits her line of work. I would say most mongers on these sites are college educated, have good jobs and have disposal income. They are more then happy to give their 'friend' a little money to go shopping, a women's favorite thing to do. Face it, everything comes down to money, even love. If your not doing you part providing for their upkeep or have that potential for taking care of them,........then the smart ones aren't going to want to have anything do to with you. Sure there are stupid women, who love the badboys, and good sex, but that's temporary, and even they finally grow up too and look for stability in their lives.

 

[Dachmelehad]

You "Fall in love with a puta" guys have it all wrong. You are comming from the 1st world, plenty of food to eat, good medicine, hygene, and hope for the future. Turn it around if you come from the 3rd world and all you have of value is your fuck hole. Love between the two worlds is not possible, what you call love, your puta see's as three squares a day and a roof over her head. She will love you long time until someone can put finer meals and a finer roof over her head. Stop being played for chump.

My advice, make the trip, dump your load(s), and get your Yankee ass back where it belongs in the Jew Ese of Aye as soon as possible.

Oh yeah and you guys that send your putas out for those 4-5 turns per night, I ride them hard and put them away wet.

 

[mamaw2305]

fuck.. more than likely.. hell, there are numerous cases of homophobes raping a gay guy while in the process of beating him to death.. now actually dating, loving, and defending that love? not from my experience..

now, when I give these examples, I am talking about experiences with guys I know from east tx espousing these slurs and ideas in front of me...total number is about 5. and then 1 black guy from east Tx that said there were many places that blacks just DIDNT go. I'm sure the same applies in California, montana, seattle, etc etc.

 

[breespectacular[:]

The men in East Texas wouldn't fuck a hot Latina or Tyra Banks?