Ever fall in love with a prostitute?

[Dark Mistress]

i know where hemet is. i go to fights out there at soboba casino. are you stationed at march?

 

[Breeze M]

If the Chica is a 7 or 8 in looks hot looking and young and the guy is a 3 or 4 in looks over 40' or 50's, i will venture to say that the relationship will never work out. Besides the culture gap, the different language, different customs and age and looks. Faghetaboutit. She will leave the guy when the next guy comes around with the same qualities but is better looking than her current sugardaddy.

If a guy needs to be giving the chica money to keep her happy or so she won't leave them. Then thats not a real relationship at all.

 

[Jordan K]

Let me add something else to the: "The problem is not staying tuned into reality"

Some girls are sooooo good in detecting that part, the reality part, as weakness in their customers that it is uncanny.

They pick it up and use it in on their behalf while they exploit the guy dry.

 

[Loren]

It's mostly Non-Mexican latinas that are into gringos. Mexican chicks stick to their hombres. South Texas Latinas are mostly of Mexican herieforum.xxxe. So i m not sure about that.

 

[Kia Koala (Go Phils!!!)]

Fireballs, I think in a way you just don't get what our monger friend is going thru...
I think I do. It is not the first time I see it. It hurts and eats your soul. It is a thing you don't play with and it can cost you dearly.

And yes, we Mexicans are racists, unofficialy racists, that's why we have an unofficial caste system. That is why I can see the differences within our society...
And I have Spanish blood. 1st generation born in Mexico.

 

[.:*:.[=TigraBoo =].:*:.]

Fireballs- Thanks, but I'm not gonna come on here and pretend to be some hardass cus I'm not. However, I'm not gonna declare my undying love to some street girl after fucking her two times.

SDbigdogg88- sure you're not bitter? haha..man, after seeing the crap guys would go through cus of barrack's whores(sluts that hang out around army posts).. I think its definitely safer emotionally and financially..and hell, even health wise to just fuck prostitutes.

I think my weirdest experience to date was when I was in houston on my way out to cali. I went to a korean bar with my brother down on telephone road in houston, called "happy Go lucky". This older drinky girl was in there..I'm guessing late 30's, early 40's. her name was lee. Start talking to her, buy her a 10 dollar pineapple juice, go to the back booth, start tryign to figure out what she'll do..as we are talking, it turns out her son is in the army reserves and in college. haha.. so at this point I make it my mission to have sex with this chick. What better than to pay for sex with some fucking pogue's mom ( for those of you that dont know.. a pogue is any soldier that isnt combat arms). So, long story short,i got FS for 100 bucks and she even gave a great massage afterwards. kinda makes me wonder about what the mom's of korean guys i know in the army REALLY do. but i digress.

I've had girls that would have turned out to be gf's..but deployment or army schools etc got in the way. always found myself returning to AMPs and now, bars and the streets for shorttime love.

i guess the point of all this is that while, yes, I am a sensitive guy... and to quote SSG Doyle(RIP), " Theres nothing better than going up to some chick and asking her how much it costs to fuck her in the ass".

 

[Schnuckums]

no, I live in Hemet...in case you dont know where that is ( if you DO i'm surprised...)

its south east of moreno valley by about...33 miles.

the anaheim reference is my excuse to one of the senior guys where I work for missing his 3 year old's birthday party.

 

[mrs. holden caulfield.]

Amigomio wrote:

People marry others people from different cultures all the time. I believe people are people and share many of the same characteristics, and the Mexican culture is not that different from American culture, not really. Although being a prostitute just brings to the table more baggage, and since most relationships end in failure, a monger, sex provider relationship just has more of a probability of failing, and when you add culture differences it just cuts down the chances that much more. But I would not go so far as telling a monger to don't ever try because it's better than suffering and getting emotional scars, as I believe it's better to have loved and lost, then never loving at all.

It's not that I don't believe castes systems operate in Mexico, it's just that I call them for what they are RACIST feelings against those that have darker skin then you, and maybe on a lower social economic level. Oh yes, how could I forget pedigree and class. Yeah, I hear that crap all the time from my wives dead mothers family from Monterey, and from a few free lance putas working the Cancun circuit. They say, they are Spanish, with their nose in the air. I just shake my head, and say to myself, fucking lowlifes think they are better than anybody else, and there story is probably bullshit anyway!

You know we could say we have a caste system in the US, but really it's just part of a racist society that's trying to do better along with law in place to try to stop it, but it has a long way to go. I wonder how we could distinguish between the street hoes in the US in terms of the caste system, because the differences between races is more pronounce than in Tijuana, where the range of color isn't as great as in the states.

In Tijuana I see only differences between where the girls are from, and if they have more Spanish blood, or Indian blood, as almost all of them come from poor families, with most of them having at least one kid. I see no group worthy of being on a higher caste, that's worth more, as I choose to judge each girls on her individually and how I think she'll preform upstairs. Her telling me she is from Monterey, and having only Spanish blood, with white skin, and thin lips means nothing to me.

 

[Beastly]

This is so right:

"The problem is not staying tuned into reality"

Nice to say hello over here too CJ... haven't been to MTY in ages.

 

[Gliders R Awesome!]

I fall in love with every one i fuck down there

 

[dickatool]

Amigomio. Thanks for your sound advice, you couldnt have put it better. As it its so difficult to have a relation with a Bar Girl, I mean real relation. Perhaps its non existent. Some of these girls are master manipulators of feeling. They tell you exactly what you would like to hear. This type of situation happens in the so called dance mostly bars like Miami and to a lesser extent at Chavelas and Tropical. I will not bore the rest of the members with personal situation. Suffice to know that this is a deadly relation one can have, its a double or a triple whammy !

 

[Malec Archen]

hey cav,
you live in anaheim? i'm always looking for a partner on runs to tj and that is where my trips originate from.

 

[Babby Joshua Christomato]

Cavscout wrote:

This is truly the best post in this thread, at least to me. He is willing to forget a puta's past, as long as she is faithful to him. He admits he is too shy to pick up girls in bar, and even lost his virginity to a korean whore.

It's nice when some guys admit they are sensitive guys with real feelings, and just not tough guys who don't cry, and enjoy putas for the FUCKING only. I salute you Cavscout.

 

[nota-loka]

It usually is about the sex because that's what got a guy started in the hobby in the first place.

The problem is not staying tuned into reality.

You're going to pay for sex no matter who you end up with, even if you don't "end up" with anyone, sex will cost you. Value or "bang" for the buck is what comes into play.

There is nothing wrong with liking someone. There is nothing wrong with loving someone.

You can fall in love with a bomb but if you do that and lose sight of the reality that someday it might go off, then you're not in touch with reality.

Any woman (including a whore) can do you wrong. ANY woman. If you go into the situation understanding that, then when you or her lose your balance and fall off, you are better prepared mentally and can walk away/recover.

It's up to yo to control your money. Never blame a woman for you not handling your money properly and maintaining some control. That one is on you. Sure, they can get all moist and get that wallet out of your pocket, but YOU are at the controls sonny boy, not the girl.

If I bring my girlie to the USA, get her all legal and then she meets Rico Suave and wants to split, then she can split. No problem. I'll be back in the Zona in an hour boinking some FOB 18 year old from Guadalajara or wherever.

If she wants to hang with me, that's cool too. And I agree that soom the shine will rub off the USA quickly. When the realities of life set in and she realizes it's the same game as home (only the numbers are bigger) then she might miss her family more and want to go home. Cool.

Bottom line? Be ready for anything and respond appropriately. Guys get fucked up when they believe that love is forever when neither he or the girl know what love is in the first fucking place. She might think "love" is a new house, or a hairdo or something.

Loving hookers has a bad reputation and a bad track record. Their way of life is tough to run out of them if they've been pro for several years.

So it IS about the sex and how much of your life you're willing to compromise for great sex. Just like any "regular" relationship.

Country John

 

[AF.Colonel]

It can be about the sex, but there can never be love because of the difference in station between the two of you. She's a whore and you're a Monger, that will always be the case. I don;t care how good looking you think you are, or rich you think you are, once she has been here and learns the ropes she will take you for everything she can and move up the food chain. The worst thing you can create is little kids with a whore moma that you are going to be paying for the next 21 years.

 

[jaipeep]

Bohemian,
Like I posted a couple of days ago (I think so, this has been a long thread!), that happened to me when I was 23 (coming into 25 years ago for me) so I understand you.
I wasn't married then, but I had a mother that was all over me asking all sorts of question cause my attitude had changed.
Well, I'll give you sound advice: I might work, probably it could, but it will never ever be a satisfactory relationship.
It will always be a love triangle. You, the girl and her former life.
Remember: You will ALWAYS know.
That's key... also known as the bad part.
I think what brought you into this is the "sex butterfly part". You were afraid to commit if you had a regular, but you fell in your own trap.
I was going to ask you to "check your girl and see if there is something within or outside her that relates to you very own life" but you answered me within your post: She reminds you of someone that makes you feel guilty....
My friend, you need to find that specific thing, that "guilt" and you have to work out the idea that YOU have to have the CONTROL of the situation, cause I see it the other way around.
She is controling you.... and you are interpreting this as a thing that will heal all past wounds.
She worsen the situation taking you to her family and they trying to tighten the noose around your kneck.
That's the part I see as she taking control away from you.
She is making you commit.
You have to take away from her the reins of YOUR life so you can make clear and logical decisions.
Bohemian, this is real serious s**t (pardon mon francais) you are getting into.

You need to wake up sir.
Really open your eyes....

 

[tigerjayne]

KingTijuanero is absolutely correct. If you can't speak Spanish you are always going to be wondering what she's saying while she's on the phone. Also, she's going to want to speak her own language from time to time and if she can't do that with you, then who's she going to be talking to? It can work but only if you learn Spanish.

 

[sun_and_moon_1973]

opiouhuyfuh

 

[Wondrer]

tell me about it . they only stick with their own "kind".

i live in Huntington Beach.

 

[Carol]

CULTURE difference,language difference, etc etc

It 's not going to work if A ENGLISH SPEAKING mongers brings the hooker to the USA.

The chica is going to want to hangout(friends) with other Mexicanas or Latinas in the USA. Most likely the monger only has English speaking amigas in the USA.

The monger will most likely not want his chica hangout out with Mexicans in the USA ,due to her dropping the monger for a Mexican or Mexican-American.

The monger most likely will want to have the chica isolated.

The chica could adjust if she lives or associates with in a large Mexican community in the USA.

If you don't speak Spanish fluently your doomed in that relationship.
It can't just be about sex all the time.