Failed Relationship with MPA

[felixami]

Very good post bro , that whore is the lowest of low . I can’t believe what a piece of shit she must be to know a man is gonna leave his family and she is seeing other people ! Well I have been ripped into by others on this board and others but I stand by my opinion , every single one of these strippers , escorts and Massage whores are just that the lowest of the low ! Complete whores

i have so many thoughts about ur post
and so little time
so let me say just a couple of things

who do u think u r to judge people?
lowest of the low but u choose to give them ur time and money?
what kind of human being r u?
is this how u choose to spend ur life - classifying people?
omfg - u r something else!

 

[Kawailuvr]

i have so many thoughts about ur post
and so little time
so let me say just a couple of things

who do u think u r to judge people?
lowest of the low but u choose to give them ur time and money?
what kind of human being r u?
is this how u choose to spend ur life - classifying people?
omfg - u r something else!

Oh your so sensitive don’t be so upset it’s ok ! Lol
Don’t cry it will be just fine ok go get a hug from someone

 

[Prince of darkness]

Nobody here wants to name names but I’ll do it. I didn’t fall for her but 2 guys I share info with did.. AT THE SAME TIME. She strung them along like nobody’s business. Both were in denial at first. One finally wised up but it cost him a lot. The other broke off contact with me because he didn’t want to hear what I had to say. I think she still has him wrapped around her finger.

I said I’d give the name and here it is:

Bella from Muse.

Be careful with this one. Let down your guard and she’ll eat you alive.

Now, to wait for the white knights to attack..

 

[Prince of darkness]

There are times that these girls drop their act, just for a short period of time.

What you see then, you’re seeing the real person. And often it’s not pretty.

Be realistic, don’t make excuses for them. Don’t tolerate bad behaviour.

I know some will think, but she’s different. No she’s not. You’re just foolish enough to believe it.

 

[cupcrazy]

Nobody here wants to name names but I’ll do it. I didn’t fall for her but 2 guys I share info with did.. AT THE SAME TIME. She strung them along like nobody’s business. Both were in denial at first. One finally wised up but it cost him a lot. The other broke off contact with me because he didn’t want to hear what I had to say. I think she still has him wrapped around her finger.

I said I’d give the name and here it is:

Bella from Muse.

Be careful with this one. Let down your guard and she’ll eat you alive.

Now, to wait for the white knights to attack..

bella must have found her sugar daddy. She is no longer working at muse.

 

[Homerun001]

There are times that these girls drop their act, just for a short period of time.

What you see then, you’re seeing the real person. And often it’s not pretty.

Be realistic, don’t make excuses for them. Don’t tolerate bad behaviour.

I know some will think, but she’s different. No she’s not. You’re just foolish enough to believe it.

The assumption is that most on here have been to a spa and know what goes on , and the assumption is that a majority at some point have grown attached to a working girl but how many have leaped at the chance to see, date 1 outside the spa?? .. what are the benefits? Free sex? Companionship?? What else do you actually gain? Can someone provide any reasonable rationale for wanting to date 1? Bragging rights to the brotherhood on here ? Bragging to your friends and family? Sure there are some great woman in this business but understand they provide a service in and out of the spa at many hours of the day and the working girls assumption is you are ok with it since you know what she does and she does not owe you any explanations at all.. a working girl might be exclusive to you if you can pay all her monthly bill's plus the lifestyle expenses and pull her out of the biz but, would you still trust her??? Keep the fantasy , date, session, whatever, in the spa and go home happy with a smile. Anything outside the spa usually ends badly for the guy unless you were fully accepting of the fact that she is seeing numerous men to pay her bills and maintain a good lifestyle and how many guys are ok with that and for how long? Some people on here respond with harsh words one way or another for various reasons but if a guy wants to leave his family, kids, relationship for a working girl, and she encourages the guy to do so, the guy should go and get help before fucking up his life drastically, and the working girl is simply a bitch or whatever other kind words one chooses because how the fuck can you love 1 guy when you are milking, fucking , numerous guys weekly. Keep things in the spa and live a healthier life.
Cheers.

 

[Gwailo]

Some people on here respond with harsh words one way or another for various reasons but if a guy wants to leave his family, kids, relationship for a working girl, and she encourages the guy to do so, the guy should go and get help before fucking up his life drastically, and the working girl is simply a bitch or whatever other kind words one chooses because how the fuck can you love 1 guy when you are milking, fucking , numerous guys weekly. Keep things in the spa and live a healthier life.
Cheers.

She is not a bitch, she is being a women. Never forget women are emotional creatures. Tell any women from any profession that your marriage sucks and u see mpas on the side and see what kind of response u get. 9/10 will tell u to end the loveless mariage irregardless whether they care for u or not.

There is nothing wrong with a few mpas that play the game and play it well. Its no different from guys seeing multiple mpas on rotation and trying to work their charm to get 'out of spa' extra activity. If u get attach then it makes u vulnerable no doubt, but it does not change the situation and make her a bitch bc both of u are btiches for messing around to begin with.

Smarten up and dont get emotional cuz thats when all the name calling starts.

 

[poodar]

Nobody here wants to name names but I’ll do it. I didn’t fall for her but 2 guys I share info with did.. AT THE SAME TIME. She strung them along like nobody’s business. Both were in denial at first. One finally wised up but it cost him a lot. The other broke off contact with me because he didn’t want to hear what I had to say. I think she still has him wrapped around her finger.

I said I’d give the name and here it is:

Bella from Muse.

Be careful with this one. Let down your guard and she’ll eat you alive.

Now, to wait for the white knights to attack..

Thanks for stepping up. Kudos to you.
I don’t understand why nobody will name these cunts that have obviously hurt them emotionally.
They have no problem detailing how they’ve used the girls as cum dumpsters in the spa, but refuse to name the ones that have used them outside the spa.
Just name the fucking twats, the fuck you protecting? Her wholesome “honour” or your pathetic hope that it will workout like your dreams the next time?

 

[cupcrazy]

i guess members here are scare of being sue for libel. You can make statements about certain MPA but you must have concrete evidences to back them up. Its hard.

 

[Leviathan]

Why people get so emotionally charged over a mpa who hustles a sucker? It’s a unfair world and jungle of parasites out there male or female to exploit vulnerable suckers. Most of the time deep down the sucker knows he/she is being suckered. LoL

Who the fuck cares? A sucker is born every minute.

Lord Kray

 

[Seasoned-vet]

Thanks for stepping up. Kudos to you.
I don’t understand why nobody will name these cunts that have obviously hurt them emotionally.
They have no problem detailing how they’ve used the girls as cum dumpsters in the spa, but refuse to name the ones that have used them outside the spa.
Just name the fucking twats, the fuck you protecting? Her wholesome “honour” or your pathetic hope that it will workout like your dreams the next time?

I have been participating in the spa industry for 30 plus years and retired 2 years ago due to health reasons and from time to time read numerous boards to keep myself entertained and decided to provide some comments for some misinformed individuals on certain subject matters. I have visited spa's throughout North America and Europe and, any woman working in this industry does it for 1 reason, and it's called hard earned cash. I am a married man, a husband, father, grandfather, and I made a ton of money from land the family had purchased in the 1950s and 1960s in the GTA and it allowed me to venture into this expensive hobby over the years. My wife had medical issues and she could no longer satisfy my sexual appetite so I explored options and was introduced to this industry by my lawyer and accountant. I have seen a total of 5 MPAs, in the GTA outside the spa and 2 others, 1 in Seattle and 1 in Milan. Stricktly inside the spa, the number of woman seen most can only dream of because, it is an expensive hobby and most are on budgets where money was not an issue in my case. There was never any strings attached so it was easy, there were some conditions such as a health certificate from my selected doctor, the provider was off work for 5 days before we met, a signed non disclosure, and some other legal stuff and in return they got treated to a whole other world outside the spa scene yet they continue to provide services but services at another level because they were taken care of. Jewelry, gift cards, clothing, vacations on top of the big money they are earning for a day or days outside the spa scene. The fantasy outside the spa was limited to dates which consisted of 1 night or days then it was over for a few weeks and it would start up again. I knew these woman saw other men outside the spa and hell a couple of them were from the country club and it never bothered me 1 bit because, I knew going in, this is what they do, and i hand picked who I wanted once there was a comfort level and an understanding and when I had my scheduled date, she was all mine per my schedule. So for those of you who are thinking of dating one, or are dating one, dont think she is exclusive to you in anyway, they are exclusive to money and perks. Of the 7, 5 have retired due to good investments, and the other 2 are still in the business as owners and dont work in their spas, they only see their elite clients outside the spa. Most of these woman engage in a meaningful relationship once they leave the industry and with someone who was not a participant. I will provide a story about a jealous so called boyfriend of one of the 5 in the gta at a later date for those of you who are interested, it did not end well for him because he could not understand that as long as these woman are working, they belong to the hobbyist out there, and the deeper the pockets the more you get from them, and the most is given and taken outside the spa.

 

[Boston Man Chowder]

Why people get so emotionally charged over a mpa who hustles a sucker? It’s a unfair world and jungle of parasites out there male or female to exploit vulnerable suckers. Most of the time deep down the sucker knows he/she is being suckered. LoL

Who the fuck cares? A sucker is born every minute.

Lord Kray

LOL! It's been almost 2 months since you and I and many others have given our rational views on the realities of dating sex workers yet more idiots pop up on this thread regurgitating the same dumb logic. They not only try to justify their pathetic attempts at finding love with the ridiculous "she's different" or "I'm special" rationales, they also try to justify why it didn't work out in the end by blaming these women and calling them dirty whores when they're just as dirty and "immoral" for participating in this hobby. A sucker is born every minute? Try every second. These women aren't angels but if you take things out the spa and you got your heart broken, it is entirely your fault for having expectations from her. And if the woman were the manipulative type who tries to get you to leave your family for her and wants you to have expectations, it's still entirely your fault for being too stupid to not see the red flags. In fact you're even dumber in this situation for letting it happen.

 

[Leviathan]

It’s all about personal accountability. It’s taking responsibility for your own decisions.

Take your pick on biases? A human weakness? LoL

Lord Kray

LOL! It's been almost 2 months since you and I and many others have given our rational views on the realities of dating sex workers yet more idiots pop up on this thread regurgitating the same dumb logic. They not only try to justify their pathetic attempts at finding love with the ridiculous "she's different" or "I'm special" rationales, they also try to justify why it didn't work out in the end by blaming these women and calling them dirty whores when they're just as dirty and "immoral" for participating in this hobby. A sucker is born every minute? Try every second. These women aren't angels but if you take things out the spa and you got your heart broken, it is entirely your fault for having expectations from her. And if the woman were the manipulative type who tries to get you to leave your family for her and wants you to have expectations, it's still entirely your fault for being too stupid to not see the red flags. In fact you're even dumber in this situation for letting it happen.

 

[Boston Man Chowder]

View attachment 97298 It’s all about personal accountability. It’s taking responsibility for your own decisions.

Take your pick on biases? A human weakness? LoL

Lord Kray

#10 and #11 are what I seem to see the most from the comments on this topic.

Sadly, personal accountability is something most of these clowns lack hence all the whining, bitterness and name-calling of these sex workers. They're the scapegoat despite the fact that their job is to hustle you in the most blatant way.

 

[Prince of darkness]

I’ll just add one more thing..
If, despite better judgement, you do decide to get into a relationship with one of these girls.. when (not if) you see any red flags.. end it.

Don’t make excuses for her, and don’t buy any she gives you.

If you don’t do this, you’re fucked.

One more thing: I’ve received a few PMs. I’m not going to reply to these. I don’t know people around here we’ll enough to trust anyone with info I wouldn’t post publicly.

 

[Proitalian1234]

The assumption is that most on here have been to a spa and know what goes on , and the assumption is that a majority at some point have grown attached to a working girl but how many have leaped at the chance to see, date 1 outside the spa?? .. what are the benefits? Free sex? Companionship?? What else do you actually gain? Can someone provide any reasonable rationale for wanting to date 1? Bragging rights to the brotherhood on here ? Bragging to your friends and family? Sure there are some great woman in this business but understand they provide a service in and out of the spa at many hours of the day and the working girls assumption is you are ok with it since you know what she does and she does not owe you any explanations at all.. a working girl might be exclusive to you if you can pay all her monthly bill's plus the lifestyle expenses and pull her out of the biz but, would you still trust her??? Keep the fantasy , date, session, whatever, in the spa and go home happy with a smile. Anything outside the spa usually ends badly for the guy unless you were fully accepting of the fact that she is seeing numerous men to pay her bills and maintain a good lifestyle and how many guys are ok with that and for how long? Some people on here respond with harsh words one way or another for various reasons but if a guy wants to leave his family, kids, relationship for a working girl, and she encourages the guy to do so, the guy should go and get help before fucking up his life drastically, and the working girl is simply a bitch or whatever other kind words one chooses because how the fuck can you love 1 guy when you are milking, fucking , numerous guys weekly. Keep things in the spa and live a healthier life.
Cheers.

Great words and true.
The thing you have to understand is the beauty
of this hobby, by seeing different ladies. Keep it simple, diversity is the key factor here.
Don't fuck it up by going into a relationship with just one. Your playing with Contentment vs Disappointment. This doesn't mean you can't go on a date, absolutely do it and have fun, just don't get serious.

 

[Leviathan]

No money. No honey. But yet they keep on shelling out the money? Or be perpetual “friend boy”. LoL

#10 and #11 are what I seem to see the most from the comments on this topic.

Sadly, personal accountability is something most of these clowns lack hence all the whining, bitterness and name-calling of these sex workers. They're the scapegoat despite the fact that their job is to hustle you in the most blatant way.

 

[Atsuko]

With girls from this business it does not matter if they have a good heart, it does not matter if they do not want to lie and cheat, they cannot help doing it because that is all they know. That is why there are no happy endings. You can meet a girl from this business who has some good qualities but in the end she will disappoint you because she has chosen a lifestyle that makes it impossible to act like a normal decent person, and even if she wants to she got all her bad habits at a young age and she is not going to change.

 

[Leviathan]

Is this rocket science ? I put my finger in the fire I get burned? So you blame the fire? Personal responsibility and be accountable for your own decisions. Why is this so hard for the sheeple ?

Lord Kray

 

[Jessie62]

I have posted here in the past about an MPA, where we were dating and I was blindsided when she told me she as an MPA.. It was very dramatic, and I took it on the chin from many of you with the complexity of the situation, and her transitioning to a normal life.. Fast forward to March, 2019 and all I can say based on my experience is an MPA who leaves the biz, is never really fully out of the biz, as there is always a special client list for extra revenue when needed and I am sure many of you get my drift, I found out the hard way.

Enjoy this hobby for what it is, and DO NOT get involved with these woman outside the spa expecting a fairytale ending as it takes a toll on your health. I may get crucified for this but, even woman that leave the biz (NOT ALL), are damaged goods and continue with some of their patterns such as lying for 1 and the rest is connect the dots.

I am starting to hobby again with a chip on my shoulder, and for those of you on the fence with having feelings for a MPA, or an MPA ready to exit the biz do yourself a favor and avoid this situation all together and just enjoy things for what they are and set your expectations to (– 0). If you have the time and money to invest along with unlimited stomach medications then go for it.


Will be providing some reviews in the coming days, as I am going on a spa visit blitz this weekend .

you are not the worst case. someone get divorced because the MPA try to get more money out of pocket and get refused, then go to tell the wife about their relationship..
so never be too close with those MPA, never give them your personal information, even your real name, phone number...