Failed Relationship with MPA

[Markman2021]

She was serious but I think I was serious but part me had doubt as she worked in this industry but when she was upset she told I thought we were better then this and plus she was really upset and wanted be left alone. I think I broke her heart

 

[Jsmith2019]

Hey man good for you to finally see the truth. Never have feelings when visiting an mpa. It's a fantasy world. And we are lucky to have it right here. F*ck and move on to next.

Agreed. Best not to get involved with these ladies outside of the MP. Their intentions are too sneaky...

 

[cupcrazy]

She was serious but I think I was serious but part me had doubt as she worked in this industry but when she was upset she told I thought we were better then this and plus she was really upset and wanted be left alone. I think I broke her heart

maybe she was playing with you. you never know. If she was really into you, she would leave the industry.

 

[Greenberg]

She was serious but I think I was serious but part me had doubt as she worked in this industry but when she was upset she told I thought we were better then this and plus she was really upset and wanted be left alone. I think I broke her heart

Sorry to hear...the hardest part to accept that the intimacy is not exclusive; men in large part because of their ego and esteem find difficulty sharing their perceived prize. Most men consider women as chattel.

 

[Markman2021]

U Hey Ye this what she said

 

[cupcrazy]

I want to see the text from the beginning

 

[Markman2021]

I want to see the text from the beginning

I will privately msg you as the spas name is there I don’t wana any drama or anything

 

[Pay2Play]

She was serious but I think I was serious but part me had doubt as she worked in this industry but when she was upset she told I thought we were better then this and plus she was really upset and wanted be left alone. I think I broke her heart

We’re going to need to spend a little time learning punctuation. Type and breath, type and breath and so on.

 

[Markman2021]

Yes I know

 

[OG_funguy]

We’re going to need to spend a little time learning punctuation. Type and breath, type and breath and so on.

Since you're always correcting everyone (which is fine btw), it's "breathe" not "breath".

 

[Pay2Play]

Since you're always correcting everyone (which is fine btw), it's "breathe" not "breath".

English is quite complicated in this way. I didn’t imply which makes me incorrect. Somewhere i should have introduced “take a”.

 

[King Arthur]

I have dated very good girl but I fucked up as I could not expect the fact that she was busting other cocks we deal for like 2 years she even bought me breakfast day gifts and she even shared pic personal pics when she is at home but I treated her like hoe and fucked up she got disappointed at the end she text me she said I am so disappointed you would

If she wanted to be a hoe and you treated her like a hoe where was the problem? If she did not like being treated like a hoe why could she not stop hoeing? The so disappointed in you line sounds manipulative. It sounds like she was playing you. Would make sense because that is what these girls do.

 

[cupcrazy]

English is quite complicated in this way. I didn’t imply which makes me incorrect. Somewhere i should have introduced “take a”.

grammar nazi

 

[JaimeWolf]

maybe she was playing with you. you never know. If she was really into you, she would leave the industry.

That isn't a realistic expectation, especially if she's a "career" MPA with no other job prospects. Oddly, my highest-mileage sessions were with girls already in stable multi-year relationships.

 

[Jumpin’ Jack Flash]

Wow, wish I caught this thread earlier.

This thread is pretty interesting, stuff like this crosses my mind time to time, but I have never dated an AMP.

I have dated one before for a few months, mainly meeting her off a dating website. I wouldn't say she was a stunning looker, as those are the SPs that I would fall in love with, but she was confident, a nice person, and decent looking.

Long story short, she told me she owns a massage clinic, so I thought it was literally a legit massage clinic. SPs drive multiple vehicles, one to go for work and one to hang out with friends, so I saw her car parked out front during one very heavy heavy winter snow fall, and parked in front of a MP. Anyways, I searched that MP up, and saw her pictures on there, I was shocked, so she was a SP but an ASP. This was at least seven years ago for me. I think of myself as OK looking, but maybe to her she thought I was attractive... she literally owned me back then by saying I sucked in bed... now i understand why. I don't think i've ever went down on her.

I saw her a few years ago with her new bf, or husband, and I think I still see her photos on some places or SP websites. I think she works in small towns/cities, and goes back to her home city on weekend or something. A lot of ladies that does this want to be discreet.

I am in my prime age range, so in the past, I've kind of had a few decent looking ladies basically throw themselves at me in the past. I wish a super attractive girl would throw herself at me though to be honest lol, but that has never ever happened before. If I see any SPs, I only go see them for their looks tbh, and now I mainly go for massage and try to see only attractive Asian RMTs lol. And now, sometimes I am thinking, man it would be sweet to date some of the attractive Asian RMTs lol, or some of the attractive Asian RMTs I see lol, however, your life is always on the move, and never know if they are truthful with you and all. In the end, I started dating an attractive Asian off dating website. But seriously,.... sometimes this stuff crosses my mind and I do wonder what life would be to date some of these super attractive Asian ladies that are SPs or providers.

I thought I was close to a popular Asian SP back in the days, we did drugs together, and hang out at bars and karaokes in the past with her friends and all.. this wasn't like consistent but time to time for a short period we did this together. It was never a serious relationship and mainly just friends, and she stopped providing at times and only provided massages later on, but when I saw her, she gave me FS. I was acting as white knight for her on the discussion boards, then boom, some guy was pissed off at me being a white knight, and told me her age, (she was actually much older than me around 8 yrs+, I thought she was my age), guy gave me her FB pic, told me about her kids.... i was in shocked. I think he probably lent her money and got all this information as collateral and such. he told me he did videos with her, and i was shocked.

In the end, try sugardating, online dating to see if you can find ladies that are willing to do the type of relationship you are offering.. There are attractive ladies on online dating, but whether they see you attractive or not is another time. The ratio for online dating is quite tough as it is quite unfavorable for men. If you sign up for the paid ones, you may meet great ladies as this filters out all the other men that are too cheap to pay. If free dating site, expect like an attractive lady get like 100+ msgs from men a day.

what are the names/contact info of some 'attractive RMTs" you know?

 

[cupcrazy]

That isn't a realistic expectation, especially if she's a "career" MPA with no other job prospects. Oddly, my highest-mileage sessions were with girls already in stable multi-year relationships.

she needs to realize she can't work in the industry forever. Surely not everybody interested in grandmother Sweet Alice. Just saying.

 

[JaimeWolf]

^MPAs can work well into their 40s, though their earning potential is on steady decline.

Most jobs that require some physical activity (electrician, car mechanic, physical trainer...) become challenging in the 40s.

 

[Ursus]

I dated Angela for 5 years, but nothing ever lasts in this industry.

 

[cupcrazy]

I dated Angela for 5 years, but nothing ever lasts in this industry.

same goes with sweet alice. If she wants to see you, she will pick up the phone. If not, go fuck yourself.

 

[Seasoned-vet]

When I saw this guys post I had to sign up because it was very easy for me to figure out who he is. This is the guy who’s obsession with Bella hit the level of stocker he clearly had fallen in love with her or something and was trying to buy her affection this guy even went as far as moving into the building where she lives (she posted about this on Twitter) because she told him where she was living because she trusted him at that point, clearly that was not a smart thing to do. This guy has also sent me a letter trying to turn me off of her and even in the letter said let’s get her and I never responded to him because I know he’s fuckin nuts. Bella and I have always been close friends and never once did I feel like she was using me and I’ve never share any info with anyone about us. Our relationship was pretty simple we were two humans who like to go out and have fun so we did. I bought her gifts, yes why because that’s just the type of person I am and never once have I felt I needed to or she manipulated me too. I did get divorced in the period where I knew Bella but that marriage was long over a while before she came into the picture, did she encouraged me to leave absolutely not actually she did the opposite she help me get through it like a friend and wanted to make sure that I tried everything to work it out and not to do it unless I was totally sure that’s what I wanted, you can think what you want of her but she really does have a kind heart. So when I saw this guys post I knew it was him from the name he chose to the fact that he put his birthday in his profile here the same as her birthday the guy is mentally ill and needs a lot of help!! I couldn’t let this guy drop her name like that when I know it’s bullshit it’s really disturbing that this guy can’t go away and leave her alone. Bella and I have always been close and like any close relationship we had disagreements but I never shared any info about us with anyone in the hobby. I know this guy is her stalker, I think if anyone should be warned about being eaten alive it’s the ladies about this guy. The girls out there should be careful with this guy because he crosses every line out there. I’m only writing this so you guys know the real story and I know this is going to be bashed and probably me too but I didn’t want people to think I was one of his “friends” he was talking about and I want to clear up that he is talking about himself not his friend because he has been stalker her for years.

Whenever things go south with an MPA relationship the black nights come out with disclosing names of MPAs and the cat fights start among hobbyists why? 1st off disclosing names or personal info of an MPA for a failed relationship is a major no,no.. 2nd, would you want your photo and name plastered on info boards and blackballed at various spas across the gta? Dont think so.. and these woman talk to each other in the industry believe it or not, and things get back to them. 3rd'ly, no one feels sorry for a failed attempt and the negative outcome emotionally and financially and whatever else went down between 2 adults, what was the expectation? exclusivity, common law, marriage? There is enough info on these boards to tell you dont even think twice about even attempting it without getting bitch slapped with your pants on fire. If people want to share their experiences then do so without bashing and disclosing personal info of any MPA. We know their careers and lifestyles so nothing can possibly surprise us anymore.