Failed Relationship with MPA

[Hornet]

Applying that criteria to sex workers really narrows down your options to like 2% of working girls lol

Most if not all are on some substance; cocaine is exchanged and sold at the popular spas. If the girl isn't offering extras then she's not maximizing her time in the industry and intends to be a career hoe till she looks totally busted. I've only met 2 SPs that were smart with their money to invest it into real estate and live off the residuals. Point 4 ties into point 3, but in general if they were smart they wouldn't be doing this job. If you're young, ambitious and can sell yourself without using your body then there's endless possibilities to make money nowadays. Younger generation is more savvy with their hustles, I've seen kids clear 6 figures easy off YouTube videos, drop shipments, TikTok, etc. and its for the stupidest shit in reality.

Yes, I’d say less than 5% make the cut.

#4 Intelligent was more about carrying a conversation and not being bored with her. #3 can be obtained via access to good advisors (financial and legal). Most of the time they go hand in hand but not always.

 

[hookerpuncher]

Yes, I’d say less than 5% make the cut.

#4 Intelligent was more about carrying a conversation and not being bored with her. #3 can be obtained via access to good advisors (financial and legal). Most of the time they go hand in hand but not always.

Not sure if you're like me and only see younger girls but most of them are dumb as bricks so they can hardly carry a conversation passed what they see on Instagram. Ask them their stance on anything else and they're dumbfounded by the topic. Agreed, they go hand in hand so when their idea of being smart with their money means dumping it into crypto and shit coins I don't think they have much financial reason. That's why I think the pool of girls that can pass all those criteria is smaller than you think and wouldn't be working as a MPA if they did. Maybe better to let them pass 3/4 of those points lol

 

[JaimeWolf]

Fucking simp incels. When they start stalking girls outside of work its going too far. There's so many stories of guys waiting outside the agency location or spa and following the girl back to her home; psycho tendencies. If she liked you then she would give her number and go from there but some guys can't take the rejection and go to these extreme lengths. I remember one time I was chilling after work hours with a SP and some stalker customer came back in the middle of the night to try and see her again. I opened the door instead of her and scared the guy shitless, should have taken a photo of the guys face to see his heart breaking while she was standing behind me lol

I think KJ just meant the customers are seeing the girl at multiple spa locations, not following her home.

 

[JaimeWolf]

One MPA at a place in Toronto asked for my number after a third visit. Just last week. Told me she liked me and that I was "nice". Who knows what her intention was? To date? Run a scam? Text for private session? I never give out my number to these places after a couple of bad experiences with MPAs. I'm now very particular in where I go. I made my excuse after she told me she's always around. It's not worth finding out. Conduct your business and leave. You can always find a girlfriend elsewhere if that's what you're looking for.

I've had this happen with several girls. It's either for private sessions, client retention if she moves to a different spa, a heads-up if she started her period, small favors like asking you to bring her cigarettes before a session, or "poaching" if you were a regular with another girl at the spa.

Keep in mind there are around 400 SPs in the GTA publicly posting their text app numbers on LeoList every day, so the bar isn't set very high for exchanging numbers with an MPA or agency SP.

 

[hookerpuncher]

I think KJ just meant the customers are seeing the girl at multiple spa locations, not following her home.

True.

I still stand by my statement of some guys taking it too far when they get a whiff of personal connection with SWs when they've had no relationships beforehand. Hopefully others that stumble upon this thread understand that these girls have ulterior motives.

 

[bumzbumz]

I've had this happen with several girls. It's either for private sessions, client retention if she moves to a different spa, a heads-up if she started her period, small favors like asking you to bring her cigarettes before a session, or "poaching" if you were a regular with another girl at the spa.

Keep in mind there are around 400 SPs in the GTA publicly posting their text app numbers on LeoList every day, so the bar isn't set very high for exchanging numbers with an MPA or agency SP.

Nooo she did it because she loves you!

she's not in it for the money she just wants to be with you!! :rollseyes:

Hearing the various stories either makes me laugh or shake my head.

 

[xtc27]

Mpas = human beings in a unique situation … partly of their choosing ofc…

Many just want human connection… playing w a girl who is totally there, joking playing & interactng, that’s way more fun…

… 2me…

… so 4small price of treating them like a friend, I get an amazing time! Is she turned on…. Dunno… gr8 actresses… but among dudes she sees, w me, she has fun… that’s not fake.

… ofc when u visit a semi legit spa hoping 4 some xxtras & u get bbfs, girl = already wet… … then that’s kinda sign she likes u… but womens bodies= very strange… if yer gd 2 her as a person, she gets turned on sometimes…

Im sure I get way more mileage than lotsa younger dudes …laying on table w ripped fit bodies, silent, & wonder why they can’t get more than a handy ?

 

[foxmldr]

This is a very interesting and informative thread aside from th unnecessary insults. I started to date one mpa and I was able to stop it early on.

For other guys, it might be hard for a number of reasons. It could be loneliness, depression, recent breakups, etc. I hope they can realize it early and not get sucked into this shit hole.

 

[Daddyswagbucks]

This is a very interesting and informative thread aside from th unnecessary insults. I started to date one mpa and I was able to stop it early on.

For other guys, it might be hard for a number of reasons. It could be loneliness, depression, recent breakups, etc. I hope they can realize it early and not get sucked into this shit hole.

I'm dating one right now. It's sad that the only time I'm reasonably sane is when she's on her period so I know she can't work. It's a shithole but it's got it's ups.

 

[krayjee]

I'm dating one right now. It's sad that the only time I'm reasonably sane is when she's on her period so I know she can't work. It's a shithole but it's got it's ups.

Date two at the same time if you can, so you have a shoulder ready to cry on . Dating only one can hurt you bad if you get attached.

 

[MalikFarush]

Date two at the same time if you can, so you have a shoulder ready to cry on . Dating only one can hurt you bad if you get attached.

I’m dating 3. One is married.

 

[krayjee]

I’m dating 3. One is married.

Paying money and fcuking holistic girls at holistic spas doesn't count as dating.

 

[OG_funguy]

Just treat the ladies good and there's potential for all kinds of fringe benefits...dinners (they treat you), house visits, etc...

In fact, just went out last night with a new MPA

 

[krayjee]

Just treat the ladies good and there's potential for all kinds of fringe benefits...dinners (they treat you), house visits, etc...

In fact, just went out last night with a new MPA

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Nice.
Both of my girls are working late till 10:30 last night, so they are safe.

 

[hookerpuncher]

God, how old are these bitches you're dating lol

Kids. Married.

Seems like I'm one of a handful here that actually like young attractive women.

 

[OG_funguy]

I take it you're talking to me...for me, nothing wrong with ladies in their 30's and 40's. Again, I'm a semi-legit guy and there aren't that many in their 20's at semi legit places. Funny enough, the MPA I was closest to was also the youngest...

I know from your previous negative comments on MPAs that you're mostly talking about the young holistic girls that are sucking and fucking 10 guys every day but there's a whole other side to this hobby...but yeah, if you're looking for a young hot girl (and don't mind that she fucked 9 guys before you), then best to stick with the places you are going to...to each their own

God, how old are these bitches you're dating lol

Kids. Married.

Seems like I'm one of a handful here that actually like young attractive women.

 

[hookerpuncher]

I take it you're talking to me...for me, nothing wrong with ladies in their 30's and 40's. Again, I'm a semi-legit guy and there aren't that many in their 20's at semi legit places. Funny enough, the MPA I was closest to was also the youngest...

I know from your previous negative comments on MPAs that you're mostly talking about the young holistic girls that are sucking and fucking 10 guys every day but there's a whole other side to this hobby...but yeah, if you're looking for a young hot girl (and don't mind that she fucked 9 guys before you), then best to stick with the places you are going to...to each their own

Your comment sparked it but it's a general view of most guys on this forum. I wouldn't even say its 30s as that's acceptable cause I've met some young moms that had their kids in their teens but obviously they're not married cause their washed up ex wouldn't marry them. Seems like average range of girls you older guys go for is 40s and 50s as white guys are horrible with ages in general. Given semi legit is the standard here the average age of those places and especially the Asian ones are 40+.

lol they're all hoes so the severity of it doesn't make a difference. In your eyes she could be seeing 1-2 guys but in reality she's taking extras to suck and fuck 10 guys for the day which you don't wish to see. I think this thread has explained the mentality of most these women lying about their circumstances to make you think you're the only one she's seeing, or her perception in your eyes. If you're dating a SW you've already accepted the fact she takes dick from others; it's just how many. So if you're image of her being cleaner than the rest is based off her working at a semi legit then I would say that's wrong.

I focus on sugar baby's so I'm seeing slut civilians and they don't do this for their job so my concern of them seeing less guys is apparent. Different when your job day in and day out is touch men. But yeah, to each their own. I'm astonished at how most guys here love out of shape, weathered women with baggage vs young tight body girls that you can mould and manipulate as you like.

 

[OG_funguy]

Many guys on here prefer a good massage too and you ain't, more often than not, getting that from a holistic place or SP. To me, the severity does make a difference (for others, maybe not). Like I've mentioned in other posts, I know some semi MPAs that have a hard limit on their mileage and have never done stuff like BJ or FS in the spa. It might be hard for you to believe that but there are many like this in semi legit spas. Look, I'm not talking about a serious relationship or marriage here but "if" I was going to have a serious relationship with one then yeah, to me, it would make a difference whether she only does a basic HJ vs. sucking and fucking 10 guys every day.

Some guys don't mind ladies in their 50's and even 60's but I prefer 30's and 40's...and I would agree with you that the average age of semi ladies are in their 40's.

Your comment sparked it but it's a general view of most guys on this forum. I wouldn't even say its 30s as that's acceptable cause I've met some young moms that had their kids in their teens but obviously they're not married cause their washed up ex wouldn't marry them. Seems like average range of girls you older guys go for is 40s and 50s as white guys are horrible with ages in general. Given semi legit is the standard here the average age of those places and especially the Asian ones are 40+.

lol they're all hoes so the severity of it doesn't make a difference. In your eyes she could be seeing 1-2 guys but in reality she's taking extras to suck and fuck 10 guys for the day which you don't wish to see. I think this thread has explained the mentality of most these women lying about their circumstances to make you think you're the only one she's seeing, or her perception in your eyes. If you're dating a SW you've already accepted the fact she takes dick from others; it's just how many. So if you're image of her being cleaner than the rest is based off her working at a semi legit then I would say that's wrong.

I focus on sugar baby's so I'm seeing slut civilians and they don't do this for their job so my concern of them seeing less guys is apparent. Different when your job day in and day out is touch men. But yeah, to each their own. I'm astonished at how most guys here love out of shape, weathered women with baggage vs young tight body girls that you can mould and manipulate as you like.

 

[hookerpuncher]

Many guys on here prefer a good massage too and you ain't, more often than not, getting that from a holistic place or SP. To me, the severity does make a difference (for others, maybe not). Like I've mentioned in other posts, I know some semi MPAs that have a hard limit on their mileage and have never done stuff like BJ or FS in the spa. It might be hard for you to believe that but there are many like this in semi legit spas. Look, I'm not talking about a serious relationship or marriage here but "if" I was going to have a serious relationship with one then yeah, to me, it would make a difference whether she only does a basic HJ vs. sucking and fucking 10 guys every day.

Some guys don't mind ladies in their 50's and even 60's but I prefer 30's and 40's...and I would agree with you that the average age of semi ladies are in their 40's.

This thread isn't about the style of massage. It's about having a relationship a sex worker. Where you find them doesn't matter; its the mentality of women that have no choice but to do this for a living so their mindset isn't that of a normal civilian. Even worse if you're seeing a girl 40+ cause now they're career hoes. You can believe what she tells you about not doing extras, or seeing others besides you and giving them more mileage but its apparent to me and others that they lie about their situation more often that none. If we're talking about FWBs then that's been discussed to death too but the thread is focused on actually dating them in my eyes.

Well that's just gross in my mind. If I'm 50 I don't want to be seeing someone my age cause it's just not a pleasing sight, but if you like seeing wrinkled bags of skin that has lost all its youth then sure, go for it. I would keep going for girls in their 20s till I find one that's okay with an older guy.

 

[xtc27]

Your comment sparked it but it's a general view of most guys on this forum. I wouldn't even say its 30s as that's acceptable cause I've met some young moms that had their kids in their teens but obviously they're not married cause their washed up ex wouldn't marry them. Seems like average range of girls you older guys go for is 40s and 50s as white guys are horrible with ages in general. Given semi legit is the standard here the average age of those places and especially the Asian ones are 40+.

lol they're all hoes so the severity of it doesn't make a difference. In your eyes she could be seeing 1-2 guys but in reality she's taking extras to suck and fuck 10 guys for the day which you don't wish to see. I think this thread has explained the mentality of most these women lying about their circumstances to make you think you're the only one she's seeing, or her perception in your eyes. If you're dating a SW you've already accepted the fact she takes dick from others; it's just how many. So if you're image of her being cleaner than the rest is based off her working at a semi legit then I would say that's wrong.

I focus on sugar baby's so I'm seeing slut civilians and they don't do this for their job so my concern of them seeing less guys is apparent. Different when your job day in and day out is touch men. But yeah, to each their own. I'm astonished at how most guys here love out of shape, weathered women with baggage vs young tight body girls that you can mould and manipulate as you like.

… so, growing up, my nxt door neighbours = Korean & Viet … I watch them grow up… I date & make babies w Asians… u seriously think I cant tell Asian age?

Lotsa white guys like me… esp in T.O. … we no their age… & dont care.

A fit firm girl, whatever age, thats fun… if shes Asian, damn, even better… & yeah, some in 30s & even 40s… once they hit the big FIVE-Oh… most = past their best b4 date! … not all, actually…

But “out of shape, weathered women with baggage”? Not girls I visit … some of whom in their 40s

Huge spectrum of women in the biz… legit mpas that occasionally do HJ… 2 restrictv semilegit who gets mebbe topless… all the way to holistic mpas who mostly skip msg part… wide wide range… sure as hell, thnkng “theyre all ho’s” … thats naive

All = gd candidates 4 FWB fun… but I wouldnt date any…