Failed Relationship with MPA

[JEG]

Never get involved, she'll rip your heart out and feed it to the dogs without batting an eye.

 

[Albatross1983]

Things will get better! As many people have said this before, it's not worth it to screw your life over in order to get a girl. A good one will not be like that. And don't be desperate. We are many people on this planet. I am sure that you will find one that's right for you. A friend of mine has told me about The Position You Cuddle In Says So Much About Your Relationship and I recommend that you have a read. It's better to be informed about the psychological part of the relationship. I don't get why the majority of the people have the tendency to neglect this.

 

[JaimeWolf]

^Why are you bumping a 2-year old thread lol? Many spa girls don't even last two years in the business.

 

[Asslvr7777]

Never get involved, she'll rip your heart out and feed it to the dogs without batting an eye.

This is why you only give her the dick. Save your heart for someone who doesn’t charge actual $$$. Leave your fantasy at the spa as you shower off.

 

[krayjee]

^Why are you bumping a 2-year old thread lol? Many spa girls don't even last two years in the business.

This thread will be bumped again and again cuz we have lots of lonely guys in here and when they ran into someone so charming who could swept away their hearts, then this thread will be bumped. I can see a few more coming soon. Lately, I am seeing some guys seeing a very charming lady at JR almost every day she works. Make no mistakes, I can sense she is a very good player and I know she 's already playing with 2-3 guys at the same time.. That tells me trouble is on the way.

 

[hookerpuncher]

Lately, I am seeing some guys seeing a lady at JR almost every day and some even following her back and forth to Oakville and Richmond hill.

Fucking simp incels. When they start stalking girls outside of work its going too far. There's so many stories of guys waiting outside the agency location or spa and following the girl back to her home; psycho tendencies. If she liked you then she would give her number and go from there but some guys can't take the rejection and go to these extreme lengths. I remember one time I was chilling after work hours with a SP and some stalker customer came back in the middle of the night to try and see her again. I opened the door instead of her and scared the guy shitless, should have taken a photo of the guys face to see his heart breaking while she was standing behind me lol

 

[Sajam Enjoyer]

Out of all the threads that get randomly bumped years later (looking at your Beerpretzel), this is the one thread that is deserving of keeping on the first page imo. Its a very important discussion to have for guys who are or have been partaking in this scene for years. I'm young but can only imagine what it is like for others in later stages of their life and have been doing this for 10+ years or something.

I feel very lucky that I'm incapable of falling in love with people anymore. Barely have the ability to talk with my best friend on a consistent basis, let alone a woman I barely know

 

[hookerpuncher]

Out of all the threads that get randomly bumped years later (looking at your Beerpretzel), this is the one thread that is deserving of keeping on the first page imo. Its a very important discussion to have for guys who are or have been partaking in this scene for years. I'm young but can only imagine what it is like for others in later stages of their life and have been doing this for 10+ years or something.

I feel very lucky that I'm incapable of falling in love with people anymore. Barely have the ability to talk with my best friend on a consistent basis, let alone a woman I barely know

I would agree with this. A lot of guys here are lost when it comes to this situation of seeing SPs outside of work or dating them. I didn't read the entire thread but OP got burned and I'm not surprised as this happens quite often and then they're wary of going back into the hobby. Men are so easily manipulated by pussy and when it backfires they wonder they didn't take the advice of their friends of peers.

 

[losing_money_on_stocks]

This is why you only give her the dick. Save your heart for someone who doesn’t charge actual $$$. Leave your fantasy at the spa as you shower off.

what if i am a simp LOL

 

[Sajam Enjoyer]

I would agree with this. A lot of guys here are lost when it comes to this situation of seeing SPs outside of work or dating them. I didn't read the entire thread but OP got burned and I'm not surprised as this happens quite often and then they're wary of going back into the hobby. Men are so easily manipulated by pussy and when it backfires they wonder they didn't take the advice of their friends of peers.

A lot of dudes want to be that classic Captain-save-a-hoe character you see in movies and tv shows. Taking the girl out of a hustle lifestyle and getting her to settle down with you. Strangely enough, this is an issue of guys looking for that same kind of control that MPAs want to have over their regulars. So I guess no matter how much you slice it things always circle around power and control in a relationship for either party, even in the sex work biz.

 

[hookerpuncher]

A lot of dudes want to be that classic Captain-save-a-hoe character you see in movies and tv shows. Taking the girl out of a hustle lifestyle and getting her to settle down with you. Strangely enough, this is an issue of guys looking for that same kind of control that MPAs want to have over their regulars. So I guess no matter how much you slice it things always circle around power and control in a relationship for either party, even in the sex work biz.

They have Pretty Woman set to their favorite movie of all time lol

It's a power struggle on both sides. Girl wants to be taken out of the business but you have to support her lifestyle regardless of what it is cause you were the one to say you will save her from it. Once the reality of how much that is the guy back peddles on his offer. On the flip side if the guy doesn't want to take full responsibility for financial support he gets jealous and envious when the girl works and demands she doesn't anymore cause he's worried another guy will take his place.

Simple answer is don't date them but going through this thread and talking with others, it won't ever stop them. Pussy is such a great drug that they'll take the lows that come with it.

 

[OG_funguy]

It's funny how some guys go on and on about this...ok, we get it.

But not everyone that sees MPAs outside the spa are some white knight suckers...you just need to have awareness and play the game to your advantage

 

[Hornet]

Does maxing out a credit card and credit line constitute a failed relationship with an MPA?

 

[OG_funguy]

Have you really done that? If yes, you need to share your story as a warning to others

Does maxing out a credit card and credit line constitute a failed relationship with an MPA?

 

[Hornet]

Have you really done that? If yes, you need to share your story as a warning to others

No, I’ve never done that myself. I was just trying to be funny. I manage my money well and keep hobbying within a budget.

I’m not against the idea of a relationship with an MPA but they must meet certain minimal criteria:

• No drug addicts
• No MPA’s known for providing extras. If they can set their limits, I know they have a code and they can separate work from regular life
• MPA’s must have their exit plan from this business, and they have their own money and can manage it well. This way I know they have a good head on their shoulders and are not chasing the next quick dollar
• Intelligent

Few make the cut.

 

[xtc27]

It's funny how some guys go on and on about this...ok, we get it.

But not everyone that sees MPAs outside the spa are some white knight suckers...you just need to have awareness and play the game to your advantage

… FWB > GF … but if u gotta do gf route, keep it almost $$$ free… & NSA

… lotsa fun 2b had playing behind the curtain… getting mpa trust leads 2 getting spa mgr / owner trust = 1st step to Wonderland pass = no rm fees… even $$$ coming 2u!

Most of guys posting schedules & even some ads on this site = hobbyists, not spa owners or professionals … some send me DMs 2… … smart guys!

Some mpas & spa owners just need a lil help, but have fun ways of paying back … once they’re gf, forgetaboutit! Everything just became free… d’oh!

 

[The Scarlet Gentleman]

One MPA at a place in Toronto asked for my number after a third visit. Just last week. Told me she liked me and that I was "nice". Who knows what her intention was? To date? Run a scam? Text for private session? I never give out my number to these places after a couple of bad experiences with MPAs. I'm now very particular in where I go. I made my excuse after she told me she's always around. It's not worth finding out. Conduct your business and leave. You can always find a girlfriend elsewhere if that's what you're looking for.

 

[hookerpuncher]

No, I’ve never done that myself. I was just trying to be funny. I manage my money well and keep hobbying within a budget.

I’m not against the idea of a relationship with an MPA but they must meet certain minimal criteria:

• No drug addicts
• No MPA’s known for providing extras. If they can set their limits, I know they have a code and they can separate work from regular life
• MPA’s must have their exit plan from this business, and they have their own money and can manage it well. This way I know they have a good head on their shoulders and are not chasing the next quick dollar
• Intelligent

Few make the cut.

Applying that criteria to sex workers really narrows down your options to like 2% of working girls lol

Most if not all are on some substance; cocaine is exchanged and sold at the popular spas. If the girl isn't offering extras then she's not maximizing her time in the industry and intends to be a career hoe till she looks totally busted. I've only met 2 SPs that were smart with their money to invest it into real estate and live off the residuals. Point 4 ties into point 3, but in general if they were smart they wouldn't be doing this job. If you're young, ambitious and can sell yourself without using your body then there's endless possibilities to make money nowadays. Younger generation is more savvy with their hustles, I've seen kids clear 6 figures easy off YouTube videos, drop shipments, TikTok, etc. and its for the stupidest shit in reality.

 

[The Scarlet Gentleman]

A lot of dudes want to be that classic Captain-save-a-hoe character you see in movies and tv shows. Taking the girl out of a hustle lifestyle and getting her to settle down with you. Strangely enough, this is an issue of guys looking for that same kind of control that MPAs want to have over their regulars. So I guess no matter how much you slice it things always circle around power and control in a relationship for either party, even in the sex work biz.

Absolutely. After a single visit one tried to simp me. It was hilarious. Hilarious! Unbeknownst to her I'm a bit too confident and even egotistical for that. But I was amused at her trying and let her know that only works on the internet.

 

[xtc27]

One MPA at a place in Toronto asked for my number after a third visit. Just last week. Told me she liked me and that I was "nice". Who knows what her intention was? To date? Run a scam? Text for private session? I never give out my number to these places after a couple of bad experiences with MPAs. I'm now very particular in where I go. I made my excuse after she told me she's always around. It's not worth finding out. Conduct your business and leave. You can always find a girlfriend elsewhere if that's what you're looking for.

So, she could b offering same services @ spa & less $$$ … seems like missed opportunity… ofc she might b trying something else… easy 2 say no & walk away