I can't believe an MPA said this about me ...

[Bob N]

If it makes ya feel any better, it is not a chick thing... I don't like you either

I work a lot of accounts where I do not like the people involved. I am still a total professional, make the most of it, and generate business. Why the fuck should these women actually *like* you? I find men are rarely the best judge of their behavior and level of smoooveness with the womens.. except Rusty, who always seems very very centered.

 

[sgtslick321]

"I don't like that guy !!!"

These were the exact words that I heard from an MPA who I have seen a few times before. I will not disclose her name (so please no PM's), but she has her fair share of fans on this board. I was also a fan up until now, and was stunned upon hearing those words come out of her mouth. How can any MPA not like TLM ... I'm "The Love Machine", damnit !!! Anyways, here's how it all went down.

I stopped by this MP, and was escorted to one of the rooms by the receptionist/MPA. In the opposite room was the MPA who would utter those words. The door to that room was wide-open since she was fixing it at that time. Seeing her there, I took the opportunity to say 'hi', after which the receptionist/MPA began to close the door behind me. The door was not even fully shut when I heard the MPA across the room say, "I don't like that guy !!!".

I knew that if I had stepped outside to have a word with her, I would have made a big scene. Something held me back, and I decided to swallow the bitter pill. It usually takes a lot to upset me, but the tone of her voice really got my blood boiling. I've always had very good sessions with this MPA, so I have no idea why she was being so harsh. Being a guy who loves to analyze things, I was just trying to figure out where she was coming from. Everytime I've seen this MPA, I treat her with respect, never being pushy or demanding about the services offered. On top of that, I take good care of myself, and always go into MP's smelling nice and well-dressed. Let's not forget that I have always gotten the top-option with her.

I know those words weren't meant for my ears, but after hearing them, I'm beginning to look at the MP scene in a whole different light. Probably, I'm just thinking about this too much. As for the MPA, I'm never going to see her again.

Have any of you experienced something like this ? If you were in my situation, what would you do ?

 

[zerojohnnyx]

You can't win them all over and there are going to be people in this world that don't get along. Its not that your a bad guy but sometimes it just happens....all you can do it just be nice and maybe one day they will see that you are indeed that LOVE MACHINE that you always go on about...

 

[Mike P]

I would have confronted her and definetly walked, seeing as she does'nt care about repeat clients, I would have dummied her and took the walk. but I wish you would tell us who and where!

 

[ironside]

Maybe the door closed b4 you heard her finish the sentence. Like:

1. I don't like that guy... [door closes]...having such a long shower before our session, cause the water gets so cold that... OR

2. I don't like that guy...[door closes]...first thing in the morning because it spoils me for the rest of my... OR

3. I don't like that guy...[door closes]...having to settle for just one of us when I know he'd like a duo... OR ??????????????????

 

[Big Bear]

I seriously am not a believer that most of the girls(especially @ the major spas) hate us and just because we are paying for their services the just put this mask on them,which just converts all of the negative feelings into positive.
Here and there we always encounter some mpas who in general either hate the job they are doing,the clients they are seeing or in some instances themselves but still they do it for the great money.BUT how hard they try to hide usually some of their actions tell us the truth.
I agree with NIKKI that all the Mpa's are not actors(A few might be,And a few literally are )As it is not very easy to hide negative feelings.
They might not be way too fond of some of us but unfortunately it's the part of their job to still give it their best try.
In my line of work, i deal with a fair amount of people that i don't like but still i deal with them in the most professional manner.This kind of hypocrisy has become an integral part of our society.

In Tlm's case ,i think it's more of a professionel jealousy then anything else.
After all HE is The Ladies Man, and as far as i know him he's a true gentleman too.

 

[Ryan I]

Not everyone is gonna like you. You have to realize that when you go to an MPA it's their job to "pretend" to like you. Unfortunately, you overheard a moment of truth



I have.



I said oh well, and moved on. You have to realize that we're business transactions to them, not friends

 

[themanticore07]

What the fuck happened to you this summer? Finally get pubic hair?

Sounding all mature and shit... just makes me worry, is all.

 

[Pompal 09.]

Hey, Ladies Man,

How can you be sure she was talking about you?

And even if she was, it is a tribute to her professionalism if she served you, and you didn't pick up on the fact that you weren't her fvourite client. I work in a service industry as well, and I know I like some clients much more than others, but I try to treat them all the same, and do the best job I can. After all, what matters is if they like me, since they're the ones paying for the service.

Don't take it to heart!

 

[jacko brightside]

That's not only a harsh statement but an extreme generalization. Yes I would agree that some MPAs have princess type attitudes but that's not completely exclusive to Allure. Most of our attendants are sweet, kind hearted individuals, who would never utter hurtful words about someone. Especially their clients.

If this did happen at Allure then please accept my deepest appologies.
We try very hard to maintain a high level of professionalism, so I would be greatly disappointed if this turned out to be true.

Also. I would almost rather you post the girls name who did this rather than allow people to speculate. We all know what happens when you assume.

 

[dramagirl]

This is the 2nd retarded thread I'll contribute to today...

I sit waiting for the girl in a towel in each and every rub 'n tug session assuming/thinking the following:

The girl that's about to walk through that door likes me about as much as I like the smell of gasoline being pumped. I like her about the same. However, she likes my wallet, and when she plays with my pee-pee I like her on an incremental basis too.
(Maybe there should be an Rub 'n Tug Elmo? I tolerate you, you tolerate me, I like your cash, you like my ass...na na na)

Any bullshit I hear to the contrary during the session, is just that, bullshit. Something like...
"Baby, I'm so glad to see you"...
probably means:
"I'm a little happier it's you rather than the guy that's been stalking me for weeks and keeps asking me to tell him I love him during the session..."

kkarn/

 

[Mikey]

Oh please TLM! If I had a nickel for everytime an MPA actually told me that in person, I'd probably have enough to buy a round of Frutopias at Blue Pearl.

I am often guilty of paralysis by analysis and at the end of the day, us Bodyslidin Bro's Behaving Badly ( ) are in the same predicament (sp?) as MP's. We can't please everyone and we can't be liked by everyone. Its good that you did find this out as it will let you venture out and find someone new and exciting....that also doesn't like you! JK

 

[Heakesaurry]

Really who cares

 

[Aja]

....my guess is it was at Allure

 

[Pompal 09.]

I did. And it's even more glorious and fun to play with then I dreamed it would be.

Having pubic hair has really made me smarten up and learn how to be a mature young gentleman. Thanks pubic hair. If it wasn't for you I'd still be drinking in my basement while watching Tom Green, instead of writing poetry and sharing my feelings.

 

[renclrk]

Speaking of Poolio, whatever happend to our resident zen master? Last I heard he was in Romania trying to kick start RERB (Romanian Escort Review Board). Do any of you know if he's back yet?

It's only a matter of time before Poolio's mellow ways change the entire world for the better.

 

[Meagan]

I know that, and I have moved on.

I guess I thought about it a little too much when I was there, but afterwards, realized that there are way too many good MPA's out there than to be worrying about this one.

 

[<barbierox>]

I'm sure some girls who see the same guys once, even twice a week feel the same way about some guys. I always treat it as business and not as if I'm a really good friend of hers, I know better than that. I wouldn't take it to heart, some girls don't like me because I'm hung like a mule. They don't like having to deal with a huge penis, but what can I do?

 

[Kathy C]

I knew someone was gonna ask this question.

First of all, there was no one else present besides the three of us in that area, and the three-way conversation started just as I saw the other MPA. Plus, right after I said 'hi' and the door began closing behind me, her response was very quick. It's one of those gutt-feeling things where you just know if something is meant for you.



Not at all. I think what I'm trying to say is that MPA's should be more aware of their surroundings before they say something like this.

 

[angel lovs wrestling!]

THAT was funny!