I struggled with this for a while.
30min is enough for me . It makes it a nice compact session with no wasted time.
45min is great IF you have a good connection and allows for some chit chatting before and after the session.
1hr is a waste for me I am not a MSOG guy. I rather a good build up and lots to unload. Vs trying to force a second shot. Also
Not really interested in paying for them to rest on my dime. They can do that on there own time.
I get it, however it also depends on what the reason is for having a session ... other than getting a load off your mind.
- For some, a slam bam - thanks is fine, with a little rub to fill the remaining time.
- Others want the buildup and "tease to frustration" making the cum shot intense.
In both cases 30 minutes is sufficient.
Some, myself included, prefer a longer session. I like to enjoy the girl ... all of her attributes. I also like to please them, massage them, go down on them, to the point of the session becoming a mutually enjoyable thing ... one intense "O" is good for me but it takes at least a 40 minute session ... preferably an hour.
If I bust and often they do too, before the time is up, I like to spend the last minutes lying there with them.
I guess lifespan's experiences, some enjoyable, some regrettable and some imagined, shape our reasons for seeking the dopamine rush.
Different needs and wants for every guy and girl.