I prefer to be happily ignorant about the real lives of SWs. And I also want them to know very little about me. When I step through the door of an MP I am entering an alternative reality. I accept them as they present themselves to me. Once I leave I am back in reality, no delusions. I pay to be pleased and pampered. While I sometimes make real human connections, and it is great when that happens, they only happen in character and inside the MP. None of us gets through life without hardship and mistakes, but that is no one elseโs business. Also, to be frank, I am not attracted to people that I feel sorry for.