What do you mean "seeing a MPA"? Do you want a serious relationship with her? If yes, think twice, most of them are working for money, and will only see who can support her financially and give the money she wants. If one day, you lose all your money, she will start seeing another one. Is that what you want? I know a lot of friends have the same situation, and they eventually broke up. As soon as she breaks up, she starts seeing another guy already. Not worth it. Remember, she has the same hole, whoever put in, it doesn't really matter.