I agree. Everything is YMMV no matter what. But it's still good to know if CIM is possible from a certain girl. If she does Bbbj and/or CIM with someone then there's a possibility she will offer the same to someone else. Nothing wrong with asking about whether a Spa girl does it or not. It's a paid business. Now if someone is asking about a neighbour's wife, then it's none of his business.