Shes very cautious (no dโuh) so persistence mebbe pays off โฆ
โฆ try texting
w enuf detail she can verify yer not some loserโฆ if using a burner
phone, u could try using regular oneโฆ
TBH, she needs 2 let her many regs find her, since shes had 2 change addresses & ph #s a few times โฆ & joining the club of regs make take time. Strong chance she googles yer ph #โฆ