@pri
What I like about your post, is that FINALLY, you managed to tell say NO and FUCK OFF to a bar girl. Do not have hopes of her 'apologizing' to you, that word will get added to her dictionary when she feels that she is short of cash. Till then it doesn't exist. What you need NOW is a good FUCK. so proceed to Raj Mahal/ Deepika/ Amit Palace/ Daasi, and lay a girl..and instead of blowing money, get her a few drinks (beer to finish in under a minute, dance a bit, vodka shot challenge, dance a bit more, whisky shot challenge, dance more, back to beer and then entry. You however, pls stick to beer!! By now, you would know which girls have 'fuck me' written on their faces...you've been to plenty of bars...and do not try and fuck a girl you have been eyeing...this is for your release...so pick a fresh 'piece'....the total cost of drinks will be lower than the 4K that you blew....or perhaps you could take the 'sexy grind girl' at that bar you mentioned (as you feel comfortable) and get to do the above on drinks and then fuck her brains out and yours!!
Thereafter, head to a nice restaurant and have a good meal.
Cheers!