Chat Does my favourite MPA like me or not???

[OG_funguy]

kl_funguy, I have been in this hobby long enough and I have dated so many MPAs through out my years. Some singles, some married, some with grown up kids, some with both husbands, kids and 2-3 boyfriends at the same time. Girls in this industry are all about business. They all are very good players and I myself had learnt it a hard way.

I am pretty sure you have been played. I can guaranty she is married and have kids . She is afraid to be seen with you in public tells me clearly she is hiding something from you. If she really likes you and loves you, you can tell very easily by the way she communicates with you. If she is really into you, she will answer your calls and texts promptly and she will also be willing to see you any time you wish. Otherwise she was just playing with you to keep you as her regular and her solid regular source of income. Don't be surprised if you find out she also have 2-3 guys like you on the side.

Now I am working for a few spas and dealing with all the spa girls almost every day, hanging out with them on and off the clock and listen to their stories almost every day. Some girls are so good at playing and so mean to a point I have to warn some guys to be careful who they are dealing with.. Sometimes I have to tell the girls to play fair and not to take too much advantage of the vulnerable suckers. Some girls are ok but some told me blunt they are not forcing them to do those things. They are just stupid and are willing victims. Sometimes it was quite true. Some idiot still refused to believe what they heard from me.

Krayjee, I know you are very close to these ladies, have tons of experience in this regard and I do respect your opinion but some of the "assumptions" you are making are not accurate. First, I never said she didn't have kid(s) and I'm quite familiar with her marital situation. Also, when did I say she's afraid to be seen in public with me (if anything, it's the other way around because I'm always looking over my shoulder when I'm out with her). I've been out in public with her many times and know some of her closest friends quite well. In fact, I believe I said the first time we went out was to a place where many of her friends were present. Before she left to China, she wanted to go to party where there would have been close to 200 people, many of whom know her (the real her). She does answer my texts promptly and I can call her any time I want, if I wish to do so.

Does she have boyfriends? She tells me she doesn't and I believe her but I guess it's possible she's lying. Keep in mind, we're not dating per se and we've definitely never said we would be exclusive to each other so there's really no reason for her to be dishonest about this. I totally get that one day she may meet a single man that can give her everything she's looking for. In the meantime, we're just enjoying each other's company. No one is being taken advantage of here...I've never spent money on her, other than a small gift on her birthday (which she did the same for mine) and she never asks when I'm going to visit her at the spa next.

 

[Leviathan]

You forgot one underlying differentiating factor. I look in the mirror and ask myself am I good catch ? I’m Thai, divorced, with minimal wealth and old with baggage. And live in industry of sex workers who are addicted to fast cash letting me dip my pencil dick bare back in exchange to be the next upcoming gem.

So I’m not exactly a great catch to the 1 percenter mpa who have the strength and fortitude to leave the industry for greener pastures.

Lord Kray

kl_funguy, I have been in this hobby long enough and I have dated so many MPAs through out my years. Some singles, some married, some with grown up kids, some with both husbands, kids and 2-3 boyfriends at the same time. Girls in this industry are all about business. They all are very good players and I myself had learnt it a hard way.

I am pretty sure you have been played. I can guaranty she is married and have kids . She is afraid to be seen with you in public tells me clearly she is hiding something from you. If she really likes you and loves you, you can tell very easily by the way she communicates with you. If she is really into you, she will answer your calls and texts promptly and she will also be willing to see you any time you wish. Otherwise she was just playing with you to keep you as her regular and her solid regular source of income. Don't be surprised if you find out she also have 2-3 guys like you on the side.

Now I am working for a few spas and dealing with all the spa girls almost every day, hanging out with them on and off the clock and listen to their stories almost every day. Some girls are so good at playing and so mean to a point I have to warn some guys to be careful who they are dealing with.. Sometimes I have to tell the girls to play fair and not to take too much advantage of the vulnerable suckers. Some girls are ok but some told me blunt they are not forcing them to do those things. They are just stupid and are willing victims. Sometimes it was quite true. Some idiot still refused to believe what they heard from me.

 

[Craig_45671234523__]

MPAs don't like any of us. They only like the money we give to them. They will act like they are your temporary girlfriend for 30 minutes or an hour.

 

[Leviathan]

Dude. These guys are all projecting based on their perceptions or real life experiences unique only to themselves and the selected women. It appears you feel you need to constantly explain yourself. Is it a psychological defence or defiance mechanism ? Or both ? LoL

Lord Kray

Krayjee, I know you are very close to these ladies, have tons of experience in this regard and I do respect your opinion but some of the "assumptions" you are making are not accurate. First, I never said she didn't have kid(s) and I'm quite familiar with her marital situation. Also, when did I say she's afraid to be seen in public with me (if anything, it's the other way around because I'm always looking over my shoulder when I'm out with her). I've been out in public with her many times and know some of her closest friends quite well. In fact, I believe I said the first time we went out was to a place where many of her friends were present. Before she left to China, she wanted to go to party where there would have been close to 200 people, many of whom know her (the real her). She does answer my texts promptly and I can call her any time I want, if I wish to do so.

Does she have boyfriends? She tells me she doesn't and I believe her but I guess it's possible she's lying. Keep in mind, we're not dating per se and we've definitely never said we would be exclusive to each other so there's really no reason for her to be dishonest about this. I totally get that one day she may meet a single man that can give her everything she's looking for. In the meantime, we're just enjoying each other's company. No one is being taken advantage of here...I've never spent money on her, other than a small gift on her birthday (which she did the same for mine) and she never asks when I'm going to visit her at the spa next.

 

[OG_funguy]

I'm more than happy to hear other opinions as long as they're based on what I said and not made up stuff, that's all.

Anyways, you said it best when you said no one should know the situation better than me. I've appreciated all the responses but came to the conclusion you are absolutely correct in saying that. People are applying their own experiences but in many (not all) cases, it's like comparing apples to oranges.

 

[Leviathan]

If you are of sound judgement n mind and most importantly an independent thinker one would argue you don’t need to seek 3rd party advice or opinions.

You are clearly conflicted.

I'm more than happy to hear other opinions as long as they're based on what I said and not made up stuff, that's all.

Anyways, you said it best when you said no one should know the situation better than me. I've appreciated all the responses but came to the conclusion you are absolutely correct in saying that. People are applying their own experiences but in many (not all) cases, it's like comparing apples to oranges.

 

[cupcrazy]

When you said she is divorced. Did you check the paper work or you draw this conclusion t based on what she told you?

Also what is her status in Canada. Is her a permanent resident, a refugee, come here on a tourist visa? You obviously don't need to share her status here.

If she is not a permanent resident or Canadian citizen, I would approach this relationship with caution as there is a potential marriage fraud down the road. If you haven't seen the 90 Days fiance, maybe you should watch it and hopefully learn from it. Again I never met her or you in person but always proceed with caution.

You may not spend a lot of money on gifts but you spend quite a bit when you book sessions with her.

 

[OG_funguy]

When you said she is divorced. Did you check the paper work or you draw this conclusion t based on what she told you?

Also what is her status in Canada. Is her a permanent resident, a refugee, come here on a tourist visa? You obviously don't need to share her status here.

If she is not a permanent resident or Canadian citizen, I would approach this relationship with caution as there is a potential marriage fraud down the road. If you haven't seen the 90 Days fiance, maybe you should watch it and hopefully learn from it. Again I never met her or you in person but always proceed with caution.

You may not spend a lot of money on gifts but you spend quite a bit when you book sessions with her.

Thank you, this is the type of level headed advice that's more useful than the typical responses I got...

 

[Leviathan]

Serious? You didn’t even think of this angle ? Ok I was wrong. You need plenty of opinions. LoL

Thank you, this is the type of level headed advice that's more useful than the typical responses I got...

 

[OG_funguy]

Serious? You didn’t even think of this angle ? Ok I was wrong. You need plenty of opinions. LoL

My point was...at least he had something useful to share. I may have needed some opinions when I started this thread but, no disrespect to anyone, I don't think there's anything anyone can add now that is useful anymore. This thread belongs in the archives.

 

[Jethro Tull]

As someone going through something rather similar to the OP I have found this thread quite fascinating. With regards to your situation and my own I allow for all possibilities (including the most positive/negative) but I believe the reality falls somewhere in the middle. I hope you keep us posted as to how it plays out when your lady returns from China. How often she has contacted you while in China might be a good indication of her interest. If she has gone quiet for most of her absence but just prior to her returning begins to make frequent contact may indicate her interest is purely business as her mind returns to business matters as the return date approaches. I hope it works out well.

 

[cupcrazy]

I wish you the best of luck with this girl.

You claimed you two are not dating so does she considered you as a friend with benefit or just another client? You should also ask yourself what is the girl to you? A concubine or a special MPA?

 

[OG_funguy]

As someone going through something rather similar to the OP I have found this thread quite fascinating. With regards to your situation and my own I allow for all possibilities (including the most positive/negative) but I believe the reality falls somewhere in the middle. I hope you keep us posted as to how it plays out when your lady returns from China. How often she has contacted you while in China might be a good indication of her interest. If she has gone quiet for most of her absence but just prior to her returning begins to make frequent contact may indicate her interest is purely business as her mind returns to business matters as the return date approaches. I hope it works out well.

Thanks, yes she has sent me a bunch of texts while she is in China including pics and videos of her hometown...

 

[Leviathan]

I was being semi sarcastic. Nobody bothers to read the historical posts. Newbies just pile on saying the same thing repeatedly raised in the past hoping they bring great unique insight because it hits so “close to home”.

Even normal civilian relationships are fraught with danger . These mpa relationships just add another layer of complexity. I bet you 99 % of the members are in dysfunctional relationships. And some just secretly beg to be in one cause they fear a life of solitude like Dr Douche tired of listening to himself pontificate LoL

My point was...at least he had something useful to share. I may have needed some opinions when I started this thread but, no disrespect to anyone, I don't think there's anything anyone can add now that is useful anymore. This thread belongs in the archives.

 

[cupcrazy]

Thanks, yes she has sent me a bunch of texts while she is in China including pics and videos of her hometown...

doesn't mean much. My ex send me a bunch of her photos in the past and her family members.

 

[OG_funguy]

I wish you the best of luck with this girl.

You claimed you two are not dating so does she considered you as a friend with benefit or just another client? You should also ask yourself what is the girl to you? A concubine or a special MPA?

Thanks, I guess that's the million dollar question (for both of us)...things really just started picking up prior to her going to China so I guess this will be the year that things will become much more clear.

 

[OG_funguy]

doesn't mean much. My ex send me a bunch of her photos in the past and her family members.

Was just answering his question...

 

[cupcrazy]

Thanks, I guess that's the million dollar question (for both of us)...things really just started picking up prior to her going to China so I guess this will be the year that things will become much more clear.

Ideally, what do you want to get out of the relationship between you two? You should also include you wife in the picture as well.

 

[topo112]

Most of them are in relationships, they pretend to be interested in us just so we keep booking them. As soon as they retire they won’t answer our messages. They do their MPAs job for the money. When we quit a job we don’t go back to visit, same thing with them. They probably hate us hahaha.

 

[AthleticAF]

you got money?