Chat Does my favourite MPA like me or not???

[OG_funguy]

you got money?

Not really, I wish I did!

 

[AthleticAF]

You are now on the path to enlightenment....

 

[cupcrazy]

Not really, I wish I did!

any updates?

 

[cupcrazy]

where will you be seeing her? at the spa?

 

[Pay2Play]

Well, she will finally be back next week! I haven't seen her in ages. Per the text exchange below, I plan to take her out somewhere. When I started this thread, she would always make some sort of excuse not to go out with me (even though I could tell she had feelings for me). Luckily, something changed along the way and that's no longer an issue. Not sure where this is going but 2019 should be an interesting year...

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Be prepared to be disappointed.

 

[OG_funguy]

where will you be seeing her? at the spa?

No, of course not. I plan to take her out for dinner and then hang out somewhere afterwards...

 

[Pay2Play]

No, of course not. I plan to take her out for dinner and then hang out somewhere afterwards...

Did you finally separate from your wife?

 

[Shag]

No, of course not. I plan to take her out for dinner and then hang out somewhere afterwards...

If you ever see her in the spa, it is business.
You can chop it, slice it or dice it any way you want.

It is just business.

Hey soon I can publish complete testimony by a MPA in regards to how "the ladies" view us.

 

[OG_funguy]

If you ever see her in the spa, it is business.
You can chop it, slice it or dice it any way you want.

It is just business.

Hey soon I can publish complete testimony by a MPA in regards to how "the ladies" view us.

Totally agree...one step at a time though. Plus, the reality is the spa is one of the few places where we can actually be alone together.

 

[Shag]

Totally agree...one step at a time though. Plus, the reality is the spa is one of the few places where we can actually be alone together.

LMAO

is that the dice, slice or chop?

actually I don't care

good luck with that

 

[Leviathan]

Is this what they call extended word foreplay ? LoL

Well, she will finally be back next week! I haven't seen her in ages. Per the text exchange below, I plan to take her out somewhere. When I started this thread, she would always make some sort of excuse not to go out with me (even though I could tell she had feelings for me). Luckily, something changed along the way and that's no longer an issue. Not sure where this is going but 2019 should be an interesting year...

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[topo112]

No, of course not. I plan to take her out for dinner and then hang out somewhere afterwards...

How much will you pay for that?

 

[OG_funguy]

How much will you pay for that?

I don't know...maybe $30 or $40. Neither of us eat much so it will just be something simple like always.

 

[OG_funguy]

Is this what they call extended word foreplay ? LoL

Yes, no doubt. Unfortunately, a combination of factors (time availability, place availability, etc.) has put the "courting" process in super slow motion. It is what it is...

 

[Leviathan]

I’m of the opinion if 2 people of the opposite sex dig each other will find a way to Meet - 365 days 24 hours. Surely there is a way outside work hours? LoL

Yes, no doubt. Unfortunately, a combination of factors (time availability, place availability, etc.) has put the "courting" process in super slow motion. It is what it is...

 

[OG_funguy]

I’m of the opinion if 2 people of the opposite sex dig each other will find a way to Meet - 365 days 24 hours. Surely there is a way outside work hours? LoL

Well, let's say she works 6 days per week at the spa (long hours as you know). Then on her day off, I'm either working or have personal commitments. It's just hard to make the scheduling work, especially when neither of us have our own place.
Thus, even if she was willing to see me all the time outside of the spa, the reality is I can only usually find time to see her at the spa. The odd time on her day off, I may be able to go out with her but that's about it.

 

[Pauliedubs]

• Whatever she tells you that she can tell anyone else
• Whatever extra she did with you she can also do with other clients
• She can have another “business” phone, Facebook, etc and gives the number out to clients which including you
• She can meet up with somebody else as well
• She refuses your gift, tips for your long term visiting
• Over all money talks

 

[Max User]

Every relationship is different, don't expect yours to be like anyone elses, especially if you cross cultures. I'm reminded of the movie As good As it Gets. Helen Hunt asks why it isn't perfect but that's too bad, it just isn't. Jack does good things for her and her son so she has to accept him as he is.

Now this girl does good things for you so enjoy. If she needs some money every week then pay up and feel good about it. If there's things you need then ask her and if she can't give what you want then move on. Christ told his disciples how to tell the difference between good and evil. If a tree bears good fruit then its a good tree. If not then chop it down and plant another.

You're married but you want to see her in other situations. That would be marital suicide. If that's what you want then just leave your wife and pay up. Once you're single you'll be a chick magnet. Until then not so much.

 

[Hangdai]

Well, she will finally be back next week! I haven't seen her in ages. Per the text exchange below, I plan to take her out somewhere. When I started this thread, she would always make some sort of excuse not to go out with me (even though I could tell she had feelings for me). Luckily, something changed along the way and that's no longer an issue. Not sure where this is going but 2019 should be an interesting year...

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It’s nice to look forward to something, or someone special.

I’m glad this thread is still going, for better or worse it’s always reassuring to know that guys are not alone in their struggle for that elusive fantasy we all will succumb to in one form or another.

 

[OG_funguy]

It’s nice to look forward to something, or someone special.

I’m glad this thread is still going, for better or worse it’s always reassuring to know that guys are not alone in their struggle for that elusive fantasy we all will succumb to in one form or another.

Nice to hear from you...it's been a while. Now that you surfaced, let's see if Levi can remain civil here (I'm hoping so)