Education of son!!!!

[David V]

I did not say I don't hang out with guys that would **** BG's or prostitutes, I said the kind of guys I would hook up with aren't the type that would do that. I like innocent sweet guys even though I am far from an innocent sweet girl, opposites attract I guess.

I also do not believe all boys will be boys as you define them, yes many will, but many many will not. People are not all the same, male, female or any nation etc.

 

[asitisnow]

Honestly... Who the **** do you think you are, that can come here and tell us what to do?
After 3 months in Thailand, do you think you know more about the country then the guys here that has been travelling to LOS since 10-15 years or the ones that lives there? I bet even a guy that has had a BG for 2 weeks have more insight of Thai life then you.

Either you calm down or just piss off.Your posts starting to be ridicioulus now...

 

[Cochise]

AS BAZ SAID PHUKET IS MUCH SAFER THAN BKK.JUST POP INTO MTB OR LOVE BAR AND THERE WILL BE PLENTY OF WILLING BMs TO SHOW THE TWO OF YE AROUND THE BARS........IM THERE MYSELF IN JULY.......
P.S. WELCOME TO THE BOARD......
IJ

 

[lakersfan]

Ok this is going off the rails now...

EuroGirl.. If you dont think your rant at this guy (who was asking how to keep his son safe within the reality of Thailand) was judgemental you are blind also.. You keep saying I just want to avoid the scene but then you post comments that ARE judgemental of others..

Listen to...


...and you think thats not judgemental ?? read it again ??? And he wasnt even saying that he was taking his son out to get laid etc.. Just looking to keep him safe in the real world..



Someone did.. His name is Nicke and its right here..

I am actually starting an online dating community with dating picture profiles / forums / chat etc (plus a whole load more) specifically for Thailands ladies of the night.. (www.AsianLovers.net).. I presume you dont want a free membership..

 

[Zumaria]

As usual you have hit the nail on the head..out of the park as they say.

Its always funny to me, when a woman proclaims her knowledge is factual because she has mates that confide in them...that's right down the ole alley.

Why are western women so damn sure of themselves?? It a question I long ago gave up trying to answer...My soulution is lbfm's forever. :biggrinlo

 

[Ann]

Damn! And you guys are so damn sure you can speak for all men? I have some news for you, younger guys are scared SHIT of hiv. Mention Thailand and sex in the same sentence and they cringe. Even if they may want to go wild that is enough to keep them from it. Also, one thing you do not take into account, some guys are just not attracted to them. I have several friends up here, males, who hit on me big time because it had been ages since they saw a western girl and they really have NO attraction to asian girls. Many of my friends, females, also have no attraction to asian men, I am HIGHLY attracted to them, so go figure. But you are at least as presumptious as me if not more so!

 

[ermac]

I hink she just means she doesnt object to the act.. she just finds it interferes with her being able to relate or have a laugh..

I could understand that.. As long as no high moral stance is being taken against girls, its a fair point of view..

 

[Rachel <3]

LivinLos, that is more excactly it. Just like I hate going to an irish bar when there is some folk band playing and I need to sit and listen to it, its interference.

 

[--PACIELLO--]

when are u two going to be in bkk?? I will be there during songkran and i have an EXCELLENT taste in thai girls (no pun intended) so maybe my girlfriend and i could take him off your hands for a night or something and show him around hint, hint (only for culturally educational purposes of course) aint nothin wrong with 19 yr. old c**k :cheergal: just kidding, just kidding.

 

[adamantia3190]

Im a 26 y.o guy...and while my sex drive is like any other guys, I find the prospect of STDs etc in Thailand puts me right off...Im not judging anyone who doesnt have the same worries, its just something that would be on my mind and I wouldnt look at taking a lease out on a BG.
To each their own.

 

[shottayout]

Izeickl, you are not alone. AND guys FYI there are quite a few people who lurk here who are scared to even post because they think that if they slightly come out with anything that can be misconsttrued as animosity toward BG's they are going to get jumped on by you lot! Think of that, because I am a tough girl but many would not have stayed this long and you have many men with the varying viewpoint I mention that won't even post out of fear of being jumped on.

 

[Suki]

Well I agree one thing with this girl....

Some people flame a bit too fast, newcomers :thumbsdow

I had my part of flaming in the past, but I got bright shoulders! I do not change my way of expressing for that!

But it is true that not everybody in the "real world"have a good opinion about"us!
There again I do not give a"shi*" what people think of me! If you try to do or say the good things, they will always find a reason to hurt you anyway! :complain:

But that is why I am suprised, that people are sometimes openly critizised here!
We should be a bit more patient, with people who do not have the same opinion as ourselfs!

For me, I think our behaviour is very understandable! Some find it to be disgusting to see a young Asian woman on the lab of an older man

Well let me say it this way.

I find it disgusting that we get old and have to see every day this in the mirror!

I find it disgusting, that a person, who was not born with good looks, should spend his life alone being sad, when he can have funn in Asia!

I find it disgusting, that people who have everything frawn on people who need a bit of affection!

There are many sad things in life, you can get ill, get cancer, being handicapped etc. So if you can enjoy, please do so! Everybody his own!

This doesn't mean, we have to be blind......

Some of these girls we gladly spend our time with, are NOT happy. Some are tired toget a bulldozer every night upon them. That their tighten puss*hurts from all this "big men" visiting it.....Send al their money to the family

But......there are girls, who do not care......They do not have to work more then 12 hours a day, cleaning the shi* of somebody else, for a lousy wedge.

They have fun at the bar, they sleep during the day and they got some "pointers" supporting them.

And even the sad girls, would be much sadder, if no men were visiting them and no money was spend by these horrible "farangs". Who most of them have a shitty life at home, and are glad to have find their "Disneyland"!

And do you know what, all these nice men, who never go to the bg's, live a so respectable life, are late every night to come home to their respectable family,because another meeting has turned out late...

A meeting with a mistress, nobody knows about, not to ruin their reputation!

I play it bad, but at least I am honest about it!!!

 

[Xeriena]

Dear Sxygirl
Having read your reply, I have to say I have never been more shocked in my life at your obvious attempt to lead my son into a path of moral degradation.
I understood that this forum was for enlightenment, education and not for discriminatory corruption. Yes I said discriminatory. Your attitude towards young and impressionable people is without forgiveness and I will have no hesitation in tracking you down and reporting you to the appropriate authorise both in Thailand and your home country.(where I am sure this kind of moral turpitude is illegal).


You are practicing the worst kind of discrimination “ageism”, you offer to corrupt my son but what about his father (me).Am I not worthy of your corruption, am I too “old” to be corrupted. I think not!!!

When you are nineteen, you can get all the corruption you can handle, but when you get a bit older, no one wants to know you. Who is paying for this lads flight,me, who is paying for his hotel,me, who will be buying the beers, me, who gets offers like yours,him! Is this fair??.I ask all BMs to condem this appalling attitude.
Please sexygirl, change your wicked ways before you are dragged even further downwards (possibly as far as my level) and remember, even you will be old one day.

Ps cannot find a tongue in cheek smiley .
PPS We wont be in Bangkok until second week of July, so we will sadly miss you (you will just have to find someone else to corrupt, lucky b*s*ard).
Have an excellent time and remember, if you come across a pile of elephant poo in the road, treat it as a roundabout,.

 

[~*Tisha*~]

It is strange how my opninions are called judgements but the opinions that are very judgemental of a good portion of the boys in the "bg" club are not! I certainly did judge this post LivinLos and would do it again. CeeGee wrote a post and cleared up some of my concerns but I did put my two cents in as many others have!

 

[Dewi]

I find it odd...now something smells here...how is it you just show up...just join and already you have your hand on the pulse of this board,passing out FYI's on the number of people that lurk here....and how they are scared to post...how in the world would you know that?

Izeickl have you ever been to thailand?

I just heard on the news...aparantly you can get an std from anywhere...Even inocent looking white girls.

 

[blackflamez951]

Ceegee, the scene is a bit different then in BKK.

The castel group gives shows upstairs, stiptease ping-pong games and that kind of stuff.

In Patong, there are most of "drinking-bars", where there are also girls, who you can invite for a drink and can take to your hotel-room afterwise. Except, some dancing on the bar, no shows are performed here. These bar are "outside", everybody can pass by.

There are a few go-go's in Soi Seadragon. They are poor compared to the Bkk one's and if I am not mistaken, no nudity is allowed.
But in the beer-bars, contact is easaly made, not only with girls, but also with other guys, like the bm's in MT-bar.

It is just like a big open air pub, where you can take the girls back home!

See that you are French, I live also in France in the Var. So if you want more info, always welcome!

et "bonnes vacances"! :cheergal:

 

[Whispers]

Personally I find it refreshing to have an opinionof a girl here.

This doesn't mean we have to agree with it, neither to flame her opinions.

But dear girl, you also know this is a forum about men loving Thailand and the girls.....

So I guess it is normal, that there is some resistance to your opinions

I DO hope you will introduce yourself in Mtbar and see thatwe are nice chaps and could be your neighbour. :cheers:

 

[ponders_99]

Remember the legal age for entering licensed premises is 20 years.

 

[joey l]

Nope never been there yet Im sorting some things out here first, but thats not the issue Ofcourse you can get STDs from anyone, but I wouldnt have sex with prostitutes here either. As I said before to each their own. I dont have a moral high ground and Id quite happily have drinks and a good time with BGs, im not looking down on them, I just wouldnt sleep with them is all im saying as I know I would be constantly worried during and after.

 

[Cahir]

like the infamous rodney king once said "why are these 5 white men beating the shit out of me?"...err i mean "can't we all just get along?"....

(please dont' flame me, i have niether an opinion or an orginal thought that may or may not go against the crowd assembled with pitchforks)...


gotta voice my support for eurogirl though...i hear what she's saying, and it was cool that the father cleared it up and they no longer have beef, so why is everybody else's panties in a bunch? its just someboyd's thoughts on a subject...who cares if one person thinks you're a certain way...since htis is the internet, odds are slim to none that you may actually meet said person...

my 2 cents are in...see you all in a few weeks i'll be the drunk indian guy (red dot, not feather).