Education of son!!!!

[wellhithere]

I suggest you take some of your own medicine darling - you said "Some of my posts bore you !! (don't read them then)". So if you don't like what's going on here, then don't read it.

Instead you could...

1. Go and play with the traffic
2. Look in the mirror and play "she loves me, she loves me not"
3. Become a volunteer "manual" mine-detector
4. Shake hands with the captain of the Titanic
5. Reveal the secrets of the pyramids, but preferably on a relevant website and not one about Phuket which doesn't have any.

As I was your first flame, you in return, are now first on my "ignore" list !! Congratulations !! Another first !!

 

[darkday]

Hade frهgat om Nicke var svensk men fick aldrig ett svar av dig. Dه ska jag absolut gه till hans bar, vad heter den?

 

[ScroogexJones]

It is a hard concept for a woman to grasp I didn't think you would understand this is why time with the father is critical at this seforum.xxxe of a young mans life, any guy who has a good relationship with his father will know what I'm talking about.

 

[pomi]

Let me take you back to your first post.



Judgemental to right, just because you're not getting any you have to rain havoc on our forum congratulations you're the first person to make my ignore list.

 

[Senor Cardgage]

Hi Eurogirl,

Here is a quote from you earlier -



Sorry to disappoint you, but thai girls dont smell of skunk, they smell of bplah.

With chilli.

 

[Zok]

Errm... does anyone know how to set up the "ignore" facility ??

 

[PFC Ramirez]

So Dad's frequent *****s with their sons? And what mom sits at home and waits and that is teaching your kid good values? Even if the Dad is divorced, he need not take his son to a *****, he can enjoy and bond with his son in a thousand other ways, that I am all for!

 

[Arron O]

blimey, wish my old man had dragged me off to Bk for my 18th; seem to remember getting a second hand Ford Capri instead!

G.

ps...Eurogirl, no need to put all your 'shouts' in caps, rather makes it look as though you think comprehending plain English is beyond the rest of us.

 

[goldenthread]

I agree with eurogirlinthai that it is strange that a father wants to "teach" his son about the nightlife. He is old enough to learn by himself...

But eurogirlinthai, try to calm down a bit.. Dont come here and be a moral police. Leave the board if it is things you dont like, or just skip those posts....

 

[ShineUmbreon]

And there's also AussieButterfly who never gets flamed and she does not indulge in BGs as she is married

 

[StopAdmin]

EuroThaiGirl, I respoded to your other thread before I saw this.. Sorry to say it but you are coming accross as the stereotypical bitter western woman..

This guy has made it clear thier objective is Scuba Diving and not the BG scene.. However they are coming to a place where the girls will go crazy over his young son and in his interest of protecting him a little but not hiding him from the reality of the world, he just wants to make sure things are as safe as possible for him.. He has said he isnt going to pay for anything for his son just behave as two adult males be in an environment where sex is 'on the cards'.. Whats so freaky about that..

Your reactions are really showing like you have a chip on your shoulder.. Its odd cause I know quite a few girls / women (a couple of Dutch ones in the bunch) that really enjoy going out in the bars.. They dont look down on working girls and treat the great strong female characters they meet like sisters.. they get treated great back in turn and everyone has a laugh.. These girls can seem to enjoy the wild life of Thailand without feeling threatened by, or in competition with, it..

 

[Smith]

Sod it, I can't work this ignore thing out ! Oh what the hell...

For goodness sake woman, is there no end to your insessant whitterings ??



...now where is this fecking "ignore" button ??

 

[3utkarsh3]

After a few years working at Lolitas I suppose the ole girl can be jaded. Let the Man be a father and the young man get enjoy getting more **** the thron in a public WC. You not being a Dad makes this something yo've not a clue about....Give the lad a big box of condoms and buy him a three some for his first night ! That be a good act of a fine father :blah:

 

[kate86]

That particular post just really bugged me. I know a lot of young guys and think they would rather die than do those kind of things with their dads. In fact many of them would not be to keen on doing it at all. (young guys are a LOT different today than ever before). It also makes me worry due to health issues and if Dad is saying, yeah its ok go ahead son, safety issues may not be followed if you understand me.

Trust me I am not moral police, I am as wild as they come myself, I am admittedly turned off by the opportunist nature of the Thai scene (believe in giving it away I guess), but again believe in everyone's right to live as they want. So do not get me wrong, it is not a moral issue, though in this case it kind of is as its just plain weird! But point taken.

 

[Jacob B]

Glad to see the level of maturity on this board! River, I have no problem "getting some" that is not what my enquiry was about, it was about going to a chilled place where I could get pissed that did not involve the bg scene. A concept that seems to inflame many of you.

 

[Pompal 09.]

Well I do not think it is the concept, but the way it is brought to us.... :blah:

 

[hairbender]

Sorry but where are these young guys you know from? Because im a young guy who hangs out with lots of young guys and believe me all of them would love to be coming with me on my next tour in april.

So I dont know where your getting your imformation from but its a load of crap, Honestly the only ones I know that didnt was my cousin but only because he was fearful of catching something which is normal I guess.

But other than that the only other ones I know that wouldnt are ones who are in long term relationships and the really good looking guys (They shag them for free)

 

[Gooner.tnh.23.]

I have followed this thread from the begining.THis started off as a few basic questions about a holiday repeat holiday.Also a Dad trying to do the best for his son.
I am not going to agree or disagree with any of the opinions expressed by anyone, male, female or other.
If I had wanted to propose a slanging match between BMs I would have chosen something like politics, religion etc (These are about the only things that have not been mentioned).
As the original "attack" was made on myself by Eurogirl I feel entitled to say leave off her now.To the other BMs that feel strongly about what she has said, start off another thread, do not hijack this one.
I am not saying she is right or wrong, my personal opinion of her is mine not public property.
I appreciate all those BMs that have risen to my support and thank you but please bring it to a close.Eurogirl will always have her opinion as will everyone else and nothing anyone can say here will change anyones mind one little bit.
At one point in this correspondence I though F**K Phuket I will go somewhere else for my holiday (a monastery perhaps).
Please,please just leave it now. Please look at my original post, I still want constructive answers.
To Nicke, sorry your board has been hijacked in this way,I think I might owe you a drink or two.
Hell, I think I will just go visit Sexygirl and sob on her shoulder. :mad2: :mad2: :mad2: :mad2:

 

[None-of-ur-business]

Yeah my little brother has been coming to Asia for a few years now.. He keep bringing his mates.. Not a damn one of them didnt take to it like a duck to water..

 

[Christopher]

How about this ? You book in to separate hotels, your son knows you are there and can contact you if he is need of assistance (probably money LOL !!) but as has been said, Patong is nothing like Bangkok and is far more relaxed. This doesn't mean it is 100% safe, but where is ??

Think back to when you were 19 and it was a completely different society than today's. Try to think about it from your son's point of view as much as you can. How would he feel if he saw a girl he really liked, but was sitting with you in a bar ? Granted you might encourage him to start talking, relax and enjoy the moment, but what happens when he wants to partake of some bedroom olympics ?? The chances are in the hotel, you will have rooms very close to each other, does junior want to be bonking away with Dad in the next room ? Hence the suggestion for maybe choosing different hotels. Also, when you are out and about together, won't he feel like you're "cramping his style" ?? Sure there will be times you want to spend together, but out on the crawl, a young fella prefers to be with his own age group. Maybe you can take him along to the MTB and he can meet a few fellow board members that are there at the time who are a similar age. That would also apply to you as well.

It doesn't necessarily have to be 2 separate holidays, but at the same time you don't have to spend all your time together. Try to find out if any other board members will be there at the same time and see if you can link up with them. Also, it is very easy to make friends and start up conversations with other fellas there. This side of things should be easy to do and should hopefully mean you are both relaxed with the situation. Then your only real concerns are making sure he doesn't fall in to any of the traps that lads do when they are not yet worldly-wise like us old farts !! LOL I think, as long as he's got a sensible head on him, he will be fine and you are the best person to know if this is the case or not. If on the other hand he's got a bit of an attitude problem and has been in a few scrapes, then you need to keep the leash held a bit tighter.

I am not trying to imply anything by those last few lines, as I have no idea what sort of lad you've got, I am just trying to give some ideas and hopefully am making sense. You're the best judge of course and "holder of the golden wallet" but I feel that you will find that you are perhaps being a little too wary because of what happened in Bangkok. If you were going to Pattaya, I would say keep a very close eye on junior, but unless Patong has changed a hell of a lot since October 2004, then you will be fine and I hope you both have a great time.

Cheers
Diz