Butterfly Guide - Same Bar Difference Girl

[NaTuReS BeAuTy]

Butterfly Guide - Same Bar Difference Girl
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Everytime i sit down and chat with a girl already, usually i found a better
one in the same bar. Since other girls think the girl sit beside me is my
target, i didn't want to break her heart by LT another girl.

If i want to LT that better girl tomorrow or after 2 days, is it ok ?

Butterfly expert pls post some guide for the newbie, thanks ...


:cheergal: :cheergal: :cheergal:

 

[Smile Jesus Loves You]

This is a very common problem. You must understand that the girls will rarely compete with other girls in same bar. It is an unwritten law, the Code of the BGs. When you sit with one, then you are her customer and none of the others will go with you. Whoever pulls you into the bar gets you. You are her customer until she lets go her claim on you. So if you fancy another girl, you have to be very firm, and tell her to go away, you don't want her. You have to tell her in no uncertain terms. Better yet, tell her that you don't want to go with her, but that you fancy her friend. If she is very clear that she has no chance with you, then she may turn you over to her friend and it is a good way to get an introduction. But her friend will not do it without her OK.

Once you actually go with a girl, then you will not be able to get a girl from that bar to go with you until she relinquishes her claim on you. If you only had a drink with a girl, then left the bar, come back 2 nights later, then if the girl you drank with sees you and runs to you, you must turn her away or you will have the same problem. If she sees you and doesn't latch onto you when you walk in, you are free game. If she doesn't see you or is with another customer, then go directly to the one you want and buy her a drink. If she accepts the drink and sits with you, then you will probably be OK, but if need be, you must be clear that the first girl is rejected and has no chance with you.

To avoid this problem, I look over all the girls first and am very choosy about who I sit down with.

The only exception to the rule is if you establish Butterfly status in a bar. On my second tour, there was a bar in Seadragon where I went most nights. I made it clear that I was a butterfly, and never went with the same girl two nights in a row. There was a girl in the bar who was a friend, who I sometimes BFed to go to dinner or out drinking, but never for sex. I would go and sit with her, and look over the field. When I fancied one, I would go buy her a drink or have my friend ask her to join us. After not long, it was recognized by all the girls, that I was a free agent and let no BG have a claim on me. I went with many of the girls in that bar with never any hassles. On any given night, I took my pick. Some I went with 4 or 5 times, but never on consecutive nights.

JayBee

P.S. The girls don't care what you think or who your "target" is. To get what you want, sometimes it will require to hurt one girls's feelings a little bit, but, believe me, it is not heartbreak, because they don't feel anything for you. It is just normal rejection, just loss of face and loss of potential payday, no feelings of the heart involved at all.

 

[Client_u]

Don't buy the girl you don't want drinks as she herself will think she is the target.
If you do buy her a drink tell her the truth that you are interested in the other girl you have just spotted, she may even call her over and introduce you.
Always tell the ladies you like to ''butterfly'' and don't like long time relationships and are just on holiday for fun not for love.
If you do go back to a bar, leave it at least 2 or 3 days before picking another girl and buy the girl you barfined before a drink as soon as you arrive and make sure you don't ignore her as this will save face for her.

 

[shaybaby]

Bg's do not always keep themself to this code!

I remember that my regular honey was not there, and her friend was more willing to come with me, if I did not tell!

 

[CUPiiD97]

Can this trick work
I sit and chat with one girl 1st, found the better girl then tell the 1st girl that i like
that better girl and buy both of them drink if she invite the better girl come over.

 

[Artoro KJ Dancer 11999]

All depends how long you've been sitting at the bar, If you've been there a long time talking to a bg buying her drinks etc, I dont think she'd be too happy if you then tell her actually its not you i like its your mate, That would go down like a lead balloon no: But if you have just sat down at a bar and a bg sits beside you that you dont fancy and you see her friend that you do fancy, Buy her a drink, And just say to her who's that girl there? Whats her name? She looks nice? Could you introduce me to her etc... And if that does'nt work just leave and come back another night and make sure you sit down beside the one you do like

 

[Joy]

Wassup fellows
uke: mg: Do BG cares if you take two of em back to the hotel at the same nite. I almost did but i was'nt sure if the chick i was with mined. Teelak is this a word for thai chick? And wat is LOS pls clue me in. Thanks

 

[trohmaniacs]

Hi Oman!
I have never had a twin date myself, but I have heard from bargirls that they sometimes go with a man together with a girl-friend! Some new girls might even prefer to go together with a girl-friend, feel safer that way! Problem might be that some hotels will not allowe the guest to take in two girls at the same time!
Teelak or Teerak, simply means Darling or loved one!
LoS is short for Land of Smile: Thailand! Enjoy! TJ

 

[Pooja]

Thanks for the reply Thai JANE. Do you know where i can purchase a cheap ticket to Phuket from Guam? For December I really need another short Vacation. :complain:

 

[Nurse Beth]

Remeber guys the girl needs to have "face" but if your delicate and honest and don't promise the sky. You can take out differant girls from the same bar. Just not the next night.

Buy the girl you were with before a drink this will help.

And definatley let them know you are a butterfly the first night.

Cheers!

 

[The Chokey]

i haven't been to los, yet , but reading up on bar and gogos, i figured that when i do take the plunge that i would certainly find myself in this situation. do you think it would be appropriate to tip a bg that has tried to "claim" you to introduce you to her friend? or do you just buy her a lady drink and ask her to hook you up with her coworker? i figured i would end up walking into a place (or being pulled into it), some cutie would try to lock down a sale for the night, but if i saw someone else more my taste, i would give her 100-400 baht and ask her to introduce me to my chosen tilac. unrealistic? let me know, bm's.
evski

 

[onesocrkid]

Have some fun with them and play the bar girls off against eachother to see who really wants you're $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$

You're on holidays and you deserve to have them fight for your "love"

Be cool and be a player

 

[Sellasie]

And this is the guy who tried to lecture us how to behave with Thai women!

Well, well, great attitude!
:aan: :aan: :aan:
:mad2: :mad2: :mad2:

 

[JrEoSsUeS]

Dnftt

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[Kia Koala (Go Phils!!!)]

I'm a little regret now because i LT one BG more than 1 day and she want my email
and mobile number. She treat me like teerak and i like her, althought the sex is no
good.

I'm kind of butterfly, this make me have to ban that Soi.
I'm happy together with her, but at the same time want to butterfly too.

 

[WIL]

seeing that dude replied right after me :angry: , i feel i must reinterate my question before too many bm's start replying to his ridiculous comments. do you think that the bg you don't want to barfine for the night would take offense to getting a tip to introduce you to someone else? i figured that they would appreciate a couple hundred baht way more then a drink. or would she feel that she lost face? let me know, bm's. thanks, evski.

 

[ARBOB]

No - I think if you are nice to her, buy her a drink and give her a tip she will be ok with it - Especially if it is a large tip (Suggest min 100 baht upto half what you paid her last night)

The paying of the tip also makes it easy for you to bang her again.

She saves face, makes money and has a nice alchoholic beverage to consol herself with for having to find another complete stranger to sleep with other then you...

BTW I am become somewhat of an unlikely expert at barfining TG's from the same bar (MTB and Playschools) and have not suffered yet :aan:

 

[oppatika]

No No No :bangin:

YOU are on holidays so do want you want to. These BG's need to grow up and act like ADULTS. You are the customer hence you have the power :bangin:

Let them put on a tantrum but for crying out loud don't pay them "hush" money to not cause a scene. Thats just plain lame and pathetic :bangin:

Show them who is the boss and a player

 

[dustin]

You have absolutely no idea at all about asian concepts of face or how human nature works around the bar scene do you..

Basically you are an opinionated twat and I for one will be glad when you get tired of this place and go back to whatever rock you crawled out from under.

 

[Seth H]

I agree if you like a glass bottle stuck in your face I have to give you credit dude you do know how to wind people up :thumbsup: , I just hope no one is stupid enough to take your advice, They mite live to regret it or not

Ps: I bet you have never even been to los but your more than welcome to prove me wrong all you have to do is post a few pics